Far From the Tree 在线电子书 图书标签: 心理学 社会学 安德鲁·所罗门 英文原版 AndrewSolomon sociology Psychology 《纽约时报》:2012年度十大好书
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第一章 極精彩 第二章 嗯 還蠻重複上一章的 第三章 嗯 依然重複 第四章 放棄
评分如果不是社会的非难,我不觉得我的不同有什么沮丧。一本不同者和其他身份不同者探索身份的书。好书为什么没有中文版?
评分虽然部分章节有些冗长,观点也有些biased,但依然不失为一本must-read。
评分整部书的问题有三个,一是作者本人的左倾(那是相当的liberal),二是叙事谬误(每个人在木已成舟时叙述当年都不靠谱),三是抽样误差(愿意接受采访的人本身就有特点)。虽然有这些问题,但不得不说看此书能够拓宽视野和珍爱生活
评分An apple nevet falls far from the tree, 最终说不定会变成the tree never grows far from the apple, 一本关于平行身份(horizontal identity)的书,其中有几百个不寻常家庭的访谈记录,也有作者本人的心路历程。这些abnormal的身份可能是唐氏综合症或侏儒症这样的天生生理残疾,也可能是强暴受孕或是有变性需求的孩子,每个家庭都有过不同程度的挣扎,虽然书中结果正面的例子居多,但从large scale上来看,能figure out如何过上相对正常生活,如何平衡这种身份差异的家庭应该仍是少数。作者本人的倾向表达得很明显,有些arguement稍显重复,但受访者,也包括作者自己的故事本身仍是最动人之处。
Andrew Solomon writes about politics, culture, and health. He lives in New York and London. He has written for many publications--such as the New York Times, The New Yorker and Artforum--on topics including depression, Soviet artists, the cultural rebirth of Afghanistan, Libyan politics, and deaf culture. He is also a Contributing Writer for Travel and Leisure. In 2008, he was awarded the Humanitarian Award of the Society of Biological Psychiatry for his contributions to the field of mental health. He has a staff appointment as a Lecturer in Psychiatry at Cornell Medical School (Weill-Cornell Medical College).
From the National Book Award–winning author of The Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression comes a monumental new work, a decade in the writing, about family. In Far from the Tree, Andrew Solomon tells the stories of parents who not only learn to deal with their exceptional children but also find profound meaning in doing so.
Solomon’s startling proposition is that diversity is what unites us all. He writes about families coping with deafness, dwarfism, Down syndrome, autism, schizophrenia, multiple severe disabilities, with children who are prodigies, who are conceived in rape, who become criminals, who are transgender. While each of these characteristics is potentially isolating, the experience of difference within families is universal, as are the triumphs of love Solomon documents in every chapter.
All parenting turns on a crucial question: to what extent parents should accept their children for who they are, and to what extent they should help them become their best selves. Drawing on forty thousand pages of interview transcripts with more than three hundred families, Solomon mines the eloquence of ordinary people facing extreme challenges. Whether considering prenatal screening for genetic disorders, cochlear implants for the deaf, or gender reassignment surgery for transgender people, Solomon narrates a universal struggle toward compassion. Many families grow closer through caring for a challenging child; most discover supportive communities of others similarly affected; some are inspired to become advocates and activists, celebrating the very conditions they once feared. Woven into their courageous and affirming stories is Solomon’s journey to accepting his own identity, which culminated in his midlife decision, influenced by this research, to become a parent.
Elegantly reported by a spectacularly original thinker, Far from the Tree explores themes of generosity, acceptance, and tolerance—all rooted in the insight that love can transcend every prejudice. This crucial and revelatory book expands our definition of what it is to be human.
新辟的一条路,我爱它安静,下班特地改变了路线。马路宽宽长长,人行道干净平展,一盏一盏路灯明亮光洁。在这寂寞的路上,远远的,有两个红色的身影。我看了一眼,只一眼,就认出了我十五年前的邻居。 那是不可能认错的。尽管妈妈变矮了,姑娘高过了她,当年五六岁的小姑娘变成...
评分感觉Far From the Tree这书有挺严重的选择偏倚和回忆偏倚,更能接受子女残障的家庭才会更愿意接受作者的访谈,而这样的家庭回忆当年时难免对自己已经选择的道路更加坚定。
评分如果你十几岁的孩子是个侏儒,而他/她却非常渴望开始约会,身为母亲,你的感觉会是怎样的呢?如果你被强奸后怀上你的女儿,虽然你很爱她,但却不能忍受她碰你,你又该怎么办呢?如果你的儿子非常快乐,但却完全失聪,他已经忘记了听见声音的感觉是怎样的了,回忆起你们一起演奏...
评分感觉Far From the Tree这书有挺严重的选择偏倚和回忆偏倚,更能接受子女残障的家庭才会更愿意接受作者的访谈,而这样的家庭回忆当年时难免对自己已经选择的道路更加坚定。
评分第一章像漫长的序,洋洋洒洒58页但不知道想说什么,没有论点也没有条理。其中44-58页居然是名为注释的bibliography!第一次见把这东西放文中的。 第二章听障。个人故事堆砌得再多也只是故事,没有递进没有转折,众生平等,全都一样:耳蜗不好口语不好手语好,父母给幼儿安人工...
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