The Confidence Game 在線電子書 圖書標籤: 心理學 社會心理學 詐騙 颱灣 Maria_Konnikova 英文原版 泛泛讀 聽
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life is never fair, nothing comes for free, and there’s no such thing as the exception to the rule
評分路上讀書解讀: 盡量瞭解一個人,清楚其缺點和弱點是騙子最愛。 光觀察細節還不夠,進而贏得對方的信任纔是下一步。騙子裝齣和你的相似性來獲得信任,比如模仿麵部錶情、聲音和肢體語言,或者假裝擁有共同的價值觀。一旦和受害者交上瞭朋友、獲得瞭信任,下一步就開始瞭。 得寸進尺是騙子最基本的策略; 另一個策略是一開始先提齣一個比較無理的請求,然後再慢慢降低要求; 人們開始自我感覺特彆良好的時候,就很容易成為騙子的獵物; 贏之後停不下來這種賭徒心理。對於如何利用這種虛假的樂觀主義,騙子可是專傢; 人們願意相信事情總是會朝著好的方嚮發展也會被騙子利用; 相信一件事就會一根筋走到黑這種認知失調也常被騙子利用; 人們可能會為瞭保住名聲而做齣蠢事常被騙子利用; 所以瞭解自己的弱點是最佳防騙心態。
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Maria Konnikova’s articles have appeared online and in print in the New Yorker, the Atlantic, the New York Times, Slate, the New Republic, the Paris Review, the Wall Street Journal, Salon, the Boston Globe, the Observer, the Scientific American MIND, WIRED, and the Scientific American, among numerous other publications. Maria blogs regularly for the New Yorker and formerly wrote the “Literally Psyched” column for the Scientific American and the popular psychology blog “Artful Choice” for Big Think. She graduated magna cum laude from Harvard University, where she studied psychology, creative writing, and government, and received her Ph.D. in Psychology from Columbia University.
"It’s a startling and disconcerting read that should make you think twice every time a friend of a friend offers you the opportunity of a lifetime.”
—Erik Larson, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Dead Wake and bestselling author of Devil in the White City
Think you can’t get conned? Think again. The New York Times bestselling author of Mastermind: How to Think Like Sherlock Holmes explains how to spot the con before they spot you.
“[An] excellent study of Con Artists, stories & the human need to believe” –Neil Gaiman, via Twitter
A compelling investigation into the minds, motives, and methods of con artists—and the people who fall for their cons over and over again.
While cheats and swindlers may be a dime a dozen, true conmen—the Bernie Madoffs, the Jim Bakkers, the Lance Armstrongs—are elegant, outsized personalities, artists of persuasion and exploiters of trust. How do they do it? Why are they successful? And what keeps us falling for it, over and over again? These are the questions that journalist and psychologist Maria Konnikova tackles in her mesmerizing new book.
From multimillion-dollar Ponzi schemes to small-time frauds, Konnikova pulls together a selection of fascinating stories to demonstrate what all cons share in common, drawing on scientific, dramatic, and psychological perspectives. Insightful and gripping, the book brings readers into the world of the con, examining the relationship between artist and victim. The Confidence Game asks not only why we believe con artists, but also examines the very act of believing and how our sense of truth can be manipulated by those around us.
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The Confidence Game 在線電子書 pdf 下載 txt下載 epub 下載 mobi 下載 2024