The Velvet Rage 在线电子书 图书标签: LGBT 英文原版 gay Non-Fiction Gay 美国 非虚构 性别研究
发表于2024-12-25
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为了深刻反思自己要读gender studies的动机(以及迟迟不改论文的拖延),晚上花两小时读了前三章,太厉害了。通过对shame和rage两种情感深入浅出的阐释,解释了为什么most gay men are unhappy。。。
评分为了深刻反思自己要读gender studies的动机(以及迟迟不改论文的拖延),晚上花两小时读了前三章,太厉害了。通过对shame和rage两种情感深入浅出的阐释,解释了为什么most gay men are unhappy。。。
评分Life altering.
评分最说得通的是shame理论,其它的有些微牵强(或者是因为我没有相应经历),以至于在stage three显得很乱,尽管八卦依旧好看。 的确在里面找到了我自己。 /200222: 看到终章了,这章写作者自己的故事,格外好。除了羞耻,还有认可、真实等理论,其实到最后都发展得比较成熟。goodreads和amazon上的批评主要在于作者忽略了白人中产同性恋意外的男同性恋者,这个有什么关系啊,完全没有减损这本书的价值。 /200222: 读毕,精彩。
评分断断续续看了快两周,我觉得可以称为Gay Bible了,shame is all about how to be a true man。
Alan Downs, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist in private practice located in Beverly Hills, California. He is the author of seven previous books and continues to write and hold workshops across the United States. He is actively involved in dialectical behavior therapy and is a member of the Beverly Hills DBT Team. Dr. Downs is the former CEO of Michael's House Treatment Center where he currently holds weekend workshops for families of those struggling with addictions. His current book, THE VELVET RAGE, has been acclaimed as "groundbreaking" for the gay male community. Dr. Downs has been a guest on many media programs including, THE OPRAH WINFREY SHOW, TODAY SHOW, and NPR's MORNING EDITION.
This is the groundbreaking examination of the psychology of homosexuality and why it leads to shame over one's identity, and how to overcome it - now expanded and fully updated. Today's gay man enjoys unprecedented, hard-won social acceptance. Despite this victory, however, serious problems still exist. Substance abuse, depression, suicide and sex addiction among gay men are at an all-time high, causing many to ask, "Are we really better off?" Drawing on contemporary research, psychologist Alan Downs' own struggle with shame and anger, and stories from his patients, "The Velvet Rage" passionately describes the stages of a gay man's journey out of shame and offers practical and inspired strategies to stop the cycle of avoidance and self-defeating behaviour. Updated to reflect the effects of the many recent social, cultural and political changes, "The Velvet Rage" is an empowering book that has already changed the public discourse on gay culture and helped shape the identity of an entire generation of gay men.
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