Know My Name 在线电子书 图书标签: 女性 传记 勇气 英文 华裔 SEXUALITY SexualAssault 自我认知
发表于2024-12-22
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整个故事里最恶心的地方莫过于对方的辩护律师采取的那种无耻的手段,不断地向作者提出一些精心设计好的但和整个事件无关的问题,比如“在被强奸的那个晚上你吃晚餐了吗?吃的是什么?” 用这种无意义的问题来消耗受害者的精力,让她不停地回想那场痛苦经历,并且让她为自己当时的无意识没有知觉从而记不起来事情感到愧疚。不要小看这些看似无意义的问题,这些问题会一直留在受害者的内心的,迫使她记住日后自己所做的一切动作,以防将来在法庭上再次被问。
评分我之前写给所有发声的妹妹的:我们分享某些私密的痛苦、愤怒和快乐的源泉。痛苦每次都触摸到她美丽的边界,在可以承受和欣赏的范围内。而柔软的绵密的回应的力量,就在我们的身体里。我们是感受的叠加的未观测态。我们是同一种残次品,同一个生态位。然后你会理解我,对一个陌生人给予所有的善意、匿名的爱。
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评分I'm glad I read this, so that I could finally replace an image of an"intoxicated unconscious woman" "rape victim". I would remember her as Chanel Miller, a star volleyball player, a writer, an artist, a comedian, a badass sister, a UCSB alum and a relentless advocate.
评分写得真的太好太好太好了,所有无法用语言表达出来的,在Me-Too时代作为女性/survivor所要承受的心理和生理上的痛苦都被Chanel写出来了
Chanel Miller is a writer and artist who received her BA in Literature from the College of Creative Studies at the University of California, Santa Barbara. She lives in San Francisco, California.
She was known to the world as Emily Doe when she stunned millions with a letter. Brock Turner had been sentenced to just six months in county jail after he was found sexually assaulting her on Stanford's campus. Her victim impact statement was posted on BuzzFeed, where it instantly went viral--viewed by eleven million people within four days, it was translated globally and read on the floor of Congress; it inspired changes in California law and the recall of the judge in the case. Thousands wrote to say that she had given them the courage to share their own experiences of assault for the first time.
Now she reclaims her identity to tell her story of trauma, transcendence, and the power of words. It was the perfect case, in many ways--there were eyewitnesses, Turner ran away, physical evidence was immediately secured. But her struggles with isolation and shame during the aftermath and the trial reveal the oppression victims face in even the best-case scenarios. Her story illuminates a culture biased to protect perpetrators, indicts a criminal justice system designed to fail the most vulnerable, and, ultimately, shines with the courage required to move through suffering and live a full and beautiful life.
Know My Name will forever transform the way we think about sexual assault, challenging our beliefs about what is acceptable and speaking truth to the tumultuous reality of healing. It also introduces readers to an extraordinary writer, one whose words have already changed our world. Entwining pain, resilience, and humor, this memoir will stand as a modern classic.
“You took away My worth, My privacy, My energy, My time, My safety, My intimacy, My confidence, My own voice, Until today.” 伊藤诗织胜诉的第二天,我看完了这本让人一边流泪一边愤怒一边希望着一边充满着力量的书。 阅读的过程中,脑海里出现了很多的画面。 在谷歌...
评分大多数受害者无法用语言表达的那些内心最深处的最细微的痛苦,最隐秘的心理活动,都被作者捕捉到并且表达了出来。这种深刻的觉知能力和反思自我的能力,唯有来自极度痛苦后的不断升华和自我成长。 虽然大多数受害者一辈子都无法抚平内心的伤口,但至少有人替她们发出了声音,证...
评分这书好在哪儿呢,好在它提供了受害人视角的叙述。 在美国,一场性侵案发生了,出于保护受害人的目的她的真实姓名不会被报道。没人知道她是谁,从哪里来,要到哪里去,是怎样的人,有怎样的过去,有怎样可期的未来,她的人生就停在了被侵害的那一刻,她唯一的标签就是本案受害人...
评分四年前的斯坦福性侵案,因为Emily Doe的一份受害者声明,受到全世界的广泛关注。而今,这个女孩终于公开了自己的真实姓名,不再是一个受害者符号。 我叫Chanel Miller, 我有一半中国血统, 我的中文名叫张小夏。 她被称为“全世界最勇敢的女孩”,从决定起诉到公布经历,每一...
评分You made me a victim…I had to force myself to relearn my real name, my identity. To relearn that this is not all that I am…I am a human being who has been irreversibly hurt, my life was put on hold for over a year, waiting to figure out if I was worth som...
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