Mind Like Water

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作者:Jim Ballard
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页数:256
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出版时间:2002-10
价格:202.00元
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isbn号码:9780471086970
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  • 武士道
  • 心理学
  • 专注
  • 平静
  • 自我提升
  • 处变不惊
  • 生活哲学
  • 东方智慧
  • 内省
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Acclaim for Mind Like Water "From What’s the Rush? to Whale Done! Jim Ballard is mentor to millions. Now, in Mind Like Water, Ballard, as always, doesn’t just show where his powerful and perceptive intellect has been, he takes you along and gives you the tools to revisit and explore on your own. Mind Like Water is a journey to places and spaces you realize you are visiting again for the first time. It’s an easy, charming read that shows you how to be exactly where you need to be: calmly in control, regardless of the situation."

–Sheldon Bowles, coauthor of Raving Fans "Reading Mind Like Water feels like handing the keys to my car to a very wise man and letting him drive for a while while I just enjoy the ride–and his words. Not only does this book make me think deeply about my work and life, it offers wonderful exercises for assessing and adjusting aspects that have not been working effectively. A must read for anyone struggling with work-home balance and how to find and bring your true self to your daily life."

–Jayne Pearl, author of Kids and Money "Jim Ballard puts his finger on the true cause of the anxiety that grips us all in this age of information overload–change. And then he gives us the antidote, a Mind Like Water. Many books inspire and motivate; this one provides a blueprint for actions that can be truly transforming. It is brilliant in its simplicity. Not since Alan Watts has an American author made Eastern knowledge so accessible, relevant, and practical–even for a Type A, stressed-out, left-brain thinking, typical American such as myself."

–Ken Miller, President of Teacher Education Institute "Mind Like Water invites the reader to participate in a variety of practical, accessible methods that support us in staying present in the moment, help us see things as they are, and live with equanimity amidst the unpredictability of our lives. Capturing the wisdom of great spiritual teachers, authors, and poets, Mind Like Water offers a respite from the hectic pace of our lives."

–Tara Healey, Senior Organizational Consultant, Harvard Pilgrim Health Care "Jim Ballard is one of the most compassionate people I know, and in his new book Mind Like Water he shares some of his warmth and love with readers. If you want a feeling like snuggling into a warm coat on a blustery, wintery day, try opening this book to any page and reading. If you don’t absorb some of the wisdom in Mind Like Water then you're just not paying attention."

–Noel Burch, coauthor of Teacher Effectiveness Training

From the Inside Flap

The stresses associated with life in our hurry-up world can seriously undermine our focus, productivity, and balance. In our efforts to master rapid-fire change and to be good providers, productive workers, and loving and supportive companions, it’s easy to lose our ability to enjoy the act of living. In this practical and inspiring guide, Jim Ballard arms you with a set of powerful tools for achieving calm and centeredness in the midst of a whirlwind of change. The trick, according to Ballard, is to stop trying so hard to exert control over a chaotic universe, to become less dependent on the powers of the intellect, and to learn to have faith in your ability to spontaneously make the correct decision in any given situation–in short, to have a mind like water. Ballard provides action steps to help you attain the mental equivalent of some of the vital properties of water: Fluidity Level-Seeking Reflection Absorption Form-Changing Motivelessness Each of the techniques Ballard describes in this fascinating and fun book–including simple instructions on how to meditate–will help you question your constraining assumptions and dissolve the thought patterns that impede your natural flow. By practicing the twenty-four steps Ballard includes, you can achieve the mental grace and suppleness needed to maintain intellectual and emotional balance in a turbulent sea of change. Filled with exercises, practical prescriptions, and enlightening stories, Mind Like Water will allow you to access the inner state of happiness that already lies within you–an integration of mind and body that will free you from stress, worry, and self-limiting thoughts.

