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Confirmation Bias,這個確實太強大瞭,要如何對抗呢?
評分篇幅可以縮減1/3,為瞭論證自己的觀點,confirmation bias,self-justification,有些例子與論段比較牽強(夫妻關係的部分)。一個有益的觀點是,你與你的錯誤,應該分開來看,你的錯誤不能完全代錶你是誰(我覺得這個也取決於是什麼錯誤吧)
評分原本希望這本書講更多的關於cognitive dissonance的,全書還是太淺,隻講到sefl-justification部分,例子太話嘮。大約讀第一章和最後一章即可。
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評分原本希望這本書講更多的關於cognitive dissonance的,全書還是太淺,隻講到sefl-justification部分,例子太話嘮。大約讀第一章和最後一章即可。
Carol Tavris is a social psychologist, writer, and lecturer whose goal is to promote psychological science and critical thinking in improving our lives. She is coauthor, with Elliot Aronson, of "Mistakes Were Made (But Not by ME): Why we justify foolish beliefs, bad decisions, and hurtful acts," and, with Avrum Bluming, the forthcoming "Estrogen Matters." Her other major books include the landmark "Anger: The misunderstood emotion," a book well known for its critical look at unvalidated notions about the inevitability of anger and the need to "ventilate" it, and how anger can best be expressed constructively. She is also author of the award-winning "The Mismeasure of Woman: Why women are not the better sex, the inferior sex, or the opposite sex," and coauthor of two widely used textbooks, with Carole Wade, for introductory psychology. She has written hundreds of essays and book reviews on topics in psychological science, and is a highly regarded lecturer who has spoken to groups around the world, from New Zealand to Finland. She is a Fellow of the Association for Psychological Science and the Los Angeles Institute for the Humanities.
Elliot Aronson is a social psychologist and Professor Emeritus at the University of California at Santa Cruz and Distinguished Visiting Professor at Stanford University. He has previously taught at Harvard, the University of Texas and the University of Minnesota. As a researcher, he is best known for his groundbreaking research on social influence and persuasion as well as for the invention of the jigsaw classroom (a strategy for reducing prejudice in public schools).
He has written 22 books including The Social Animal, Age of Propaganda (with Anthony Pratkanis), Nobody Left to Hate, The Adventures of Ruthie and a Little Boy Named Grandpa (with his 7-year-oldgranddaughter, Ruth Aronson, and Mistakes Were Made But Not By Me (with Carol Tavris).
Aronson is the only person in the 120-year history of the American Psychological Association to have received all three of its highest awards: For Distinguished Research, Distinguished Teaching, and Distinguished Writing. In 1981, he was named Professor of the Year by the Council for the Advancement and Support of Education.
Among his other awards are the Gordon Allport prize for his contributions to inter-racial harmony and the William James Lifetime Achievement Award from the Association for Psychological Science (2007). Recently, his peers named him as one of the 100 most influential psychologists of the 20th Century.
He was elected to the American Academy of Arts and Sciences and
has served as President of the Society of Personality and Social Psychology as well as President of the Western Psychological Association.
Why do people dodge responsibility when things fall apart? Why the parade of public figures unable to own up when they screw up? Why the endless marital quarrels over who is right? Why can we see hypocrisy in others but not in ourselves? Are we all liars? Or do we really believe the stories we tell?
Renowned social psychologists Carol Tavris and Elliot Aronson take a compelling look into how the brain is wired for self-justification. When we make mistakes, we must calm the cognitive dissonance that jars our feelings of self-worth. And so we create fictions that absolve us of responsibility, restoring our belief that we are smart, moral, and right—a belief that often keeps us on a course that is dumb, immoral, and wrong.
Backed by years of research and delivered in lively, energetic prose, Mistakes Were Made (But Not by Me) offers a fascinating explanation of self-deception—how it works, the harm it can cause, and how we can overcome it.
人最困难的事莫过于认错。我指的是自觉的、诚心诚意的认错。用刀架着你脖子的不算,用枪抵着你的脑袋也不算,老婆扬言不要你上床、上司威胁要炒你鱿鱼……这类被迫的情形都不算。 好在所有的难事情都有人研究,替我们支招。当我读到美国心理学家卡罗尔...
評分一个很好地比喻,人怎样不断地为自己的行为找理由,进而在固定的方向上越走越远。就像是站在金字塔尖上,一个小的决定来正正当化自己的决定,一步步地走向塔底,最后呈现出巨大的差异。 作者说明白了道理对现实的指导意义不大。 但我觉得,当一个人犯了弥天大错时,可以用来分...
評分不知道是幸运还是不幸,我看了这本书。我那些认识失调再难调节。 虽然那些自我欺骗虽然仍然起作用,不过已经不太好使,对于本来可以自然接受的事实,现在却要想想,再想想,乃至今天也没有定论。 或许,我应该忘了这本书。 认知上的矛盾,是让人痛苦的一件事,大概只有把自己...
評分错了,怎么办? 中国有句话,叫做“越描越黑”。说的是,犯错后越是争辩,效果越差。 《错不在我》分析了人犯错后,天然地倾向于自我辩护。 自我辩护的原动力,是认知相符。大脑想法、态度、信念、意见,与客观事实一致,就会出现愉快的情绪。如果不一致,就会出现“认知失调”...
評分一个很好地比喻,人怎样不断地为自己的行为找理由,进而在固定的方向上越走越远。就像是站在金字塔尖上,一个小的决定来正正当化自己的决定,一步步地走向塔底,最后呈现出巨大的差异。 作者说明白了道理对现实的指导意义不大。 但我觉得,当一个人犯了弥天大错时,可以用来分...
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