哈丽雅特·布莱克
有逾25年的执业临床心理医生和管理顾问经验。她创作了许多畅销的心理自助类书籍,包括纽约《时代》杂志的畅销书《取悦症:不懂拒绝的老好人》和《谁在操纵你》等。
What's wrong with being a "people pleaser?" Plenty! "A fascinating book...If you struggle with where, when, and how to draw the line between your own desires and the demands of others, buy this book!"--Kay Redfield Jamison, bestselling author of An Unquiet Mind and Night Falls Fast People pleasers are not just nice people who go overboard trying to make everyone happy. Those who suffer from the Disease to Please are people who say "Yes" when they really want to say "No." For them, the uncontrollable need for the elusive approval of others is an addiction. Their debilitating fears of anger and confrontation force them to use "niceness" and "people-pleasing" as self-defense camouflage. Featured on NBC's "Today," The Disease to Please explodes the dangerous myth that "people pleasing" is a benign problem. Best-selling author and frequent "Oprah" guest Dr. Harriet Braiker offers clear, positive, practical, and easily do-able steps toward recovery. Begin with a simple but revealing quiz to discover what type of people-pleaser you are. Then learn how making even small changes to any single portion of the Disease to Please Triangle - involving your thoughts, feelings, and behavior - will cause a dramatic, positive and long-lasting change to the overall syndrome. As a recovered peoplepleaser, you will finally see that a balanced way of living that takes others into consideration but puts the emphasis first on pleasing yourself and gaining your own approval is the clearest path to health and happiness.
书的开头,作者有邀请我们访问这个网站。我有去访问,因为是英文的,就没有太多留意。后面看到结尾的时候,作者特地有提醒我们可以去访问网站进行交流,以让我们更好去缓解、改善我们的取悦者。但是网站是英文的,而且好像并没有书中所描述的“交流空间“。 我看完书后,对此书...
评分大家早上好,欢迎打开剽悍晨读,每天进步一点点,坚持带来大改变。今天是2018年2月26日,我们要给大家分享的书是《取悦症:不懂拒绝的老好人》。 这本书是由有25年经验的临床心理医生哈丽雅特·布莱克所写。我们已经在2017年6月18日的晨读中,介绍过取悦症的成因和拒绝技巧。这...
评分 评分我们的生活中经常会出现一些老好人,对于他人的请求有求必应。为此,甚至会牺牲掉自己的时间与利益。这种取悦成瘾的行为,就是取悦症。他们通常乐于助人,只要对他们提出请求,他们就会竭尽全力的去完成,尽管这可能会使得他们的生活变得一团糟。我想说,乐于助人并没有什么不...
为了得到父母的爱,避免被拒绝或抛弃,孩子只好将自己原本的需求和愿望压低,让它们变得不再重要,转而去努力实现父母那些明确提出的或隐含的期望,甚至内化这些期望,以父母的需求来替代自己的。渐渐地,他们就会成为讨好父母的小孩。
评分取悦症
评分为了得到父母的爱,避免被拒绝或抛弃,孩子只好将自己原本的需求和愿望压低,让它们变得不再重要,转而去努力实现父母那些明确提出的或隐含的期望,甚至内化这些期望,以父母的需求来替代自己的。渐渐地,他们就会成为讨好父母的小孩。
评分为了得到父母的爱,避免被拒绝或抛弃,孩子只好将自己原本的需求和愿望压低,让它们变得不再重要,转而去努力实现父母那些明确提出的或隐含的期望,甚至内化这些期望,以父母的需求来替代自己的。渐渐地,他们就会成为讨好父母的小孩。
评分Exactly to my weakness. I am so astounded.
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