Stephanie Coontz is the director of Research and Public Education at the Council on Contemporary families and teaches history and family studies at The Evergreen State College in Olympia, Washington. She divides her time between Makaha, Hawaii, and Washington. The author of the award-winning The Way We Never Were: American Families and the Nostalgia Trap, she has written about marriage and family issues in many national journals, including The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal, The Washington Post, Harper's, Chicago Tribune, Vogue, Journal of Marriage and Family, and Family Therapy Magazine. Her work has been translated into japanese, German, French, and Spanish.
For most of our history, marriage was not a relationship based on mutual love between a breadwinning husband and an at-home wife, but an institution devoted to acquiring wealth, power, and property. Picking a mate on the basis of something as irrational as love would have been considered absurd. Only in the nineteenth century did marriage move to the denter of people's emotional lives.
肖伯纳曾经将婚姻描述为一种将这样两个人结合在一起的制度:“他们受制于最强烈、最疯狂、最蛊惑人心而又转瞬即逝的激情的支配。婚姻还要求他们宣誓永远保持处于这种过度兴奋、异乎寻常而又让人心力交瘁的状态,直到死亡将两人分开为止。” 肖伯纳的此番高论,在20...
评分作者用详实的史料写就了一本关于爱情和婚姻的历史,读起来不枯燥,但是在陈列事实的时候关于其产生的原因着墨不多,搭配《进化心理学》一书,体验更加。 所有婚姻制度的产生及发展脱离不了历史的局限,所有制度在当时是最好的也是最坏的,所以婚姻制度永远是一种状态而不是常态...
评分 评分今天的婚姻被视为一个爱情与友谊、性与稳定的幸福港湾。我们渴望金科玉律,渴望传统婚姻,但到头来却发现婚姻有过一段变化无常的过去。这种对人们认为是“传统的”东西所做的真实照察,最终解释了为什么有那么多人如此害怕结婚。 在这部开拓性的著作中,获奖历史学家斯蒂芬...
评分如今,生活中大龄单身青中年随处可见,人们还根据财富地位的高低,将这些单身者称为钻石王老五或单身狗。当然了,不乏钻石王老五自嘲为单身狗的。 他们之中的有些人逍遥自在,自己除了事业还有友谊,不在事业中打拼,就在享受娱乐休闲,将婚姻看成随缘,甚至直截了当做个不婚族...
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