The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work 在线电子书 图书标签: 婚姻 心理学 亲密关系 Psychology marriage 英文原版 relationship 社会学
发表于2024-12-23
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婚姻篇。
评分一本科学的工具书,实践性很强,对人际关系也很有帮助。
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评分A very good book on marriage. Best thing is that I realized we have been following these 7 principles without knowling about them!
评分listened the audio book. everyday i am trying, to be the right one and better me, relationship is the best experience to know oneself better
约翰·戈特曼
享誉世界的“婚姻教皇”
美国华盛顿大学心理学教授,西雅图人际关系研究所所长,从事家庭关系方面研究长达40年,婚姻关系、人际关系研究领域的*专家,被媒体誉为“婚姻教皇”。
人际关系领域最杰出的心理学者
4次荣获美国心理健康研究院科学研究者奖章,并获美国婚姻与家庭治疗协会杰出科学研究者奖章、美国家庭治疗学会杰出贡献奖、美国心理协会家庭心理学分会会长奖章。
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Book Description
John Gottman has revolutionized the study of marriage by using rigorous scientific procedures to observe the habits of married couples in unprecedented detail over many years. Here is the culmination of his life's work: the seven principles that guide couples on the path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. Packed with practical questionnaires and exercises, The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the definitive guide for anyone who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential.
Amazon.com
According to most relationship books, the key to a solid marriage is communication, communication, communication. Phooey, says John Gottman, Ph.D., author of the much-lauded Why Marriages Succeed or Fail. There's much more to a solid, "emotionally intelligent" marriage than sharing every feeling and thought, he points out--though most couples therapists ineffectively (and expensively) harp on these concepts.
Gottman, the director of the Gottman Institute, has found through studying hundreds of couples in his "love lab" that it only takes five minutes for him to predict--with 91 percent accuracy--which couples will eventually divorce. He shares the four not-so-obvious signs of a troubled relationship that he looks for, using sometimes amusing passages from his sessions with married couples. (One standout is Rory, the pediatrician who didn't know the name of the family dog because he spent so much time at work.)
Gottman debunks many myths about divorce (primary among them that affairs are at the root of most splits). He also reveals surprising facts about couples who stay together. They do engage in screaming matches. And they certainly don't resolve every problem. "Take Allan and Betty," he writes. "When Allan gets annoyed at Betty, he turns on ESPN. When Betty is upset with him, she heads for the mall. Then they regroup and go on as if nothing's happened. Never in forty-five years of marriage have they sat down to have a 'dialogue' about their relationship." While this may sound like a couple in trouble, Gottman found that they pass the love-lab tests and say honestly that "they are both very satisfied with their relationship and they love each other deeply."
Through a series of in-depth quizzes, checklists, and exercises, similar to the ones he uses in his workshops, Gottman provides the framework for coping with differences and strengthening your marriage. His profiles of troubled couples rescued from the brink of divorce (including that of Rory, the out-of-touch doctor) and those of still-happy couples who reinvigorate their relationships are equally enlightening.
--Erica Jorgensen
About Author
JOHN M. GOTTMAN, Ph.D., is a professor of psychology at the University of Washington and cofounder and codirector of the Seattle Marital and Family Institute.
Book Dimension :
length: (cm)20.5 width:(cm)13.3
我觉得就是够了,我知道了痛苦为什么缠绕彼此。这么多年,俩个人、三口之家、两个家族系统之间的冲突和伤害,已经让我不愿再去回忆了。 在过去的家庭中心理成长出现创伤的人,这样的人在长大后,会在情感和家庭上出现困难.这些困难表现为 类似《获得幸福婚姻的7法则》描述的永...
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