UNCONDITIONAL PARENTING Moving from Rewards and Pu pdf epub mobi txt 电子书 下载 2025
Alfie Kohn is the author of nine previous books, including Punished by Rewards and The Schools Our Children Deserve, that have helped to shape the thinking of parents and educators across the country and abroad. He lectures widely and lives (actually) with his family in the Boston are and (virtually) at www.alfiekohn.org.
- 育儿
- Parenting
- 英文原版
- 教育
- 心理学
- 教育理念
- Education
- 家庭
Most parenting guides begin with the question "How can we get kids to do what they're told?" and then proceed to offer various techniques for controlling them. In this truly groundbreaking book, nationally respected educator Alfie Kohn begins instead by asking, "What do kids need - and how can we meet those needs?" What follows from that quetion are ideas for working with children rather than doing things to them.
One basic need all children have, Kohn argues, is to be loved unconditionally, to know that they will be accepted even if they screw up or fall short. Yet conventional approaches to parenting such as punishments (including "time-outs"), rewards (including positive reinforcement), and other forms of control teach children that they are loved only when they please us or impress us. Kohn cites a body of powerful, and largely unknown, research detailing the damage caused by leading children to believe they must earn our approval. That's precisely the message children derive from common discipline techniques, even though it's not the message most parents intend to send.
More than just another book about discipline, though, Unconditional Parenting addresses the ways parents think about, feel about, and act with their children. It invites them to question their most basic assumptions about raising kids while offering a wealth of practical strategies for shifting from "doing to" to "working with" parenting - including how to replace praise with the unconditional support that children need to grow into healthy, caring, responsible people. This is an eye-opening, paradigm-shattering book that will reconnect readers to their own best instincts and inspire them to become better parents.
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把你的孩子当盘菜 【文】王传言 你希望你的孩子未来是什么样子的？面对这个疑问你可能会想出很多答案。但是，你有没有想过一个问题：你的孩子希望自己未来是什么样子的。你的孩子是按照你的路数去走完自己的路还是要按照自己的路数去经营人生，这一点至关重要也是该书的终极思...
评分 评分几年前读过一次科恩的《无条件养育》，当时看得一知半解，留下了好些疑问。这几年不断的学习育儿知识，也在和一些好学的妈妈们的交流讨论中成长了不少，我自己也在各种不同的渠道里和大家分享过自己在育儿道路上的一些小小心得体会。于是，最近又把《无条件养育》这本书翻出来...
评分有条件养育下成长的我，如何无条件养育自己的孩子？ 这是我从小就在思考的问题，当然彼时还不晓得「有条件」「无条件」的概念，只是困惑，「幼时在暴烈环境下幸存的人，未来可能对自己的孩子温柔以待吗？」听闻过太多不幸的宿命循环，对这个问题自然格外观照。 接触到「无条件...
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One of the best parenting books I've ever read. Answered most of my questions regarding discipline. I have changed my old practices and need to revise my previous writings.
评分One of the best parenting books I've ever read. Answered most of my questions regarding discipline. I have changed my old practices and need to revise my previous writings.
评分一，作为父母，无条件地爱孩子，是由于ta是你的孩子，而不是由于ta做了哪些可以让你自豪的事。这种无条件的爱，既不是溺爱，也不是对你的孩子市恩市义（所谓养育之恩，即属市恩市义）。二，做出恰当决定的能力需要从幼年一点点培养、历练，并让孩子了解每一项决定都与责任的承担有关。学习做出恰当决定的途径，恰恰是通过做决定本身，而非通过听从他人指导。三，要有勇气、有能力面对和质疑自己的养育经历以及被养育的经历。是的，人通常不愿意质疑自己、质疑自己亲近的人，尤其是自己父母。但谁都不是完人，包括你和你父母，所以，只要用心，一定会找到可以改进的地方，使自己变得更好并尝试做更好的父母。
评分One of the best parenting books I've ever read. Answered most of my questions regarding discipline. I have changed my old practices and need to revise my previous writings.
评分One of the best parenting books I've ever read. Answered most of my questions regarding discipline. I have changed my old practices and need to revise my previous writings.
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