Can't We Talk about Something More Pleasant? 在线电子书 图书标签: 漫画 美国 生活 老去 英文 英文原版 独生女 社会
发表于2024-11-25
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评分已购。读得心酸心痛。这是作者为其九十多岁的父母送终的故事,没有什么煽情笔调,有时甚至坦诚得有些自私,写出了老人的各种固执、麻烦以及让人抓狂之处。尽管如此,却仍能觉出那难以割舍的爱意。读这本书的过程中,我很害怕,因为我和作者的处境何其相似,她反复在写我将要面对的,但是我将面对的只会更糟糕。。。
评分每个家庭组成部分都是很多温馨的小事。。树欲静而风不止,子欲养而亲不在。好好爱惜自己的父母家庭~~
评分紐約客上讀過片段後,留下了很深刻的印象,書本身也很不錯,可能用漫畫的方式來討論老年人的各種options(如assisted living等)旨在減少抑鬱感吧
评分太好看了,用漫画探讨老去、死亡以及同父母的复杂关系,敏感幽默又诚实。想推荐给很多人。
Roz Chast grew up in Brooklyn. Her cartoons began appearing in the New Yorker in 1978. Since then, she has published more than one thousand cartoons in the magazine. She has written and illustrated many books, including What I Hate: From A to Z, and the collections of her own cartoons The Party After You Left and Theories of Everything. She is the editor of The Best American Comics 2016 and the illustrator of Calvin Trillin's No Fair! No Fair! and Daniel Menaker's The African Svelte, all published in Fall 2016.
In her first memoir, Roz Chast brings her signature wit to the topic of aging parents. Spanning the last several years of their lives and told through four-color cartoons, family photos, and documents, and a narrative as rife with laughs as it is with tears, Chast’s memoir is both comfort and comic relief for anyone experiencing the life-altering loss of elderly parents.
When it came to her elderly mother and father, Roz held to the practices of denial, avoidance, and distraction. But when Elizabeth Chast climbed a ladder to locate an old souvenir from the “crazy closet”—with predictable results—the tools that had served Roz well through her parents’ seventies, eighties, and into their early nineties could no longer be deployed.
While the particulars are Chast-ian in their idiosyncrasies—an anxious father who had relied heavily on his wife for stability as he slipped into dementia and a former assistant principal mother whose overbearing personality had sidelined Roz for decades—the themes are universal: adult children accepting a parental role; aging and unstable parents leaving a family home for an institution; dealing with uncomfortable physical intimacies; managing logistics; and hiring strangers to provide the most personal care.
An amazing portrait of two lives at their end and an only child coping as best she can, Can We Talk about Something More Pleasant will show the full range of Roz Chast’s talent as cartoonist and storyteller.
文/莎拉·莱尔 康华译 2018-04-27 08:52 来源:澎湃新闻 原刊于《纽约时报》 为了向大家介绍她的父母,罗兹·查斯特打开储藏室,翻出了一些物件。她的父母就藏在这个储藏室里。在一堆杂七杂八的盒子和无关紧要的卧房用品之中,摆放着装有她母亲骨灰的酱紫色丝绒袋子,以及装有...
评分这本书已经在我的书加上放了快一年了,我每次都想找个天时地利人和的时候一口气看了它。 直到最近,因为家里的老人,我选择看这本书缓解一下自己的心情。 开始看的时候以为是那种如何照顾老人生活和最后时光的工具书籍。 慢慢的看下去,可能是美国与中国对待老人的观念不太同。...
评分这本书已经在我的书加上放了快一年了,我每次都想找个天时地利人和的时候一口气看了它。 直到最近,因为家里的老人,我选择看这本书缓解一下自己的心情。 开始看的时候以为是那种如何照顾老人生活和最后时光的工具书籍。 慢慢的看下去,可能是美国与中国对待老人的观念不太同。...
评分这本书已经在我的书加上放了快一年了,我每次都想找个天时地利人和的时候一口气看了它。 直到最近,因为家里的老人,我选择看这本书缓解一下自己的心情。 开始看的时候以为是那种如何照顾老人生活和最后时光的工具书籍。 慢慢的看下去,可能是美国与中国对待老人的观念不太同。...
评分文/莎拉·莱尔 康华译 2018-04-27 08:52 来源:澎湃新闻 原刊于《纽约时报》 为了向大家介绍她的父母,罗兹·查斯特打开储藏室,翻出了一些物件。她的父母就藏在这个储藏室里。在一堆杂七杂八的盒子和无关紧要的卧房用品之中,摆放着装有她母亲骨灰的酱紫色丝绒袋子,以及装有...
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