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2015-12-17 整整三年前居然已经读过,而且没有什么收获。真的是时间积淀出意义。让我意识到『父母专政』的重要性。
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评分2015-12-17 整整三年前居然已经读过,而且没有什么收获。真的是时间积淀出意义。让我意识到『父母专政』的重要性。
评分2015-12-17 整整三年前居然已经读过,而且没有什么收获。真的是时间积淀出意义。让我意识到『父母专政』的重要性。
评分2015-12-17 整整三年前居然已经读过,而且没有什么收获。真的是时间积淀出意义。让我意识到『父母专政』的重要性。
戈登·诺伊费尔德博士,加拿大著名儿童发展心理学家,拥有40余年儿童与青少年发展研究经验,国际儿童发展领域权威。他擅长把复杂问题简单化,透过现象看本质,致力于借助应用科学发展方式帮助更多孩子。
加博尔·马泰,畅销书作家,撰写的畅销书被翻译成25种语言。
A psychologist with a reputation for penetrating to the heart of complex parenting issues joins forces with a physician and bestselling author to tackle one of the most disturbing and misunderstood trends of our time -- peers replacing parents in the lives of our children.
Dr. Neufeld has dubbed this phenomenon peer orientation, which refers to the tendency of children and youth to look to their peers for direction: for a sense of right and wrong, for values, identity and codes of behaviour. But peer orientation undermines family cohesion, poisons the school atmosphere, and fosters an aggressively hostile and sexualized youth culture. It provides a powerful explanation for schoolyard bullying and youth violence; its effects are painfully evident in the context of teenage gangs and criminal activity, in tragedies such as in Littleton, Colorado; Tabor, Alberta and Victoria, B.C. It is an escalating trend that has never been adequately described or contested until Hold On to Your Kids . Once understood, it becomes self-evident -- as do the solutions.
Hold On to Your Kids will restore parenting to its natural intuitive basis and the parent-child relationship to its rightful preeminence. The concepts, principles and practical advice contained in Hold On to Your Kids will empower parents to satisfy their children’s inborn need to find direction by turning towards a source of authority, contact and warmth.
Something has changed. One can sense it, one can feel it, just not find the words for it. Children are not quite the same as we remember being. They seem less likely to take their cues from adults, less inclined to please those in charge, less afraid of getting into trouble. Parenting, too, seems to have changed. Our parents seemed more confident, more certain of themselves and had more impact on us, for better or for worse. For many, parenting does not feel natural. Adults through the ages have complained about children being less respectful of their elders and more difficult to manage than preceding generations, but could it be that this time it is for real? -- from Hold On to Your Kids
From the Hardcover edition.
“你怎么这么不听话?”“你要做听话的好孩子噢!”“还是你最听话!” 在我小时候,这些话太熟悉了,别人的父母、自己的父母总是不停地重复着“听话”这两个字,似乎教育的真谛就在这两个字里。 我一直在做一个听话的好孩子,但好像哪里不对,我现在十分讨厌这两个字,自从有...
评分从初为人父,到如今已经是两个孩子的父亲,感觉时间过得真快。当然,给我感受最深的,是孩子成长的更快。 初为人父时的懵懂,至今犹在昨天,有渴望、有激动、有责任、更有畏惧。渴望、激动于自己终要荣升“爸爸级”了;责任于早已磨拳檫掌要全面施展自己的“养和教、父之责”的...
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