Love Is a Story 在線電子書 圖書標籤: 心理學 愛情 love psycho 兩性關係 story 科普 女語者
發表於2024-05-13
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用科學的方法解釋感情
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評分斯滕伯格教我談戀愛,一本書,一碗雞湯,讓我談瞭25場戀愛!
評分斯滕伯格教我談戀愛,一本書,一碗雞湯,讓我談瞭25場戀愛!
評分斯滕伯格教我談戀愛,一本書,一碗雞湯,讓我談瞭25場戀愛!
羅伯特•斯滕伯格(Robert Sternberg)
美國認知心理學傢
著有暢銷專著《思維方式》《愛情心理學》
智力三元理論的建構者,也是首倡愛情三元論的心理學傢
In this groundbreaking work, Robert Sternberg opens the book of love and shows you how to discover your own story-and how to read your relationships in a whole new light. What draws us so strongly to some people and repels us from others? What makes some relationships work so smoothly and others burst into flames? Sternberg gives us new answers to these questions by showing that the kind of relationship we create depends on the kind of love stories we carry inside us. Drawing on extensive research and fascinating examples of real couples, Sternberg identifies 26 types of love story-including the fantasy story, the business story, the collector story, the horror story, and many others-each with its distinctive advantages and pitfalls, and many of which are clashingly incompatible. These are the largely unconscious preconceptions that guide our romantic choices, and it is only by becoming aware of the kind of story we have about love that we gain the freedom to create more fulfilling and lasting relationships. As long as we remain oblivious to the role our stories play, we are likely to repeat the same mistakes again and again. But the enlivening good news this book brings us is that though our stories drive us, we can revise them and learn to choose partners whose stories are more compatible with our own. Quizzes in each chapter help you to see which stories you identify with most strongly and which apply to your partner. Are you a traveler, a gardener, a teacher, or something else entirely? Love is a Story shows you how to find out.
一句话概括:心理学大师从故事视角思考爱情。 世界有多少种人,也就有多少种爱情。 两年前,我在拜读他的《亲密关系》,在其中他提出“爱情三角理论”——依照爱情三要素(亲密、激情、承诺)将众多爱情划分为八种(无爱、喜欢、迷恋、空爱、浪漫之爱、相伴之爱、...
評分这本书写的不错,虽然是心理学的类别,但是很好懂。 最主要的部分让你知道两个人在一起性格有多少相似并不是合不合适的关键,相较而言,对爱情的期待是否相似是否兼容更为关键。 这可能就是所谓的婚姻需要经营,因为你们都要把它经营成你们期待的样子,同样的方向才能和谐长久...
評分“没有人会认为我居然能够维持三十多年的婚姻。。。。。。。。。。” 这是从公众号推送的一篇文章中看到的,它吸引住了我的眼球,让我知道了斯滕伯格的大作——爱情是一个故事。乍一听书名,还以为是爱情小说,其实则不然,这是一本全新诠释爱情方面的心理类书籍,当然他不是寻...
評分 評分一句话概括:心理学大师从故事视角思考爱情。 世界有多少种人,也就有多少种爱情。 两年前,我在拜读他的《亲密关系》,在其中他提出“爱情三角理论”——依照爱情三要素(亲密、激情、承诺)将众多爱情划分为八种(无爱、喜欢、迷恋、空爱、浪漫之爱、相伴之爱、...
Love Is a Story 在線電子書 pdf 下載 txt下載 epub 下載 mobi 下載 2024