Bringing Up Bebe 在线电子书 图书标签: 育儿 法国 教育 Parenting 英文原版 美国 育儿绘本 文艺
发表于2025-02-10
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用奶娃的时间读完了,太崇拜自己了。作者描述的带娃怂样实在太写实了,哈哈哈哈哈。这里边儿的看似很轻而易举的法国做法在实际运用中,着实有难度。而美国人那一套带娃的方法又如书中所讲,太把孩子当回事儿了吧。另外,书里那个yoghurt cake recipe倒是屡试不爽,超好吃!
评分与其说是“育儿”书,不如把它看做跨文化研究的课外阅读,那会有趣轻松得多。而且完全可能由此深究出一篇比较文化论文!P.S.作者文笔一般,有点小失望,考虑到她记者的出身。
评分一邊看一邊猛然發現,原來現在華人圈那麼多奇奇怪怪的帶娃論都是受了美國的影響,什麼必須多陪伴啦之類的,可是現在的小孩大部分在家裡都受到過多的重視了,要到幾歲才能發現這個世界並不像家裡那樣每個人都圍著自己團團轉的呢?讓我最深刻的是書中提到小孩的慾望不需要馬上滿足,其實是讓他們盡早學會耐心地等待以及如何面對挫折。
评分The best parenting book ever.
评分观念还蛮契合的~也许不符合国内主流育儿观,但是个人觉得还不错~身在美国,真的觉得,这样的溺爱与自由并不可以成就孩子~私以为,自律才能真正使人自由~
Pamela Druckerman is a former staff reporter for The Wall Street Journal, where she covered foreign affairs. She has also written for The New York Times, The Washington Post, and Marie Claire, and appeared on The Today Show and NPR's Morning Edition. Her previous book, Lust in Translation, was translated into eight languages. She has a master's degree in international affairs from Columbia. She lives in Paris.
The secret behind France's astonishingly well-behaved children.
When American journalist Pamela Druckerman has a baby in Paris, she doesn't aspire to become a "French parent." French parenting isn't a known thing, like French fashion or French cheese. Even French parents themselves insist they aren't doing anything special.
Yet, the French children Druckerman knows sleep through the night at two or three months old while those of her American friends take a year or more. French kids eat well-rounded meals that are more likely to include braised leeks than chicken nuggets. And while her American friends spend their visits resolving spats between their kids, her French friends sip coffee while the kids play.
Motherhood itself is a whole different experience in France. There's no role model, as there is in America, for the harried new mom with no life of her own. French mothers assume that even good parents aren't at the constant service of their children and that there's no need to feel guilty about this. They have an easy, calm authority with their kids that Druckerman can only envy.
Of course, French parenting wouldn't be worth talking about if it produced robotic, joyless children. In fact, French kids are just as boisterous, curious, and creative as Americans. They're just far better behaved and more in command of themselves. While some American toddlers are getting Mandarin tutors and preliteracy training, French kids are- by design-toddling around and discovering the world at their own pace.
With a notebook stashed in her diaper bag, Druckerman-a former reporter for The Wall Street Journal-sets out to learn the secrets to raising a society of good little sleepers, gourmet eaters, and reasonably relaxed parents. She discovers that French parents are extremely strict about some things and strikingly permissive about others. And she realizes that to be a different kind of parent, you don't just need a different parenting philosophy. You need a very different view of what a child actually is.
While finding her own firm non, Druckerman discovers that children-including her own-are capable of feats she'd never imagined.
彼时读这本书,正是小采挣扎在学习自己入睡的困难阶段。每天3-4个小时的哄睡,最后无一例外地都是以疲惫不堪的崩溃式入睡结束一天。我们都被这个小人儿拖入深度疲惫。网上、书里,到处找寻关于睡眠的文章、案例。最后看到下面这段话,让我决心给小采实施睡眠训练。 Of course, ...
评分如果你想同时做女人和母亲, 如果你想把自己的小孩培养的有礼貌又不呆板, 如果你想轻轻松松带小孩, 如果你想小孩听话又有他的自由,如果你想小孩不挑食, 如果你在绞尽脑汁如何具体教孩子延迟满足。。。 请一定耐心把这本书读完。即使目前只有英文版。 这是一个受过高等教...
评分在宝宝出生后的第三个月,我看完此书,下面分享一些感受。 第一,美式育儿与中式育儿竟如此相似。作者是生活在法国的美国人,虽然全文都在比较美式与法式育儿的不同。但我竟发现美式与中式育儿有很多相似之处。比如不让孩子输在起跑线上、纵容小皇帝等溺爱式育儿等等。 第二,...
评分作者 王涛 我没有到过法国,也没有亲眼看过法国的父母怎样教育自己的孩子。《法国妈妈育儿经》一书让我通过一位美国妈妈的目光学习了法国父母的教育理念和方法。本书的阅读对我是一个比较独特的文化体验:一个中国人借着美国文化的眼镜去看法国人怎样做父母。即便如此...
评分你的孩子是否有过这种行为:外出旅游,在餐桌上“大战”,把食物当玩具,把饭桌弄得一团糟?在婴儿椅子上下来,在餐厅里乱晃?匆匆忙忙的打电话,因为要应付孩子的各种要求?对大人说“不”的时候情绪失控?孩子们一起玩的时候,父母出来当孩子纠纷的裁判员?处理孩子的“烂摊...
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