《心如止水》:一段关于宁静、觉察与内在自由的探索之旅 在这喧嚣的世界里,我们常常被思绪的浪潮裹挟,被情绪的漩涡吞噬,难以找到片刻的安宁。我们渴望平静,却发现内心总是波澜起伏,难以掌控。然而,真正的平静并非遥不可及,它就蕴藏在我们每个人内在的深处,等待着被唤醒。《心如止水》并非一本提供速成技巧的指南,也不是贩卖心灵鸡汤的慰藉,它是一段深入内在的旅程,邀请读者去探索“心如止水”这一古老而深刻的智慧,理解其背后蕴含的真正含义,并学习如何在日常生活中实践它,最终获得持久的内在宁静与真正的自由。 为何我们“心神不宁”? 在深入探讨“心如止水”之前,我们必须首先理解为何我们常常体验到内心的混乱与不安。现代社会以其快节奏、信息爆炸和无处不在的竞争,极大地挑战着我们的精神状态。社交媒体的不断推送、工作生活的压力、人际关系的复杂,以及对未来的不确定性,都在不断地消耗着我们的能量,让我们的思绪像永不停歇的溪流,奔腾不息。 我们的思维模式常常陷入两种极端:要么沉湎于过去,反复咀嚼过去的错误、遗憾或辉煌,让往事成为束缚;要么担忧着未来,想象着可能发生的危机、挑战或失败,让焦虑侵蚀当下。这种“过去——未来”的思维模式,使我们难以真正地活在当下。而当下的体验,才是我们生命真实的存在。 此外,我们对情绪的反应模式也常常加剧内心的波动。当负面情绪(如愤怒、悲伤、恐惧)出现时,我们倾向于压抑、逃避或与之对抗,这种抗拒本身就消耗了大量的能量,并使得情绪更加顽固。而当积极情绪出现时,我们又常常害怕失去,过度抓住,反而体验不到纯粹的喜悦。我们对情绪的认知,往往是基于好坏、对错的二元判断,这让我们难以如实地接纳和转化它们。 我们对于“自我”的认同,也常常是内心不宁的根源。我们常常将自我与外在的成就、他人的评价、物质的拥有紧密联系在一起。一旦这些外在条件发生变化,我们的自我价值感便随之动摇,从而引发内心的焦虑和不安。我们花费大量精力去维持一个脆弱的、依赖于外在的自我形象,这本身就是一种巨大的负担。 “心如止水”的真义:超越表面的平静 “心如止水”并非指一种冷漠、麻木或缺乏情感的状态。恰恰相反,它指的是一种深刻的觉察力,一种能够如实地观察内心世界,而不被其表面的喧嚣所左右的智慧。它不是压制情绪,而是理解情绪;不是逃避思考,而是看清思维的本质。 “心如止水”的“止”并非静止不动,而是指一种“停止冲动”和“停止反应”。当水面平静时,我们可以清晰地看见水底的景象,同样,当内心平静下来,我们才能看清事物的真相,才能做出更有智慧的判断和选择。它是一种内在的稳定性,一种不轻易被外界事物扰动的力量。 “心如止水”更是一种对“当下”的全然临在。它意味着将注意力从过去的回忆和未来的担忧中抽离出来,全然地投入到此刻的体验中。在这种临在状态下,我们能够更敏锐地感知周围的环境,更深入地体会身体的感受,更清晰地聆听内心的声音。 它是一种“不加评判”的观察。当我们能够以一种旁观者的姿态,不带任何好恶地观察自己的思绪、情绪和身体感受时,它们便失去了控制我们的力量。我们不再是思绪的奴隶,也不是情绪的俘虏,而是它们自由的观察者。 通往“心如止水”的实践之路 《心如止水》并非理论探讨,而是邀请读者踏上一段切实可行的实践之旅。这条旅程的核心在于培养“觉察力”——一种对自身内在和外在世界的敏锐感知能力。 1. 培养正念(Mindfulness): 正念是实现“心如止水”的关键实践。它是一种有意地、不加评判地将注意力集中在当下时刻的意识状态。这可以通过多种方式实现: 呼吸觉察: 将注意力集中在每一次呼吸的进出,感受气息在身体的流动。无需刻意改变呼吸,只是如实地观察。每一次分心,都是一次重新回到呼吸的机会,这本身就是一次练习。 身体扫描: 缓慢地将注意力移动到身体的各个部位,感受每一个部位的触感、温度、紧绷或放松。无需评判,只是如实地感知。 日常活动中的正念: 将正念融入到日常的活动中,例如吃饭时,全然地品尝食物的味道、质地和香气;走路时,感受脚与地面的接触,身体的律动;洗碗时,感受水的温度和碗的触感。 通过持续的正念练习,我们能够逐渐地驯服那些躁动的思绪,减少对外界干扰的过度反应,从而为内心的平静创造空间。 2. 理解与接纳情绪: 情绪是我们生命中不可或缺的一部分,它们传递着重要的信息。理解情绪并非要压抑它们,而是要学会如实地接纳它们,并从中学习。 识别情绪: 当情绪出现时,尝试用清晰的词语来命名它,例如“我现在感到一丝焦虑”,“我感觉到一点沮丧”。 感受情绪: 允许情绪在身体中存在,观察它在身体的哪个部位引起了感受,是紧绷?是沉重?是发热?不要试图驱赶或改变它,只是允许它存在。 探索情绪背后的信息: 情绪往往是我们内在需求未被满足的信号。例如,焦虑可能指向对未来的不确定性,愤怒可能指向界限被侵犯,悲伤可能指向失去。问问自己:“这个情绪想要告诉我什么?” 不带评判地观察: 就像观察窗外的云朵一样,观察情绪的起伏变化。它们来来去去,最终都会消散。 当我们将情绪视为信息而不是敌人时,我们就不再害怕它们,也就不再被它们所奴役。 