Far From the Tree 在線電子書 圖書標籤: 心理學 社會學 安德魯·所羅門 英文原版 AndrewSolomon sociology Psychology 《紐約時報》:2012年度十大好書
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Andrew Soloman的 TED 曾經陪我跑過多少夜晚... # Being vulnerable is not shameful.
評分基本上寫齣瞭我轉到這行的初衷 不過我還是很糾結PhD的minor應該是醫學人類學還是醫學社會學 哈哈哈哈 #我的PhD在哪兒
評分給自己揮之不去的“邊緣感”找到瞭一個很好的齣口。但太長瞭,又著急看彆的,日後再續。
評分社會學意義十分珍貴
評分作者剋服dyslexia,承受homosexual identity壓力,成為lecturer@cornell u,瞭不起//撇開作者的傾嚮和抽樣誤差,本書呈現的他人的生活和感悟都值得去瞭解、思考//horizontal vs vertical identities//讀文字仿佛可以聽到作者的聲音
Andrew Solomon writes about politics, culture, and health. He lives in New York and London. He has written for many publications--such as the New York Times, The New Yorker and Artforum--on topics including depression, Soviet artists, the cultural rebirth of Afghanistan, Libyan politics, and deaf culture. He is also a Contributing Writer for Travel and Leisure. In 2008, he was awarded the Humanitarian Award of the Society of Biological Psychiatry for his contributions to the field of mental health. He has a staff appointment as a Lecturer in Psychiatry at Cornell Medical School (Weill-Cornell Medical College).
From the National Book Award–winning author of The Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression comes a monumental new work, a decade in the writing, about family. In Far from the Tree, Andrew Solomon tells the stories of parents who not only learn to deal with their exceptional children but also find profound meaning in doing so.
Solomon’s startling proposition is that diversity is what unites us all. He writes about families coping with deafness, dwarfism, Down syndrome, autism, schizophrenia, multiple severe disabilities, with children who are prodigies, who are conceived in rape, who become criminals, who are transgender. While each of these characteristics is potentially isolating, the experience of difference within families is universal, as are the triumphs of love Solomon documents in every chapter.
All parenting turns on a crucial question: to what extent parents should accept their children for who they are, and to what extent they should help them become their best selves. Drawing on forty thousand pages of interview transcripts with more than three hundred families, Solomon mines the eloquence of ordinary people facing extreme challenges. Whether considering prenatal screening for genetic disorders, cochlear implants for the deaf, or gender reassignment surgery for transgender people, Solomon narrates a universal struggle toward compassion. Many families grow closer through caring for a challenging child; most discover supportive communities of others similarly affected; some are inspired to become advocates and activists, celebrating the very conditions they once feared. Woven into their courageous and affirming stories is Solomon’s journey to accepting his own identity, which culminated in his midlife decision, influenced by this research, to become a parent.
Elegantly reported by a spectacularly original thinker, Far from the Tree explores themes of generosity, acceptance, and tolerance—all rooted in the insight that love can transcend every prejudice. This crucial and revelatory book expands our definition of what it is to be human.
如果你十几岁的孩子是个侏儒,而他/她却非常渴望开始约会,身为母亲,你的感觉会是怎样的呢?如果你被强奸后怀上你的女儿,虽然你很爱她,但却不能忍受她碰你,你又该怎么办呢?如果你的儿子非常快乐,但却完全失聪,他已经忘记了听见声音的感觉是怎样的了,回忆起你们一起演奏...
評分不管读者从前怎么理解仁慈、谦逊和悲天悯人,美国刚刚出版的一本大部头非虚构类作品或许都能进一步丰富对仁慈、谦逊和悲天悯人的理解。《离树很远》(Far From the Tree: Parents, Children and the Search for Identity, 2012年11月出版)正文部分有702页,加上注释以后总共有97...
評分很久之前,我看到过一个fun fact,大意是跟很多长期的聋哑人讨论一个能够恢复听力的机会,出乎意料的是,大部分的长期聋哑人都对这样的机会不以为然,很多甚至还表示,自己不回去选择恢复自己的听力。当时的我震惊之余,也觉得大概只是他们只是习惯了这种无声的状态。就像我的...
評分第一章像漫长的序,洋洋洒洒58页但不知道想说什么,没有论点也没有条理。其中44-58页居然是名为注释的bibliography!第一次见把这东西放文中的。 第二章听障。个人故事堆砌得再多也只是故事,没有递进没有转折,众生平等,全都一样:耳蜗不好口语不好手语好,父母给幼儿安人工...
評分很久之前,我看到过一个fun fact,大意是跟很多长期的聋哑人讨论一个能够恢复听力的机会,出乎意料的是,大部分的长期聋哑人都对这样的机会不以为然,很多甚至还表示,自己不回去选择恢复自己的听力。当时的我震惊之余,也觉得大概只是他们只是习惯了这种无声的状态。就像我的...
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