"Now there is a hand to hold..." Each year about eight million Americans suffer the death of someone close to them. Now for thse who face the challenges of sudden death, there is a hand to hold, written by two women who have experienced sudden loss. This updated edition of the best-selling bereavement classic will touch, comfort, uplift and console. Authors Brook Noel and Pamela D. Blair, Ph.D. explore sudden death and offers a comforting hand to hold for those who are grieving the sudden death of a loved one. Featured on ABC World News, Fox and Friends and many other shows, this book acts as a touchstone of sanity through difficult times. I Wasn't Ready to Say Goodbye covers such difficult topics as the first few weeks, suicide, death of a child, children and grief, funerals and rituals, physical effects, homicide and depression. New material covers the unique circumstances of loss, men and women's grieving styles, religion and faith, myths and misunderstandings, I Wasn't Ready to Say Goodbye reflects the shifting face of grief. These pages have offered solace to over eighty thousand people, ranging from seniors to teenagers and from the newly bereaved to those who lost a loved one years ago. Individuals engulfed by the immediate aftermath will find a special chapter covering the first few weeks. Tapping their personal histories and drawing on numerous interviews, authors Brook Noel and Pamela D. Blair, Ph.D, explore unexpected death and its role in the cycle of life. I Wasn't Ready to Say Goodbye provides survivors with a rock-steady anchor from which to weather the storm of pain and begin to rebuild their lives. PRAISE FOR I WASN'T READY TO SAY GOODBYE ""Ihighly recommend this book, not only to the bereaved, but to friends and counselors as well."" Helen Fitzgerald, author of The Grieving Child, The Mourning Handbook, and The Grieving Teen ""This book, by women who have done their homework on grief... can hold a hand and comfort a soul through grief 's wilderness. Oustanding references of where to see other help."" George C. Kandle, Pastoral Psychologist ""Finally, you have found a friend who can not only explain what has just occurred, but can take you by the hand and lead you to a place of healing and personal growth. Whether you are dealing with the loss of a family member, a close personal associate or a friend, this guide can help you survive and cope, but even more importantly... heal."" The Rebecca Review ""For those dealing with the loss of a loved one, or for those who want to help someone who is, this is a highly recommended read."" Midwest Book Review
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整本书读完后,给我的整体感觉是“回味悠长”。它不是那种读完就扔在一边的快餐读物,而是会像一颗种子一样,在你心底生根发芽,在你日常生活的某个不经意的瞬间,突然冒出一些与书中主题相关的联想。我发现自己开始用一种全新的视角去审视我身边的人际关系和那些看似微不足道的日常抉择。这本书探讨的主题,无疑是宏大而普世的,但它处理的方式却极其个人化和克制,没有说教,只有呈现。它提供了一个思考的框架,引导你去深入挖掘人性的复杂面向,去理解那些我们常常试图逃避的、关于“不完美”的部分。这是一次智力上和情感上的双重洗礼,读完后,我的内心世界似乎被重新梳理和校准了一番,那种满足感是任何速成的体验都无法比拟的。
评分书中对人物心理的刻画,其深度和广度令人叹服。那些角色,他们不是扁平的符号,而是有着多重矛盾和复杂挣扎的真实个体。我能清晰地感受到他们内心的撕扯,那种在理性与情感、责任与渴望之间摇摆不定的状态,太真实了。尤其是主角的内心独白,那些细微的、几乎难以察觉的自我怀疑和转念之间的挣扎,作者都用极其精准的语言捕捉了下来。我有时会停下来,反复阅读某一段话,只为体会那种无声的呐喊,那种只能被自己听见的痛苦或狂喜。更有甚者,我发现自己竟然能在某些角色的困境中,瞥见自己过往经历的影子,那些被我努力压抑的记忆和情感,仿佛被这本书温柔地挖掘了出来。这种近乎穿透灵魂的洞察力,让阅读不再仅仅是一种娱乐消遣,而更像是一场深刻的自我疗愈与审视。
评分这本书的叙事节奏掌握得如同大师级的指挥家,时而如涓涓细流般细腻入微,缓缓渗透进人物的内心世界;时而又像骤雨倾盆,将一系列高潮迭起的事件猛烈地砸向读者,让人喘不过气却又欲罢不能。我经常发现自己不自觉地屏住呼吸,紧盯着下一句话会带来什么样的转折。作者对于“留白”的运用简直是教科书级别的示范,他懂得在最关键的时刻戛然而止,将最复杂的情感和最深沉的思考留给读者自己去填充。这种开放式的处理方式,极大地激发了我的想象力和共情能力,读完一个章节后,我常常会起身踱步,在脑海中重构刚刚发生的一切,试图捕捉那些隐藏在对话背后的真正含义。这种需要“主动参与”的阅读体验,让我感觉自己不再是一个旁观者,而是与故事的命运紧密相连的一份子。每一次阅读,都有新的感悟浮现,仿佛这本书的内涵会随着我自身阅历的增长而不断深化,展现出不同的侧面。
评分这部作品的语言风格变化多端,显示出作者扎实的文字功底。有的段落行文如同古典诗词般凝练优美,每一个词语的选择都经过了千锤百炼,富有音乐性和画面感,读起来朗朗上口,充满韵律感;而另一些描述,则突然变得粗粝、直接,带着强烈的口语化色彩,那种未经修饰的真实感,如同在你耳边低语,充满了烟火气和无可辩驳的力量。这种在华丽与朴素之间自如切换的能力,使得整部作品的张力极佳,避免了任何可能出现的审美疲劳。我尤其欣赏作者在构建场景时所使用的感官细节,比如某种特定的气味、光线在特定材质上反射出的颜色,或者某种微小的声响,这些元素共同构建了一个无比立体且可信的世界,让人身临其境,仿佛能触摸到故事发生时的温度和湿度。
评分这本书的封面设计简直绝了,那种略带褪色的复古感一下子就抓住了我的眼球,让人不禁好奇里面到底藏着怎样一个故事。我记得当时在书店里,它就那么静静地立在那里,与周围的喧嚣形成了一种奇妙的和谐。内页的排版也处理得非常考究,字里行间透着一种对阅读体验的尊重。拿到手里分量适中,纸张的质感摸起来很舒服,那种微微的粗糙感,仿佛在邀请你沉浸其中。装帧的细节也看得出是用心了,书脊的压痕清晰有力,即便是反复翻阅,也感觉它能经受住时间的考验。我特别喜欢那种老派的印刷风格,墨水的层次感很丰富,让每一个字符都仿佛有了自己的呼吸。这本书的实体书本身,就是一件值得收藏的艺术品,光是把它放在书架上,就能提升整个房间的格调。它不张扬,却有一种沉静的力量,暗示着里面蕴含的内容绝非泛泛之辈,而是经过深思熟虑、精心雕琢的产物。每次拿起它,都像是在进行一次仪式,预示着即将开始一段深刻的旅程。
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