Jacqui Marson is a counseling psychologist who has worked in prison and hospital settings, and now works in private practice. She regularly appears on BBC and has written for The Counselling Psychology Review, Psychologies magazine, and the Psychologist.
A fresh twist on assertiveness to help those who feel trapped, suffocated, and oppressed by the weight of others' expectations to break free and live life on their own terms
Many people's lives, relationships, careers, and well-being are marred by the belief that to be liked, loved, and accepted, they have to limit themselves to the behaviors they believe are approved of by others. This might mean always being polite, nice, helpful, charming, fun, making people feel good about themselves, not letting people down, never saying "no," avoiding conflict, or putting others' needs before their own. In her 15 years of clinical experience as a psychologist the author has coined the phrase "the curse of lovely" to describe this growing trend. Many people would like to be known as lovely, but for a growing number of people it can feel like a curse. This highly practical and motivational book shows readers how to break the curse of lovely to live a more complete, fulfilling life. It helps readers identify when "lovely" turns into a curse; examines the lovely child and how it all begins; and discusses the different types of "lovely." It then discusses how to move from curse to gift, remaining lovable yet getting our needs met; details how to tune in to what your body is telling you; teaches the reader to re-evaluate anger; and explores how to say "no" and survive, how to instigate scary conversations, and how to replace the personal rules that put you at the bottom of the pile.
我平时挺不待见一些教训为人处世的畅销书。 我曾有个认知,在西方世界,退休年龄的老大爷、老大妈早晨五点多晨练回来,拾掇完孙子的早饭,就能开始一天的写作。直到这些书稿远渡重洋,被端上畅销书架。 比如我姥爷,几十年的老教师,一有空就会坐在电脑前记录自己十几年的人...
评分我之前注册的豆瓣账号因为撕,注销了。 撕的起因,是我在豆瓣约稿,然后一个人投了十多次,但是每次要么质量不好,要么主题不合适,都没有用。她觉得我应该每次认真看她的稿子,写出修改意见,每次都应该回复,注明不能用的原因。这都每次收到一百多封投稿邮件的我来说太难了...
评分一个人回到现场,只跟自己说心事。这句话用在阅读《可爱的诅咒》前,是最靠谱的。 “痛苦分两种,一种让你变得更强,另一种毫无价值,只徒添折磨。我对没有价值的东西没有耐心。”《纸牌屋》里的经典台词,想必大家都知道。然而这部剧并没有手把手地教你如何对付没有价值的痛...
评分一位从事临终疗护工作的护士所写的一本名为《临终前最遗憾的五件事》书中,排在第一位的遗憾是:我希望我能够有勇气在生活中做真正的自己,而不是为别人对我的期望而活。排在第三位的是:我希望我能够有勇气说出自己的感受,而不用为了与别人和平相处而压抑它们。 这些大多数...
评分我之前注册的豆瓣账号因为撕,注销了。 撕的起因,是我在豆瓣约稿,然后一个人投了十多次,但是每次要么质量不好,要么主题不合适,都没有用。她觉得我应该每次认真看她的稿子,写出修改意见,每次都应该回复,注明不能用的原因。这都每次收到一百多封投稿邮件的我来说太难了...
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