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作者那套shame和validation的理論其實不止是gay men,適用於所有人。身邊就有活生生的例子,做的一切都是要得到validation,不是因為自己喜歡,而是無意義的作秀,得不到validation就氣急敗壞;因為shame而一定要在彆的方麵得到補償;敏感自卑,一點小事就覺得彆人侮辱自己。 反思自己有時候也會把個人全部的價值建築在彆人的validation上
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評分Life altering.
評分作者那套shame和validation的理論其實不止是gay men,適用於所有人。身邊就有活生生的例子,做的一切都是要得到validation,不是因為自己喜歡,而是無意義的作秀,得不到validation就氣急敗壞;因為shame而一定要在彆的方麵得到補償;敏感自卑,一點小事就覺得彆人侮辱自己。 反思自己有時候也會把個人全部的價值建築在彆人的validation上
評分Life altering.
Alan Downs, Ph.D. is a clinical psychologist in private practice located in Beverly Hills, California. He is the author of seven previous books and continues to write and hold workshops across the United States. He is actively involved in dialectical behavior therapy and is a member of the Beverly Hills DBT Team. Dr. Downs is the former CEO of Michael's House Treatment Center where he currently holds weekend workshops for families of those struggling with addictions. His current book, THE VELVET RAGE, has been acclaimed as "groundbreaking" for the gay male community. Dr. Downs has been a guest on many media programs including, THE OPRAH WINFREY SHOW, TODAY SHOW, and NPR's MORNING EDITION.
This is the groundbreaking examination of the psychology of homosexuality and why it leads to shame over one's identity, and how to overcome it - now expanded and fully updated. Today's gay man enjoys unprecedented, hard-won social acceptance. Despite this victory, however, serious problems still exist. Substance abuse, depression, suicide and sex addiction among gay men are at an all-time high, causing many to ask, "Are we really better off?" Drawing on contemporary research, psychologist Alan Downs' own struggle with shame and anger, and stories from his patients, "The Velvet Rage" passionately describes the stages of a gay man's journey out of shame and offers practical and inspired strategies to stop the cycle of avoidance and self-defeating behaviour. Updated to reflect the effects of the many recent social, cultural and political changes, "The Velvet Rage" is an empowering book that has already changed the public discourse on gay culture and helped shape the identity of an entire generation of gay men.
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The Velvet Rage 在線電子書 pdf 下載 txt下載 epub 下載 mobi 下載 2025