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Amir Levine, M.D. is an adult, child, and adolescent psychiatrist and neuroscientist. He graduated from the residency program at New York Presbyterian Hospital/Columbia University and for the past few years Amir has been conducting neuroscience research at Columbia under the mentorship of Nobel Prize Laureate Eric Kandel. Amir also has a passion for working with patients and it is in this context, while working with mothers and children in a therapeutic nursery, that he first discovered the power of attachment theory. His clinical work together with his deep understanding of the brain from a neuroscientist's perspective contribute to his appreciation of attachment theory and its remarkable effectiveness in helping to heal patients. Amir lives in New York City. Rachel Heller, M.A. studied at Columbia University with some of the most prominent scholars in the field of social psychology. She now works with families and couples as a psychologist in private practice. Rachel lives in Israel.
- 心理學
- 兩性關係
- 情感
- 英文原版
- 關係
- 親密關係
- attached
- Relationship
We rely on science to tell us everything from what to eat to when and how long to exercise, but what about relationships? Is there a scientific explanation for why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle? According to psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, the answer is a resounding "yes." In "Attached," Levine and Heller reveal how an understanding of adult attachment-the most advanced relationship science in existence today-can help us find and sustain love. Pioneered by psychologist John Bowlby in the 1950s, the field of attachment posits that each of us behaves in relationships in one of three distinct ways:
*Anxious people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner's ability to love them back
*Avoidant people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness.
*Secure people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving. In this book Levine and Heller guide readers in determining what attachment style they and their mate (or potential mate) follow, offering a road map for building stronger, more fulfilling connections with the people they love.
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“他不秒回信息，我就感觉被抛弃了。” ”我越黏他，他就跑得越远。” “他总是对我忽冷忽热，若即若离。” ”我总担心分手后，就再也没有人会爱上我。” 在日常生活中，我们都听身边的人说过类似的话，自己可能也遇过类似的问题。爱情就是这样，让人迷恋又让人迷惑。他到底怎...
評分爱是感觉。 爱是荷尔蒙，你吸引我，我吸引他。 爱无理性可言，一切仿佛是命，或者债。 作为一个紊乱型（回避+焦虑）人格，对于爱情的体会总是纷纷乱乱，毫无逻辑，既焦虑又回避，读完本书，顿时醍醐灌顶。 Part 1 依恋类型 恋爱依恋类型，不是套路，是从心理学...
評分这书真的很好。这本书读到一半的时候，我心里就已经有了这样一个判断。这个判断不是武断，而是果断。当刚刚拿到这本书的时候，我并没有认为此书会有多么出色，也对本书的题材不是特别感兴趣。因为作为一个已婚人士，我自认为过得还算幸福，没有必要去阅读此类有关两性情感话题...
評分此书对我最大的帮助就是让我知道了自己的恋爱性格，很不幸我就是最最不好的第三种恋爱风格。这也能很好地解释我在生活中为什么总是喜欢逃避感情。每段感情都是那么短暂，我总是讨厌亲密接触害怕和恋人靠的太近我一直以为这是我自己的问题。原来也有很多人和我一样。但是此书最...
評分有一句流传很广的爱情诗，“我爱你，不是因为你的样子，而是因为，和你在一起时，我的样子”我虽然觉得读来很美，却一直没有感悟其中的意义。直到经历了一些不幸、或甚幸的故事，又恰逢读了这本教人“如何在未知中相爱，在懂得后相守”的恋爱心理学指南，方才顿悟——我总说自...
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現代心理學救人於水火係列。攤呀推薦的！
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评分可以skim through的一本書 用自己的經曆和書上的道理cross reference 還蠻豁然開朗的。不過感情這迴事終究知難行易 但清楚意識到自己是secure型還挺增加自信心&感恩爸媽的。但像李銀河老師所說 愛情終究還是小概率幸運事件 那作為一個hopeless romantic 隻能盡量提升自我/認清自己 當那個人齣現的時候 不至於因為自己的低情商和personal mess而毀瞭珍貴的親密關係
评分life changing 實用且係統地講瞭“是什麼”、“為什麼”、“怎麼辦”，如果能早點看到這本書是不是就能避開坑呢？未必啊，紙上得來終覺淺，和看完《親密關係》的感受是一樣的…【稅後六塊六在貓貓書店買的，挑燈夜讀一周看完，大概是近些年最實惠的一筆投資，一定會梳理一下筆記的~
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