From Library Journal Formerly blamed for the illness, the families of schizophrenics are now more likely to be viewed as facilitators of treatment and healing. These first-person narratives provide insights into how two families coped with this devastating mental disease, which affects about one percent of the population. Neither provides easy answers, and those needing specific guidelines should consult Kim Mueser and Susan Gingerich's Coping with Schizophrenia: A Guide for Families (New Harbinger, 1994). Holley offers a moving account of how her distinguished and eccentric Southern family reacted when her mother, Dawn, was stricken. Missing fathers, well-off maiden aunts, and tales of child abuse and growing up in the 1960s deepen a story that reads like a well-written family saga. The author, who assumed responsibility for her mother's care at a young age, and her husband, a freelance writer, discuss relevant themes surrounding this disease (the mystery of its causes, the promise of drug therapy, the failure of deinstitutionalization, and public ignorance and prejudice) in the context of Dawn Elgin's life. Simon's Mad House is a more disturbing book. The journalist-author's brother and sister were schizophrenic, but according to this harrowing account her whole family was victimized by the disease. Combining personal experience with up-to-date research and interviews with other siblings, Simon emphasizes schizophrenia's terrible toll on immediate family members, including guilt, anger, and lifelong financial and emotional burdens. The book concludes with a set of recommended readings. Both books will appeal to relatives of the mentally ill and will educate others; Holley's in particular should fascinate a more general audience. Recommended for public libraries.?Antoinette Brinkman, Southwest Indiana Mental Health Ctr. Lib., EvansvilleCopyright 1997 Reed Business Information, Inc. From Booklist This poignant memoir casts light into the tangle of misinformation and misunderstanding about schizophrenia. Dawn Elgin was a promising jazz vocalist in 1940s Hollywood, but mental illness destroyed her career as well as her capacity to care for her tiny daughter. Raised by maternal relatives, Tara Elgin took over as her mother's legal guardian at age 16. By 1980, when single-parent journalist Holley met singer and bookstore salesperson Tara (now development director of Austin's art museum), Dawn was a street person familiar to hundreds of residents of the Texas capital. The Holleys' study blends the trajectories of Dawn's illness, Tara's childhood and her efforts to improve the quality of her mother's life, changes in scientific and social prescriptions for schizophrenia, and the authors' romance, marriage, and family life. Especially helpful for readers dealing with a family member's schizophrenia; also enlightening for those observing this devastating illness, for now, from the outside. Mary Carroll See all Editorial Reviews
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这本书的节奏感把握得极好,张弛有度,让人欲罢不能。它有着小说般的叙事魅力,但又因为其真实性而更具穿透力。作者在处理母亲形象时,展现了一种近乎矛盾的复杂情感——既有对病痛的深刻理解和无奈的接纳,也有作为女儿对缺失的、理想化母爱的无声渴望。这种内在的撕裂感,是许多描述心理健康议题的作品中常常被简化掉的部分,但在这里却被完整地保留了下来。我感觉自己仿佛和作者一起经历了那些漫长的、无人的夜晚,那些需要独自面对的决定。它提醒我们,在那些被标签化的疾病背后,生活依然在以一种琐碎、日常、充满爱意的方式继续着。这不是一个关于“如何治愈”的故事,而是一个关于“如何带着它继续生活”的动人篇章。
评分作为一名旁观者,阅读这本书的过程,与其说是“阅读”,不如说是一种深刻的同理心训练。它强迫我跳出自己有限的生活经验,去体验另一种生存状态:那种永远需要保持警觉的生存状态。作者对环境细节的捕捉能力令人惊叹,比如对光线、声音、甚至家具摆设的描述,都成为烘托内心世界波动的隐喻。她描绘的那个成长环境,充满了不规则的、难以预测的“天气系统”,而她和她的兄弟姐妹们,则必须学会即兴发明出应对风暴的策略。我尤其欣赏其中关于“界限”的探讨,那种在关爱与自我保护之间不断寻找平衡点的努力,那种成年后依然在学习如何为自己的人生划定安全区域的挣扎,是如此真实。这本书的价值在于,它将一个看似“小众”的经历,提升到了关于人类适应性与脆弱性的哲学层面。
评分这本书的叙事手法简直令人叹为观止,作者似乎有一种魔力,能将最私密、最沉重的个人经历,转化成一种既具有普遍共鸣又无比尖锐的文学作品。我读这本书的时候,常常会因为某一句话的精准描摹而停下来,需要时间消化那种力量。它没有刻意去煽情,却在平实的记录中,将那种长期生活在不确定性阴影下的紧张感,那种需要时刻扮演“看护者”角色的疲惫,刻画得入木三分。更让我印象深刻的是,作者对于家庭动态的细腻观察。那种在“正常”与“失控”之间小心翼翼维持平衡的家庭氛围,仿佛能触摸到。每一次家庭聚会,每一次突如其来的危机,都被描绘得真实可感,让人不禁反思,我们自己的家庭中,又有多少未曾言明的规则和牺牲在悄无声息地运作着。这不是一本简单的回忆录,它更像是一份关于情感韧性与代际创伤的深度研究报告,只是它的载体是如此迷人且引人入胜。
评分这本书最让我震撼的地方,在于它对“责任”这个词汇的解构与重塑。作者的文字里有一种沉静的力量,她没有把自己的成长塑造成一个受害者叙事,而是将自己塑造成一个积极的、甚至可以说近乎英雄式的记录者和存活者。她对亲情的定义,超越了传统意义上的相互依赖,而是一种更深层次的、基于共同经历的命运捆绑与相互救赎。阅读过程中,我时常会停下来,思考自己与父母、与原生家庭的关系中,哪些部分是基于爱,哪些部分是基于义务,哪些部分是出于恐惧。这本书的伟大之处在于,它提供了一面清晰的镜子,让所有在不完美家庭中长大的人,都能从中找到自己影子和面对未来的勇气。它证明了,最深刻的生命教育,往往发生在那些最不被预期的、充满挑战的环境之中。
评分这本书的语言风格极其克制,却充满了内在的张力。作者似乎在用一种近乎冷静的笔触去解剖那些最令人心碎的时刻,这种反差带来的冲击力远胜于歇斯底里的控诉。我特别欣赏作者处理时间线的方式,它并非线性推进,而是经常在过去和现在之间穿梭,这种闪回和对照,巧妙地揭示了童年经历如何持续地塑形着成年后的决策和情感反应。读到某些段落,我甚至能闻到那种老旧房屋特有的气味,感受到那种压抑在空气中、挥之不去的沉重感。它迫使读者去思考,当我们谈论“陪伴”和“爱护”时,真正的代价究竟是什么?作者没有提供简单的答案或廉价的安慰,而是忠实地呈现了成长的复杂性——它包含了无尽的爱,也包含了无尽的挣扎和有时甚至需要做出的痛苦切割。这是一种极其成熟的写作姿态,值得反复品味。
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