Look Me in the Eye 在線電子書 圖書標籤: Asperger 心理學 原版 個人成長 傳記 Robison John Elder
發表於2024-12-23
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不懂為甚麼阿茲伯格會為交不到朋友而痛苦、更不懂阿茲伯格為甚麼要糾正別人玩玩具的方法,這自傳還是看不下去瞭。
評分Asperger給作者帶來瞭智力上的天賦,社交上的痛苦。
評分不懂為甚麼阿茲伯格會為交不到朋友而痛苦、更不懂阿茲伯格為甚麼要糾正別人玩玩具的方法,這自傳還是看不下去瞭。
評分Aspergian的寫作風格
評分很容易讀的一本關於亞斯伯格的書。作者以自傳形式講述瞭自己的成長史。不知怎麼的,我覺得自己和作者有很多共同之處,但是我自己更多的是沒有機會去學習社交技能而已。所以我深信social skills are learned or acquired, not born with。作者的人生故事很有意思。
Ever since he was small, John Robison had longed to connect with other people, but by the time he was a teenager, his odd habits—an inclination to blurt out non sequiturs, avoid eye contact, dismantle radios, and dig five-foot holes (and stick his younger brother in them)—had earned him the label “social deviant.” No guidance came from his mother, who conversed with light fixtures, or his father, who spent evenings pickling himself in sherry. It was no wonder he gravitated to machines, which could, at least, be counted on.
After fleeing his parents and dropping out of high school, his savant-like ability to visualize electronic circuits landed him a gig with KISS, for whom he created their legendary fire-breathing guitars. Later, he drifted into a “real” job, as an engineer for a major toy company. But the higher Robison rose in the company, the more he had to pretend to be “normal” and do what he simply couldn’t: communicate. It wasn’t worth the paycheck.
It was not until he was forty that an insightful therapist told him he had the form of autism called Asperger’s syndrome. That understanding transformed the way Robison saw himself—and the world.
Look Me in the Eye is the moving, darkly funny story of growing up with Asperger’s at a time when the diagnosis simply didn’t exist. A born storyteller, Robison takes you inside the head of a boy whom teachers and other adults regarded as “defective,” who could not avail himself of KISS’s endless supply of groupies, and who still has a peculiar aversion to using people’s given names (he calls his wife “Unit Two”). He also provides a fascinating reverse angle on the younger brother he left at the mercy of their nutty parents—the boy who would later change his name to Augusten Burroughs and write the bestselling memoir Running with Scissors .
Ultimately, this is the story of Robison’s journey from his world into ours, and his new life as a husband, father, and successful small business owner—repairing his beloved high-end automobiles. It’s a strange, sly, indelible account—sometimes alien, yet always deeply human.
上周活动结束后,那个大男孩又过来跟我说话,絮絮叨叨好久,眼睛一直往下看。如果不是熟知他,身高差和他眼神的角度,我会以为他在盯着我的胸部看。脱下义工马甲后,T恤的领口让我有些不自在。即使很熟,见他眼神往下凝固几分钟后,我几次借口想走开。大男孩没有丝毫察觉我的尴...
評分上周活动结束后,那个大男孩又过来跟我说话,絮絮叨叨好久,眼睛一直往下看。如果不是熟知他,身高差和他眼神的角度,我会以为他在盯着我的胸部看。脱下义工马甲后,T恤的领口让我有些不自在。即使很熟,见他眼神往下凝固几分钟后,我几次借口想走开。大男孩没有丝毫察觉我的尴...
評分上周活动结束后,那个大男孩又过来跟我说话,絮絮叨叨好久,眼睛一直往下看。如果不是熟知他,身高差和他眼神的角度,我会以为他在盯着我的胸部看。脱下义工马甲后,T恤的领口让我有些不自在。即使很熟,见他眼神往下凝固几分钟后,我几次借口想走开。大男孩没有丝毫察觉我的尴...
評分上周活动结束后,那个大男孩又过来跟我说话,絮絮叨叨好久,眼睛一直往下看。如果不是熟知他,身高差和他眼神的角度,我会以为他在盯着我的胸部看。脱下义工马甲后,T恤的领口让我有些不自在。即使很熟,见他眼神往下凝固几分钟后,我几次借口想走开。大男孩没有丝毫察觉我的尴...
評分上周活动结束后,那个大男孩又过来跟我说话,絮絮叨叨好久,眼睛一直往下看。如果不是熟知他,身高差和他眼神的角度,我会以为他在盯着我的胸部看。脱下义工马甲后,T恤的领口让我有些不自在。即使很熟,见他眼神往下凝固几分钟后,我几次借口想走开。大男孩没有丝毫察觉我的尴...
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