Bestselling journalist Orenstein follows up Cinderella Ate My Daughter with a look at what happens when the little princess hits puberty. The result is an eye-opening, sometimes horrifying look at sex for today’s girls and young adults. Through frank interviews, research, and school visits, Orenstein reveals that, on average, young women are engaging in sexual contact earlier than ever, in more varied ways, and reporting more coercion and less satisfaction than their male counterparts. She cuts through many of the prickly topics associated with girls’ sexuality in contemporary culture, including purity debates, hook-up culture, arguments about what girls wear, rape and consent on college campuses, the problem of porn, and what kind of sex education actually works. She looks briefly at gender fluidity and touches on the concerns of LGBTQ young women. Orenstein draws powerful, humane portraits of her interview subjects, self-reliant young women who find themselves trapped by sexist stereotypes about women’s bodies and women’s pleasure. In this smart, earnest, and timely assessment, Orenstein urges frank, open communication among trusted adults and curious teens, declaring it the best way to encourage girls and boys to make safe, healthy decisions that “end in joy and honor rather than regret, guilt, or shame” and achieve “intimate justice.” (Mar.)
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在追求男女平等的今天，女孩如何不被物化为一个物件？如何保护自己？是女性应该考虑的问题。 错过晚间互动环节，还是爬楼翻看了小伙伴们的讨论，内容很精彩，里面有一些我听都没听过的事情，感觉很不可思议，在倡导男女平等已经辣么多年的情况下，种种陋习还是真正存在的，生男...
评分这本书的作者是个记者，也是妈妈，还是女权主义者。她的书主要以访谈为主，关于不同种族女孩子对性的看法等，是为青春期女孩子以及她们的家长所写。我比较欣赏80年代美国的女孩子对自己的个人要求：To think before speaking. To be self-restrained in conversations and acti...
评分女孩和性。在我国，性这个话题一直是被避而不谈的，而女孩和性这个话题看起来似乎更加让人避之不及，但这样就真的好吗？随着网络的普及，我们看到了很多之前被掩盖的事情，有多少小女孩正是因为没有接触过性教育，导致连自己被侵犯的时候都没意识到这种行为到以为着什么。所以...
评分想到一句话 " your naked body should only belong to those who fall in love with you naked soul " 女孩子要爱惜自己的身体，所谓的要自尊自爱 男孩子也要学会尊重女性，大家都是独立的个体 男性女性都要懂得 responsibilities of intimacy—— "亲密的责任"
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评分读之前以为，以后若有女儿的话会操心许多。翻看完毕，里头的故事并无新意。除了青春期美国女孩的对二垒三垒的定义下限比较低，想法似乎和现在的90 00后趋同。大篇幅花在了oral sex和性侵的解读，overly excessive?
评分听ex讲过之前的经历以后已经不感到震惊了。
评分It's a time when sexually active girls are shamed as "slut" and girls abstain from sex were labeled as "prudes". Over the past decades, we've seen progress in public realm, but why haven't things changed in private one? What shall we do to make a difference, for us, and for our next generation? 真的当代当地，男女生都值得读读这本书。
评分采访有点赘述，话语的堆积。对“垒”观点已经不新。书中最后倡导荷兰性教育经验然而这种教育是建立一定的社会基础上如父母的教育水平；观念开放程度等；对美国来说有一定的可比性；于中国而言，要求父母cooperative，open-minded几乎不现实，中国性教育道阻且长。但，首先无论男女都要尊重自己尊重对方。
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