UNCONDITIONAL PARENTING Moving from Rewards and Pu pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2025
Alfie Kohn is the author of nine previous books, including Punished by Rewards and The Schools Our Children Deserve, that have helped to shape the thinking of parents and educators across the country and abroad. He lectures widely and lives (actually) with his family in the Boston are and (virtually) at www.alfiekohn.org.
- 育儿
- Parenting
- 英文原版
- 教育
- 心理学
- 教育理念
- Education
- 家庭
Most parenting guides begin with the question "How can we get kids to do what they're told?" and then proceed to offer various techniques for controlling them. In this truly groundbreaking book, nationally respected educator Alfie Kohn begins instead by asking, "What do kids need - and how can we meet those needs?" What follows from that quetion are ideas for working with children rather than doing things to them.
One basic need all children have, Kohn argues, is to be loved unconditionally, to know that they will be accepted even if they screw up or fall short. Yet conventional approaches to parenting such as punishments (including "time-outs"), rewards (including positive reinforcement), and other forms of control teach children that they are loved only when they please us or impress us. Kohn cites a body of powerful, and largely unknown, research detailing the damage caused by leading children to believe they must earn our approval. That's precisely the message children derive from common discipline techniques, even though it's not the message most parents intend to send.
More than just another book about discipline, though, Unconditional Parenting addresses the ways parents think about, feel about, and act with their children. It invites them to question their most basic assumptions about raising kids while offering a wealth of practical strategies for shifting from "doing to" to "working with" parenting - including how to replace praise with the unconditional support that children need to grow into healthy, caring, responsible people. This is an eye-opening, paradigm-shattering book that will reconnect readers to their own best instincts and inspire them to become better parents.
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想要把孩子养育的好，绝非易事，本书也确实没有给出任何具体的办法。就像作者说的一样，养育孩子没有死的教条的办法，每个小孩都是独立的，个性的。 读前半本书的时候，我一直在问一个问题，如果不能惩罚，不能表扬，那我怎么办，碰到孩子不听话，哭闹，耍脾气的时候，不能这样...
评分 评分想要把孩子养育的好，绝非易事，本书也确实没有给出任何具体的办法。就像作者说的一样，养育孩子没有死的教条的办法，每个小孩都是独立的，个性的。 读前半本书的时候，我一直在问一个问题，如果不能惩罚，不能表扬，那我怎么办，碰到孩子不听话，哭闹，耍脾气的时候，不能这样...
评分 评分开篇是不错的，说了很多别的书籍没有说的东西，而且又是那么的正对我意。一直以来我都觉得子女对父母的爱来的更加无私，不管我的爸爸妈妈做了什么，我都会爱他们，因为他们是我的爸爸妈妈。甚至在我看电视看到坏人的时候，我都会假想一下，如果这个十恶不赦的人是我爸爸或者妈...
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车轱辘话翻来倒去的说，真的很佩服老外。不过这个概念我非常接受
评分车轱辘话翻来倒去的说，真的很佩服老外。不过这个概念我非常接受
评分车轱辘话翻来倒去的说，真的很佩服老外。不过这个概念我非常接受
评分车轱辘话翻来倒去的说，真的很佩服老外。不过这个概念我非常接受
评分One of the best parenting books I've ever read. Answered most of my questions regarding discipline. I have changed my old practices and need to revise my previous writings.
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