Never Good Enough 在线电子书 图书标签: 心理学 完美 people
发表于2024-06-16
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solid but boring。在认识自己上,并不是很有帮助,改变自己的作用更小。
评分solid but boring。在认识自己上,并不是很有帮助,改变自己的作用更小。
评分solid but boring。在认识自己上,并不是很有帮助,改变自己的作用更小。
评分solid but boring。在认识自己上,并不是很有帮助,改变自己的作用更小。
评分solid but boring。在认识自己上,并不是很有帮助,改变自己的作用更小。
* Do you feel that no matter how hard you try it is never good enough? * Do you spend too much time trying to get things exactly right in order to avoid criticism? * Does it seem that at any minute people will find out that you are not really what you seem to be? If you answered yes to any of these questions, you may be struggling with perfectionistic tendencies. They "can" serve a positive purpose in your life. But having extremely high standards for yourself and others can leave you feeling let down -- over and over again -- when these expectations aren't met. As psychologist and researcher Monica Ramirez Basco explains, uncontrolled perfectionism can lead to depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, fear of failure, and broken marriages and friendships. In "Never Good Enough" Dr. Basco helps you understand "why" you feel driven to get things "just right" and shows you how to make the best of your perfectionism. Filled with practical advice, encouragement, and strategies for self-discovery, this invaluable guide includes Dr. Basco's own thirty-question self-test that will help you recognize and manage the negative side of your perfectionism. You will learn how to stop the struggle with yourself and others, how to evaluate your worth and performance in life, and how to replace the pursuit of perfection with peace of mind.
“正面观点: 错误表明我有缺陷 有缺陷不好 别人犯错误没关系,我却不能犯错误 如果让别人知道我犯了一个错误或者知道我有弱点.那太可怕了 反面观点: 错误只是行为,并不是个人的品性 有缺点或犯错误对于每一个人都是正常的 没有理由要我采取一种比别人高的标准 如果他们没...
评分“正面观点: 错误表明我有缺陷 有缺陷不好 别人犯错误没关系,我却不能犯错误 如果让别人知道我犯了一个错误或者知道我有弱点.那太可怕了 反面观点: 错误只是行为,并不是个人的品性 有缺点或犯错误对于每一个人都是正常的 没有理由要我采取一种比别人高的标准 如果他们没...
评分记得很多年前,有段时间我特别苦恼,我看到很多事情并不能朝我预期的方向发展,于是我陷入很深的焦虑。后来拜读了很多星云大师写的书,渐渐明白了佛偈箴言里说的“人生七大苦”究竟是什么意思。 佛曰:人生七大苦——生、老、病、死、贪嗔痴、爱别离、求不得。等到生命的钟摆走...
评分特别喜欢这句话 : “所谓成熟,就是不苛求别人,不为难自己。” 这本书让我看到了自己。“内向型完美主义者不敢犯错,担心丢脸,而且尤其在乎别人对自己的看法;而外向型完美主义者在家里或者工作中总对别人过于苛责与烦躁,不自觉地使得人际关系变得紧张或产生矛盾。”实际上...
评分完美主义,在世人看来一直是个好词。 以前,我也愚蠢的自认为完美主义是个好的人生态度,当别人说我是不是追求完美时,都有点沾沾自喜地回答,我是比较追求完美。 人生走到现在,回观自己,啥是完美主义? 所谓完美主义的背后恰恰是最不美的一面。 完美主义意味着对自己的...
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