Far From the Tree 在线电子书 图书标签: 心理学 社会学 安德鲁·所罗门 英文原版 AndrewSolomon sociology Psychology 《纽约时报》:2012年度十大好书
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There is a long review in the Nov 19 2012 issue of New Yorker. Almost a thousand pages long.
评分基本上写出了我转到这行的初衷 不过我还是很纠结PhD的minor应该是医学人类学还是医学社会学 哈哈哈哈 #我的PhD在哪儿
评分Andrew Soloman的 TED 曾经陪我跑过多少夜晚... # Being vulnerable is not shameful.
评分长是真长,毕竟300个案例、历经10年调查,但还是很好读的。Far from the tree 是本书所有案例的前提,这些因生理、心理疾病或社会原因而拥有特别身份的孩子,每一个都偏离了其家庭的亲缘。其中有一些有幸可以因特殊的身份(如听障、侏儒症、跨性别等等)向家庭以外延伸,获得水平的身份认同。这样的身份认同,进一步甚至可以推动社会进步,激起社会上对该身份包容、适配的讨论与改革;退一步至少也可以给这些家庭和孩子一些归属感,聊以安慰成长中不可避免的痛苦。如若孩子背离亲缘,像苹果落在了很远的地方,父母之爱能做些什么呢?Solomon在最后一章说,the tree doesn’t grow far from the apple.
评分There is a long review in the Nov 19 2012 issue of New Yorker. Almost a thousand pages long.
Andrew Solomon writes about politics, culture, and health. He lives in New York and London. He has written for many publications--such as the New York Times, The New Yorker and Artforum--on topics including depression, Soviet artists, the cultural rebirth of Afghanistan, Libyan politics, and deaf culture. He is also a Contributing Writer for Travel and Leisure. In 2008, he was awarded the Humanitarian Award of the Society of Biological Psychiatry for his contributions to the field of mental health. He has a staff appointment as a Lecturer in Psychiatry at Cornell Medical School (Weill-Cornell Medical College).
From the National Book Award–winning author of The Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression comes a monumental new work, a decade in the writing, about family. In Far from the Tree, Andrew Solomon tells the stories of parents who not only learn to deal with their exceptional children but also find profound meaning in doing so.
Solomon’s startling proposition is that diversity is what unites us all. He writes about families coping with deafness, dwarfism, Down syndrome, autism, schizophrenia, multiple severe disabilities, with children who are prodigies, who are conceived in rape, who become criminals, who are transgender. While each of these characteristics is potentially isolating, the experience of difference within families is universal, as are the triumphs of love Solomon documents in every chapter.
All parenting turns on a crucial question: to what extent parents should accept their children for who they are, and to what extent they should help them become their best selves. Drawing on forty thousand pages of interview transcripts with more than three hundred families, Solomon mines the eloquence of ordinary people facing extreme challenges. Whether considering prenatal screening for genetic disorders, cochlear implants for the deaf, or gender reassignment surgery for transgender people, Solomon narrates a universal struggle toward compassion. Many families grow closer through caring for a challenging child; most discover supportive communities of others similarly affected; some are inspired to become advocates and activists, celebrating the very conditions they once feared. Woven into their courageous and affirming stories is Solomon’s journey to accepting his own identity, which culminated in his midlife decision, influenced by this research, to become a parent.
Elegantly reported by a spectacularly original thinker, Far from the Tree explores themes of generosity, acceptance, and tolerance—all rooted in the insight that love can transcend every prejudice. This crucial and revelatory book expands our definition of what it is to be human.
如果你十几岁的孩子是个侏儒,而他/她却非常渴望开始约会,身为母亲,你的感觉会是怎样的呢?如果你被强奸后怀上你的女儿,虽然你很爱她,但却不能忍受她碰你,你又该怎么办呢?如果你的儿子非常快乐,但却完全失聪,他已经忘记了听见声音的感觉是怎样的了,回忆起你们一起演奏...
评分如果你十几岁的孩子是个侏儒,而他/她却非常渴望开始约会,身为母亲,你的感觉会是怎样的呢?如果你被强奸后怀上你的女儿,虽然你很爱她,但却不能忍受她碰你,你又该怎么办呢?如果你的儿子非常快乐,但却完全失聪,他已经忘记了听见声音的感觉是怎样的了,回忆起你们一起演奏...
评分《奇迹男孩》是一部中规中矩的温情片,却也足以打动很多人的心。 1. 男孩奥吉有着幸福完美的家庭,住在富人区,有爱他的父母和姐姐,但在他心里,他却不认为自己是幸福的。因为出生时的事故导致他脸部畸形,有点丑陋,或者说可怕。因此遭到了同龄小孩的排斥甚至欺凌。所以当有...
评分如果你十几岁的孩子是个侏儒,而他/她却非常渴望开始约会,身为母亲,你的感觉会是怎样的呢?如果你被强奸后怀上你的女儿,虽然你很爱她,但却不能忍受她碰你,你又该怎么办呢?如果你的儿子非常快乐,但却完全失聪,他已经忘记了听见声音的感觉是怎样的了,回忆起你们一起演奏...
评分新辟的一条路,我爱它安静,下班特地改变了路线。马路宽宽长长,人行道干净平展,一盏一盏路灯明亮光洁。在这寂寞的路上,远远的,有两个红色的身影。我看了一眼,只一眼,就认出了我十五年前的邻居。 那是不可能认错的。尽管妈妈变矮了,姑娘高过了她,当年五六岁的小姑娘变成...
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