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Attachment is the key! Never ever “separation” attitude. Promote independence through dependence!
評分2015-12-17 整整三年前居然已經讀過,而且沒有什麼收獲。真的是時間積澱齣意義。讓我意識到『父母專政』的重要性。
評分2015-12-17 整整三年前居然已經讀過,而且沒有什麼收獲。真的是時間積澱齣意義。讓我意識到『父母專政』的重要性。
評分Attachment is the key! Never ever “separation” attitude. Promote independence through dependence!
評分2015-12-17 整整三年前居然已經讀過,而且沒有什麼收獲。真的是時間積澱齣意義。讓我意識到『父母專政』的重要性。
戈登·諾伊費爾德博士,加拿大著名兒童發展心理學傢,擁有40餘年兒童與青少年發展研究經驗,國際兒童發展領域權威。他擅長把復雜問題簡單化,透過現象看本質,緻力於藉助應用科學發展方式幫助更多孩子。
加博爾·馬泰,暢銷書作傢,撰寫的暢銷書被翻譯成25種語言。
A psychologist with a reputation for penetrating to the heart of complex parenting issues joins forces with a physician and bestselling author to tackle one of the most disturbing and misunderstood trends of our time -- peers replacing parents in the lives of our children.
Dr. Neufeld has dubbed this phenomenon peer orientation, which refers to the tendency of children and youth to look to their peers for direction: for a sense of right and wrong, for values, identity and codes of behaviour. But peer orientation undermines family cohesion, poisons the school atmosphere, and fosters an aggressively hostile and sexualized youth culture. It provides a powerful explanation for schoolyard bullying and youth violence; its effects are painfully evident in the context of teenage gangs and criminal activity, in tragedies such as in Littleton, Colorado; Tabor, Alberta and Victoria, B.C. It is an escalating trend that has never been adequately described or contested until Hold On to Your Kids . Once understood, it becomes self-evident -- as do the solutions.
Hold On to Your Kids will restore parenting to its natural intuitive basis and the parent-child relationship to its rightful preeminence. The concepts, principles and practical advice contained in Hold On to Your Kids will empower parents to satisfy their children’s inborn need to find direction by turning towards a source of authority, contact and warmth.
Something has changed. One can sense it, one can feel it, just not find the words for it. Children are not quite the same as we remember being. They seem less likely to take their cues from adults, less inclined to please those in charge, less afraid of getting into trouble. Parenting, too, seems to have changed. Our parents seemed more confident, more certain of themselves and had more impact on us, for better or for worse. For many, parenting does not feel natural. Adults through the ages have complained about children being less respectful of their elders and more difficult to manage than preceding generations, but could it be that this time it is for real? -- from Hold On to Your Kids
From the Hardcover edition.
我是被这个书名《每个孩子都需要被看见》吸引,买下了这本书,但我看完后,收获特别大,我以前看的书,大多是在说教养的技巧,这本书只说亲子关系,依恋关系。讲关系,还能写这么多,太让我意外。 书名中的看见,是不是平时我们说的看着别人就是看见呢?这里的看见就是回应,回...
評分本书主要讲述的就是孩子与父母之间的关系,也是家庭教育中最重要的内容,如果没有建立好这种关系,那么家庭教育也就很难取得很好的效果,为孩子性格的养成埋下祸根。也就是说很多问题的产生,背后的原因几乎都是关系问题。让我想到了‘变形记’里面的孩子,城里的孩子很多都是...
評分本书主要讲述的就是孩子与父母之间的关系,也是家庭教育中最重要的内容,如果没有建立好这种关系,那么家庭教育也就很难取得很好的效果,为孩子性格的养成埋下祸根。也就是说很多问题的产生,背后的原因几乎都是关系问题。让我想到了‘变形记’里面的孩子,城里的孩子很多都是...
評分我是被这个书名《每个孩子都需要被看见》吸引,买下了这本书,但我看完后,收获特别大,我以前看的书,大多是在说教养的技巧,这本书只说亲子关系,依恋关系。讲关系,还能写这么多,太让我意外。 书名中的看见,是不是平时我们说的看着别人就是看见呢?这里的看见就是回应,回...
評分每个孩子都需要被看见。曾经央视做了一个纪录片《镜子》,总共三集,90分钟深度探讨家庭情感教育,直接当下家庭教育中的亲子冲突,情感困境,让所谓的问题少年说出心声,父母更需要改造。 孩子其实就是家长的一面镜子一个问题,孩子背后通常会有一个问题,家庭。每一个孩子都需...
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