1 t+c:tt~~ it l)lcsct+ts stattlit+Ig new illl{>t nl，ttit)tl atl~l :t<br >scictltiticitllx t)，tsed systctn， t~)v i]tl{litl+*m cxcelletlt tllates<br >and l)tlil~|illg l~)vlng， successtul lnating relatiotlsllil)s.<br >And this long overdue approacll ts dramatically dif-<br >teretlt lr~)m what has been going on for cent+uries.<br > We humans llave been mating fin four million years，<br >give or take a month or two， and with all that practice<br >you might think we d be getting it pretty well perfected<br >by now.<br > Well， we ve moved out of the Stone Age， but most of<br >~)ur mating practices are positively medieval. And tra-<br >ditiot~al mating practices have， without question， pro-<br >duced results which are catastrophic.<br > Divorce rates have skyrocketed to the point where<br >o，e-ha!/of recent marriages are now projected to end in<br >divorce. These are the same odds as the tlip of a coin!<br > We llave been marriage therapists and researchers for<br >many yeats， and we know that these divorce Fates are<br > " II ~ : <br >co 1 pletely at)sutd and totally unjustitied. "+l hese are riot<br >.it，st mit~dboggling statistics， they represent trightenett<br >and badly injtlt-ed itldividtlals， atttllts al~d children alike.<br >