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'Hello, I'm Esther... I imagine a world where we experience a sense of aliveness and vitality in our relationships, because the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. I've dedicated my life and career to understanding and improving human relationships. Let's continue to learn together.'
Psychotherapist Esther Perel is recognised as one of the most insightful and original voices on modern love. She has changed the conversation on what it means to be in love and have a fulfilling sex life.. For the past ten years, she has worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she argues, but healing is possible. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage - with the same person. With the right approach, couples can learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Weaving real-life stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis, Perel invites readers into a truly revealing exploration of modern marriage. She coaches, consults and speaks regularly on erotic intelligence, trauma, sexual honesty and conflict resolution. She is the bestselling author of Mating in Captivity and her TED Talk has reached 6.5 million views online.
- 心理学
- 两性
- relationship
- 英文原版
- 性心理
- 心理
- love
- desiration
A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.
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写在前面：4月来北京，月底入职，10月出第一本书。我只是一名刚入行的新手编辑，本不该写这篇手记，因为既没有像众多前辈的经验总结，也没有跌宕起伏令人叫绝的做书故事，有的只是第一次在编辑的边缘疯狂试探、一点感悟、一腔孤勇。但好在年轻（不要打我），一切才刚刚开始。 ...
评分有个段子是这样的： 假如情侣每做一次爱，就在罐子里放进一颗玻璃球，等到他们结婚后，每做一次就从罐子里取出一颗，你猜什么时候罐子会变空？ 答案是：一辈子都不会空。 2009年，性学专家潘绥铭教授曾调查中国人的婚内性生活，结果显示：每月连一次性生活都不到的夫妻为28.7%...
评分1 上周末和发小逛街，她突然问我： 你会不会在婚姻里感到寂寞？ 发小和她老公大学相恋，结婚8年，孩子6岁。身边朋友羡慕她会生活、懂教育，孩子很小就学会800个汉字、画画、小提琴，和老公也几乎从不吵架，不像自己家鸡飞狗跳，和老公争吵不断，为鸡毛蒜皮打得热火朝天。 但她...
评分婚姻到底意味着什么，是收获甜蜜的梦乡，还是埋葬爱情的坟墓。一般前者都是在婚前的幻想，或是婚礼上的祝福。而后者多出于已婚人士或是恐婚一族。 “婚姻是一座围城，城外的人想进去，城里的人想出来。”钱锺书在《围城》里的话之所以成了评价婚姻的经典句子，是因为它引起了人...
评分朋友圈看到这样一句话： 很多人，为了8小时的工作，愿意钻研10000小时； 却从没想过，为一辈子的婚姻，学习15分钟。 好的婚姻，需要两人共同努力。 真挚永恒的亲密关系，只属于成熟睿智、懂得平衡艺术的头脑。 01.“背叛我，就杀你全家” 看到这样一则新闻： 胡某对妻子是一见...
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A bit redundant. 很正确但是治疗的话语shallow. 序言不错
评分很好看
评分【PDF Sex最不需要的是moral judge，最需要的完全释放】一切关于性，又高于性. 两性之间的关系，在性中升华紧密，却又因为婚姻的捆绑，而导致性欲下降，从而引致焦虑与疏远。床上“风骚/风情”，床下柔情，多少人的幻想，是需要努力与技能的。多些separateness，ruthlessness, seduction, 少些moral judge, 再正视双方的fantasy与the looming third，hot sex总会有的！总之，放轻松，少焦虑，寻找适合双方的婚姻（Sex）相处之道。
评分2020年读完的第一本书，不愧是我女神Esther Perel大作。People long for radiance. They want to feel alive.
评分Very useful book for relationship! Highly recommended!
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