Love Is a Story

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出版者:Oxford University Press
作者:Robert J. Sternberg
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页数:256
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出版时间:1999-6-3
价格:USD 40.95
装帧:Paperback
isbn号码:9780195131024
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图书标签:
  • 心理学
  • 爱情
  • love
  • psycho
  • 两性关系
  • story
  • 科普
  • 女语者
  • 爱情
  • 故事
  • 情感
  • 成长
  • 心灵
  • 治愈
  • 浪漫
  • 人性
  • 希望
  • 梦想
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In this groundbreaking work, Robert Sternberg opens the book of love and shows you how to discover your own story-and how to read your relationships in a whole new light. What draws us so strongly to some people and repels us from others? What makes some relationships work so smoothly and others burst into flames? Sternberg gives us new answers to these questions by showing that the kind of relationship we create depends on the kind of love stories we carry inside us. Drawing on extensive research and fascinating examples of real couples, Sternberg identifies 26 types of love story-including the fantasy story, the business story, the collector story, the horror story, and many others-each with its distinctive advantages and pitfalls, and many of which are clashingly incompatible. These are the largely unconscious preconceptions that guide our romantic choices, and it is only by becoming aware of the kind of story we have about love that we gain the freedom to create more fulfilling and lasting relationships. As long as we remain oblivious to the role our stories play, we are likely to repeat the same mistakes again and again. But the enlivening good news this book brings us is that though our stories drive us, we can revise them and learn to choose partners whose stories are more compatible with our own. Quizzes in each chapter help you to see which stories you identify with most strongly and which apply to your partner. Are you a traveler, a gardener, a teacher, or something else entirely? Love is a Story shows you how to find out.

作者简介

罗伯特•斯滕伯格(Robert Sternberg)

美国认知心理学家

著有畅销专著《思维方式》《爱情心理学》

智力三元理论的建构者,也是首倡爱情三元论的心理学家

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(理想的/现实的)爱情应该是什么样的?(我的/你的)爱情观距离有多远? 如果最初是带着这两个问题去阅读《爱情是一个故事》应该会更快地跟上作者的思路,或许是中西方文学表达的差异,我在第一和第二章节逗留了很久。我们习惯的“故事”是文学体裁的一种,侧重于情节。故事有...  

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这本书写的不错,虽然是心理学的类别,但是很好懂。 最主要的部分让你知道两个人在一起性格有多少相似并不是合不合适的关键,相较而言,对爱情的期待是否相似是否兼容更为关键。 这可能就是所谓的婚姻需要经营,因为你们都要把它经营成你们期待的样子,同样的方向才能和谐长久...  

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斯滕伯格教我谈恋爱,一本书,一碗鸡汤,让我谈了25场恋爱!

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斯滕伯格教我谈恋爱,一本书,一碗鸡汤,让我谈了25场恋爱!

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斯滕伯格教我谈恋爱,一本书,一碗鸡汤,让我谈了25场恋爱!

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后面太啰嗦,分4个大类,每类还分几个小类,记都记不住。不过学习这个观点就行了。

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斯滕伯格教我谈恋爱,一本书,一碗鸡汤,让我谈了25场恋爱!

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