Getting Together: Building a Relationship That Gets to Yes 在线电子书 图书标签: oh...my...books
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WHETHER WE are young or old, rich or poor, American,<br >Brazilian, or Russian, we all have relationships that are im-<br >portant to us. Even Robinson Crusoe had his man Friday.<br >It is through our relations with others that we work and<br >play, earn a living, build a family, cope with problems, and<br >enjoy life. Not only infants depend on others. We all do.<br > The world does not start afresh every morning. Each day<br >we deal with people we have met before and will meet<br >again. We complain to the landlord, listen to the boss, han-<br >dle a customer, smooth out a family quarrel, or visit a<br >friend. In almost every case, the fact that the relationship<br >is continuing affects the outcome of the encounter. Stripped<br >of our ongoing relationships, we would have no family, no<br >friends, no colleagues, no employees, no supervisors, no<br >government, no customers, and no one to write us a letter<br >or meet us for lunch.<br > Some relationships work better than others. We all know<br >people with whom we feel comfortable, secure, able to talk<br >through a problem, and confident. With others we feel un-<br >comfortable, frustrated, and mistrustful. We rarely under-<br >stand why some relationships work well and others don t.<br >We tend to accept the quality of a relationship as inevitable:<br >"That s the way it is. We just don t get along." We blame<br >problems on the other person and assume that there is little<br >we can do to improve the way we interact.<br > Although it takes two to have a relationship, it takes only<br >one to change its quality. Just as we react to others, they<br >
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Getting Together: Building a Relationship That Gets to Yes 在线电子书 pdf 下载 txt下载 epub 下载 mobi 下载 2024