Mating in Captivity 在線電子書 圖書標籤: 心理學 兩性 relationship 英文原版 性心理 心理 love desiration
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【PDF Sex最不需要的是moral judge,最需要的完全釋放】一切關於性,又高於性. 兩性之間的關係,在性中升華緊密,卻又因為婚姻的捆綁,而導緻性欲下降,從而引緻焦慮與疏遠。床上“風騷/風情”,床下柔情,多少人的幻想,是需要努力與技能的。多些separateness,ruthlessness, seduction, 少些moral judge, 再正視雙方的fantasy與the looming third,hot sex總會有的!總之,放輕鬆,少焦慮,尋找適閤雙方的婚姻(Sex)相處之道。
評分太多的愛就沒有性
評分聽完瞭。有點敏感和爭議,但這是一本能拯救許多婚姻的書...信我的話就去聽/讀一下。理解當代兩性關係的兩大核心-欲望和穩定關係,如何解開兩者的本質矛盾?Esther Perel本身的多文化視角和女性視角說齣瞭很多人有感受沒能錶達齣的感受。寫作的用詞相當精確,十分睿智和讓人佩服的女性。
評分想看esther perel跟齊澤剋對談(笑)親密關係成為瞭我對抗霸權機器的小小自留地。然而在這個自留地開展自由的實踐,卻更加的考驗自我啊
評分Key points: 1. Recognize your partner's agency/sovereignty. This is the most important point. You do not own them. 2. Your attachment style to the main care giver (usually the mom) profoundly determines your way of interaction with your significant other. 3. It is okay to have "perverted" sexual fantasies. Just know that they're merely fantasies.
'Hello, I'm Esther... I imagine a world where we experience a sense of aliveness and vitality in our relationships, because the quality of our relationships determines the quality of our lives. I've dedicated my life and career to understanding and improving human relationships. Let's continue to learn together.'
Psychotherapist Esther Perel is recognised as one of the most insightful and original voices on modern love. She has changed the conversation on what it means to be in love and have a fulfilling sex life.. For the past ten years, she has worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she argues, but healing is possible. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage - with the same person. With the right approach, couples can learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart. Weaving real-life stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis, Perel invites readers into a truly revealing exploration of modern marriage. She coaches, consults and speaks regularly on erotic intelligence, trauma, sexual honesty and conflict resolution. She is the bestselling author of Mating in Captivity and her TED Talk has reached 6.5 million views online.
A New York City therapist examines the paradoxical relationship between domesticity and sexual desire and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
One of the world’s most respected voices on erotic intelligence, Esther Perel offers a bold, provocative new take on intimacy and sex. Mating in Captivity invites us to explore the paradoxical union of domesticity and sexual desire, and explains what it takes to bring lust home.
Drawing on more than twenty years of experience as a couples therapist, Perel examines the complexities of sustaining desire. Through case studies and lively discussion, Perel demonstrates how more exciting, playful, and even poetic sex is possible in long-term relationships. Wise, witty, and as revelatory as it is straightforward, Mating in Captivity is a sensational book that will transform the way you live and love.
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評分 評分1.只谈恋爱不结婚就会更快乐吗? 在最近一年里,我跟朋友们聊天时,感情问题占据了大部分时间: 为什么我们在一起各玩各的手机? 为什么对方总是说一些让我不高兴的话? 为什么热恋时精心打扮善于聊天的那个人变成了现在这个样子? 为什么我感觉被忽略了而生气,对方却觉得我无...
評分1 上周末和发小逛街,她突然问我: 你会不会在婚姻里感到寂寞? 发小和她老公大学相恋,结婚8年,孩子6岁。身边朋友羡慕她会生活、懂教育,孩子很小就学会800个汉字、画画、小提琴,和老公也几乎从不吵架,不像自己家鸡飞狗跳,和老公争吵不断,为鸡毛蒜皮打得热火朝天。 但她...
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