玛莎•斯托特博士,任职于哈佛大学医学院,为美国知名临床精神病学专家,也是哈佛医学院精神科的临床讲师。其他著作还包括《精神健全的奥秘》。目前,定居在美国马萨诸塞州。
Who is the devil you know?
Is it your lying, cheating ex-husband?
Your sadistic high school gym teacher?
Your boss who loves to humiliate people in meetings?
The colleague who stole your idea and passed it off as her own?
In the pages of The Sociopath Next Door , you will realize that your ex was not just misunderstood. He’s a sociopath. And your boss, teacher, and colleague? They may be sociopaths too.
We are accustomed to think of sociopaths as violent criminals, but in The Sociopath Next Door , Harvard psychologist Martha Stout reveals that a shocking 4 percent of ordinary people—one in twenty-five—has an often undetected mental disorder, the chief symptom of which is that that person possesses no conscience. He or she has no ability whatsoever to feel shame, guilt, or remorse. One in twenty-five everyday Americans, therefore, is secretly a sociopath. They could be your colleague, your neighbor, even family. And they can do literally anything at all and feel absolutely no guilt.
How do we recognize the remorseless? One of their chief characteristics is a kind of glow or charisma that makes sociopaths more charming or interesting than the other people around them. They’re more spontaneous, more intense, more complex, or even sexier than everyone else, making them tricky to identify and leaving us easily seduced. Fundamentally, sociopaths are different because they cannot love. Sociopaths learn early on to show sham emotion, but underneath they are indifferent to others’ suffering. They live to dominate and thrill to win.
The fact is, we all almost certainly know at least one or more sociopaths already. Part of the urgency in reading The Sociopath Next Door is the moment when we suddenly recognize that someone we know—someone we worked for, or were involved with, or voted for—is a sociopath. But what do we do with that knowledge? To arm us against the sociopath, Dr. Stout teaches us to question authority, suspect flattery, and beware the pity play. Above all, she writes, when a sociopath is beckoning, do not join the game.
It is the ruthless versus the rest of us, and The Sociopath Next Door will show you how to recognize and defeat the devil you know.
心灵的差异比相貌的差异还要大。——伏尔泰 有无良知是对人类的一个根本划分,这种划分可以说比智力、种族甚至性别的划分更为重要。——本书作者 “反社会型人格障碍”是“一种无法矫正的性格缺陷”,研究表明这类人在欧美等发达国家的比例大概是4%,即平均25个人中有一个人(...
评分 评分我是建议所有混社会的小朋友都能至少起码读一遍这本书。 我职场中遇到的最BT的一位女客户是这样的。 三周以前,她电话挖我跳槽。我当时以私人关系进了新公司,未过试用期。我婉言谢绝这位BT的邀约。 三周后我们公司与这位客户所在的公司有了合作关系。 我们有一份类似合同...
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有些东西可以有些是胡扯…
评分Grew up with one
评分身处人口4%没良知的美帝还是要擦亮眼睛的
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评分蛮有意思的,这么看来高中的时候遇到过两个这样的人,一男一女
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