3. 看清思维的本质: 我们的思绪常常像不受控制的野马,将我们带往各种各样的想象和评判。理解思维的运作方式,能够帮助我们摆脱它们的束缚。 观察思维的模式: 注意你常常陷入的思维模式,例如总是担忧最坏的情况,或者总是回顾过去的错误。 认识到“我不是我的想法”: 你的想法只是一种 mental event(精神事件),它们是流动的,不代表你的真实本质。你可以观察想法的出现,但不必全盘接受它们为事实。 培养“放手”的能力: 当某个想法引起困扰时,尝试将其“放手”,就像放飞手中的气球一样,让它随风而去。这并不意味着忘记,而是不让它占据你的全部注意力。 区分事实与解读: 很多时候,我们对事件的解读比事件本身更能引发痛苦。学会区分客观事实和我们主观的解读,能够极大地减轻内心的负担。 4. 建立内在的稳定性: 内在的稳定性并非意味着抗拒变化,而是能够在变化中保持内心的平衡。 回归基本的需求: 确保充足的睡眠、健康的饮食和适度的运动。身体的健康是心理健康的基础。 简化生活: 审视生活中的不必要的东西,无论是物质的还是事务的。减少杂乱,能够为内心腾出更多空间。 培养感恩之心: 每天花一些时间去体会生命中值得感恩的人事物,这能够培养积极的心态,并提升内心的满足感。 与大自然连接: 花时间在大自然中,感受自然的韵律和力量,这能够帮助我们平静下来,获得疗愈。 “心如止水”并非终点,而是一场持续的修行 “心如止水”不是一个可以一蹴而就的目标,它是一场持续的生命修行。在这个过程中,我们可能会有反复,会有迷失,但每一次的觉察和每一次的回归,都是一次进步。重要的是保持耐心和对自己的善意,如同对待一位正在学习走路的孩子。 《心如止水》鼓励读者以一种开放、好奇和温柔的态度去探索自己的内在世界。它邀请我们放下对完美的执着,拥抱生命的不确定性,并在每一个当下,发现那份属于自己的,宁静而自由的力量。当我们能够如水般地包容,如水般地灵活,如水般地深沉时,我们便能真正地安顿下来,体验生命最本真的喜悦与平和。

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Life is a continual adventure! Don't just age...Sage! Embrace the present! View the present from the future! Seeing the present moment as a memory! Mission-driven! Whisper thanks all day!

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Life is a continual adventure! Don't just age...Sage! Embrace the present! View the present from the future! Seeing the present moment as a memory! Mission-driven! Whisper thanks all day!

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Life is a continual adventure! Don't just age...Sage! Embrace the present! View the present from the future! Seeing the present moment as a memory! Mission-driven! Whisper thanks all day!

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Life is a continual adventure! Don't just age...Sage! Embrace the present! View the present from the future! Seeing the present moment as a memory! Mission-driven! Whisper thanks all day!

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Life is a continual adventure! Don't just age...Sage! Embrace the present! View the present from the future! Seeing the present moment as a memory! Mission-driven! Whisper thanks all day!

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