Bringing Up Bebe 在线电子书 图书标签: 育儿 法国 教育 Parenting 英文原版 美国 育儿绘本 文艺
发表于2024-05-09
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The best parenting book ever.
评分你好搞笑啊
评分文笔很有趣、法美对比也有意思,但很多地方有点琐碎(comes with the genre but still)
评分一些观念还是满实用、启发的,但略显啰嗦
评分用奶娃的时间读完了,太崇拜自己了。作者描述的带娃怂样实在太写实了,哈哈哈哈哈。这里边儿的看似很轻而易举的法国做法在实际运用中,着实有难度。而美国人那一套带娃的方法又如书中所讲,太把孩子当回事儿了吧。另外,书里那个yoghurt cake recipe倒是屡试不爽,超好吃!
Pamela Druckerman is a former staff reporter for The Wall Street Journal, where she covered foreign affairs. She has also written for The New York Times, The Washington Post, and Marie Claire, and appeared on The Today Show and NPR's Morning Edition. Her previous book, Lust in Translation, was translated into eight languages. She has a master's degree in international affairs from Columbia. She lives in Paris.
The secret behind France's astonishingly well-behaved children.
When American journalist Pamela Druckerman has a baby in Paris, she doesn't aspire to become a "French parent." French parenting isn't a known thing, like French fashion or French cheese. Even French parents themselves insist they aren't doing anything special.
Yet, the French children Druckerman knows sleep through the night at two or three months old while those of her American friends take a year or more. French kids eat well-rounded meals that are more likely to include braised leeks than chicken nuggets. And while her American friends spend their visits resolving spats between their kids, her French friends sip coffee while the kids play.
Motherhood itself is a whole different experience in France. There's no role model, as there is in America, for the harried new mom with no life of her own. French mothers assume that even good parents aren't at the constant service of their children and that there's no need to feel guilty about this. They have an easy, calm authority with their kids that Druckerman can only envy.
Of course, French parenting wouldn't be worth talking about if it produced robotic, joyless children. In fact, French kids are just as boisterous, curious, and creative as Americans. They're just far better behaved and more in command of themselves. While some American toddlers are getting Mandarin tutors and preliteracy training, French kids are- by design-toddling around and discovering the world at their own pace.
With a notebook stashed in her diaper bag, Druckerman-a former reporter for The Wall Street Journal-sets out to learn the secrets to raising a society of good little sleepers, gourmet eaters, and reasonably relaxed parents. She discovers that French parents are extremely strict about some things and strikingly permissive about others. And she realizes that to be a different kind of parent, you don't just need a different parenting philosophy. You need a very different view of what a child actually is.
While finding her own firm non, Druckerman discovers that children-including her own-are capable of feats she'd never imagined.
这本书是一位怀孕中的朋友推荐的,在kindle试读后,我觉得如果是以叙事的方式描述一个美国妈妈在法国育儿过程的所见所闻,应该挺有意思的。 前几章还有点意思,越到后面越觉得作者一方面夸大了美国育儿的某些错误观点,另一方面对法国育儿的方法各种绝对化。也许还有翻译的问...
评分看过好多家爸爸妈妈的育儿经了,有的是低调的炫耀自己的成功,有的是强势的得瑟自己的御女术,比如说曾经的虎妈,她觉得自己是成功的,但是未必读者会认可,我就是持反对意见者之一,我觉得跟孩子的快乐相比靠强横专制的逼迫得来的成绩根本不值得炫耀。在看到这本《法国妈妈育...
评分 评分看过好多家爸爸妈妈的育儿经了,有的是低调的炫耀自己的成功,有的是强势的得瑟自己的御女术,比如说曾经的虎妈,她觉得自己是成功的,但是未必读者会认可,我就是持反对意见者之一,我觉得跟孩子的快乐相比靠强横专制的逼迫得来的成绩根本不值得炫耀。在看到这本《法国妈妈育...
评分Bringing Up Bebe 在线电子书 pdf 下载 txt下载 epub 下载 mobi 下载 2024