Amazon.com "I never expected life to be so messy," says Nancy Snyderman, medical news correspondent for Good Morning America, 20/20, and ABC News, in the opening to Necessary Journeys. Here she tells her own story--not a glittery story of a woman's achievements (though she could have written that story instead), but a raw one of "those parts of our lives that have influenced and shaped us without enriching our spirits." We read about Snyderman's rape as a college sophomore by a man wielding a knife at her throat, and how she didn't tell anyone for two years. We read about her depression, weight gain, and fear following that incident. She was also later diagnosed with "a rare form of lymph node cancer, which very few people survive." After 72 hours of tests and expert consultations, she learned that what she actually had was not cancer but a tick-borne virus. Snyderman learned firsthand the panic and isolation of a cancer diagnosis--"the stripping away of self ... the desperate dependence on the intelligence and training of strangers"--and she also experienced a speedy reprieve. The combination of the two made her a better and more compassionate doctor. We also share her experience of marrying a man who spent all her money, led a double life, and put her into devastating debt. We also hear the happy stories--people who inspired her, her beginnings in television, adopting a baby--but what grip us are the shadow sides of her life. "By telling this story, I make sense of the senseless," writes Snyderman. By juxtaposing her stories with her current understanding, Snyderman passes along worthy advice for others facing similarly overwhelming situations. --Joan Price From Publishers Weekly Although this popular medical correspondent on Good Morning America and 20/20 has a full life as a practicing surgeon, mother and wife, she recounts some painful moments and admittedly poor choices on her journey to midlife satisfaction. In a narrative that is positioned as self-help but is actually more of a memoir framed with references to Scott Peck, Parker Palmer, Carol Gilligan and Anne Morrow Lindbergh, Snyderman tells of a seemingly idyllic Midwestern family life in Fort Wayne, Ind., where her physician father was a role model for her professional aspirations. She reveals that she was raped in college and believes that the silence and shame attached to the experience lingered with her for years in the form of depression, low self-esteem, social withdrawal and weight issues, until she finally sought help after her first marriage failed. Along the way, however, Snyderman's problems didn't prevent her from attending medical school, getting married and taking a residency in Pittsburgh, where, by accident, she got her start on TV. Later, she established a practice in Little Rock, Ark., socialized with the Clintons, married a man who, she says, ultimately was unfaithful and took her money. Her story harbors many emotional touchstones and triumphs: a cancer scare, a happy romance and successful third marriage in San Francisco, a magical bonding with an adopted daughter, her newborn son's breathing problem and consequent hospitalization. Yet many readers, especially Snyderman's TV audience, may be curious about some issues that are only partly revealed, such as her parents' response to her rape and her relationship to the father of her second child. (June) Copyright 2000 Reed Business Information, Inc. See all Editorial Reviews
这本书最让我印象深刻的地方,是它对“回家”这一概念的解构。在很多旅行文学中,旅途的终点似乎总指向一个清晰的回归点,然而,作者在不同的章节中反复探讨:当我们踏上旅途,是不是也意味着旧的“家”已经不再适用?他描述的那种“身体在路上,灵魂却无处安放”的漂浮感,精准地击中了现代人内心深处的焦虑。这种焦虑并非源于对未知的恐惧,而是源于对“确定性”的怀疑。书中的每一段旅程,似乎都在追问一个更宏大的问题:我们到底在寻找什么?他将旅行变成了一种形而上的探索,而不是地理上的移动。文字风格上,它时而如同散文般优美,时而又变得像诗歌一样凝练,充满了破碎却有力的意象,读起来就像是在拼凑一张巨大的、关于人类精神状态的拼图。
评分说实话,刚翻开这本书时,我对它抱持着一种怀疑的态度,觉得这可能又是一本故作高深的“心灵鸡汤”式游记。但很快,我就被作者那种近乎残酷的诚实所折服了。他完全没有美化旅行中的艰难和不适,反而将它们作为自我成长的催化剂来呈现。比如,他详尽地记录了自己与当地人之间因语言不通而产生的误解和尴尬,以及那种深切的无助感,但正是这些时刻,迫使他跳出舒适区,用最原始的方式进行沟通和理解。这本书的结构像是由一系列碎片化的日记和反思构成,但这些碎片组合在一起,却展现出一个完整的、不断自我更新的“旅人”形象。它不是教你如何避开麻烦,而是教你如何拥抱麻烦,将每一次摩擦都视为与世界深层连接的机会。读完之后,你不会觉得自己学到了什么新知识,而是觉得自己“变重”了一些,拥有了更沉甸甸的内在重量。
评分我得承认,这本书的阅读体验是比较“慢热”的,它不像那些快节奏的冒险故事那样能立刻抓住你的注意力,但一旦沉浸进去,就很难自拔。这本书的魅力在于其深厚的文化底蕴和对历史脉络的穿插叙述。作者似乎总能在描绘眼前风景的同时,引述一段尘封的历史,或者一段相关的文学典故,这种知识的密度相当高,但处理得非常巧妙,像是给风景加上了一层厚厚的、有质感的滤镜。我尤其欣赏他对那些“被遗忘的地方”的关注,那些地图上没有标记、游客手册上不会提及的小镇或遗迹,作者用他独特的方式赋予了它们新的生命。这让人意识到,我们所追逐的“远方”,往往存在于那些我们不假思索就略过的地方。这是一本需要配着一杯好茶,在一个安静的午后,慢慢品味的“慢阅读”作品,它带来的满足感是持久而回味的,远超那些转瞬即逝的刺激。
评分读完这本书,我感觉自己的精神世界被狠狠地触动了一番,简直像经历了一场内心的排毒。这本书的叙事结构非常松散,但这种松散感恰恰营造出一种真实的不羁感,仿佛跟随一位非常酷、非常有个性的朋友在路上。他写那种刻骨铭心的邂逅,不是那种浪漫的、一见钟情的桥段,而是那种基于共同经历的、短暂却深刻的连接,那种你知道这段缘分只会存在于那段时间和那个地点,一旦离开,彼此都将回归各自的轨道。语言风格上,它充满了口语化的力量感和突兀的幽默,偶尔冒出一两句近乎粗粝的自嘲,反而让人物形象无比立体。我印象最深的是他对长途交通工具的描写,那些火车、大巴上人们的疲惫、希望和沉默,被他捕捉得像纪录片一样精准。这本书的价值在于,它不回避旅途中的“丑陋”——那些糟糕的食物、恶劣的天气、无处不在的孤独感,正因为坦诚,所以才更具力量。它教导我们,真正的成长往往发生在那些我们并不想回顾的瞬间。
评分这本书简直是把旅行的意义重新定义了。我常常觉得,很多游记无非是把景点罗列一遍,再加上一些矫揉造作的感叹,读起来索然无味。但这本《Necessary Journeys》完全不同,它像是一面透镜,折射出旅途中那些最细微、最容易被忽略的情感和哲思。作者的笔触非常细腻,比如描述在黎明时分,一个陌生的城市刚刚苏醒,空气中弥漫着咖啡和湿润泥土的味道,那种瞬间的“在场感”被描绘得淋漓尽致。我尤其喜欢他处理“迷路”这个主题的方式,不是将其视为挫折,而是视为一种必要的放逐,只有在迷失方向时,我们才能真正停下来观察,重新校准内心的罗盘。这种对不确定性的坦然接受,让人读后感到一种久违的踏实。它不是一本教你如何规划行程的指南,而是一本关于如何“存在于旅途之中”的沉思录。书中对于文化冲突和自我认同的探讨也十分深刻,旅行不再是简单的观光,而是与世界进行一场严肃的对话,最终回到与自己的和解。
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