Quiet 在线电子书 图书标签: 心理学 Psychology Introversion 英文原版 心理 内向 SusanCain 美国
发表于2024-12-22
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干了这碗鸡汤!(然而越读越紧张)有声书版也很棒。喜欢看案例的人也没觉得case太多。作为学术鸡汤,让你不停地对自己的童年唏嘘不已……哎
评分干了这碗鸡汤!(然而越读越紧张)有声书版也很棒。喜欢看案例的人也没觉得case太多。作为学术鸡汤,让你不停地对自己的童年唏嘘不已……哎
评分读这本并不是为了去「验证」或「正名」,别搞得像内向的人天生矮一截一样嘛,虽然作者总时不时让我这么觉得。最后几章更有收获,讲如何对待身边的内向/外向人,尤其是在成长阶段的小孩子。总想起自己小时候那个装作很外向的阶段,不过回头看一下觉得做得还不错呢。当然现在这种stay true的状态更好。哦对作者确实有点絮叨,耐着性子解释给你听的感觉。
评分via Alan. As Alan said, this book crystalizes things we have been realizing on our own. I am always proud to be an introvert. Wait, what is the name of that song? Quiet is the new loud!
评分买这本书是冲着声誉去的,也看了作者在TED上的讲话,但是低于我的期望。像是一本论文式的励志畅销书,举了很多研究来佐证内向型的人其实有多么优秀,但对于相反的研究却避而不谈,明显的information bais。 对于社会对于内向者的偏见有一定的纠正作用,但仅此而已,一刀切的二元论来论述问题,除了正名的作用,没有更深入的东西。
SUSAN CAIN is a consultant to major corporations and law firms on negotiation strategies and personal presentation style. She lives in the Hudson River Valley with her husband and two sons. Visit her website, ThePowerofIntroverts.com.
At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking, reading to partying; who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor working on their own over brainstorming in teams. Although they are often labeled "quiet," it is to introverts that we owe many of the great contributions to society--from van Gogh’s sunflowers to the invention of the personal computer.
Passionately argued, impressively researched, and filled with indelible stories of real people, Quiet shows how dramatically we undervalue introverts, and how much we lose in doing so. Taking the reader on a journey from Dale Carnegie’s birthplace to Harvard Business School, from a Tony Robbins seminar to an evangelical megachurch, Susan Cain charts the rise of the Extrovert Ideal in the twentieth century and explores its far-reaching effects. She talks to Asian-American students who feel alienated from the brash, backslapping atmosphere of American schools. She questions the dominant values of American business culture, where forced collaboration can stand in the way of innovation, and where the leadership potential of introverts is often overlooked. And she draws on cutting-edge research in psychology and neuroscience to reveal the surprising differences between extroverts and introverts.
Perhaps most inspiring, she introduces us to successful introverts--from a witty, high-octane public speaker who recharges in solitude after his talks, to a record-breaking salesman who quietly taps into the power of questions. Finally, she offers invaluable advice on everything from how to better negotiate differences in introvert-extrovert relationships to how to empower an introverted child to when it makes sense to be a "pretend extrovert."
This extraordinary book has the power to permanently change how we see introverts and, equally important, how introverts see themselves.
朋友们绝不认为我是个内向者,或许因为我笑点低,说话很大声,有点凶巴巴,对人很强势。 于是我也自认为我是外向者。 似乎潜意识里,都认为内向就是个贬义词,意味着胆小,怯懦,不善交际。显然我离以上还是有一段距离的。 但是渐渐地,看过的书,认识的人,经历过事情的越来越...
评分如作者所言,美国社会中,内向者约占1/3-1/2的比例。考虑到美国是一个移民社会,移民崇尚冒险,而冒险/谨慎与外向/内向有正相关性。那么在非移民社会,内向者的比例应该会更高才对。 以中国而论,数千年结构稳定的农耕社会显然不需要那么多的外向者,安分守己的内向者才是这个...
评分心理学家荣格将人的性格分为内向者和外向者,在他看来,内向者更关注内心世界,而外向者倾向关注人们的外部活动;内向者的注意力往往集中在事物的意义上,而外向者则会投身与事件当中;内向者需要独处来获得放松,而外向者在社会交往中就能吸取能量。图书:内向性格的竞争力 ...
评分如作者所言,美国社会中,内向者约占1/3-1/2的比例。考虑到美国是一个移民社会,移民崇尚冒险,而冒险/谨慎与外向/内向有正相关性。那么在非移民社会,内向者的比例应该会更高才对。 以中国而论,数千年结构稳定的农耕社会显然不需要那么多的外向者,安分守己的内向者才是这个...
评分这本书有多少科学性呢? 就是将自己的经历分享出来,然后总结。果然积极心理学就如传闻般那么坑爹。 知识点密度说实话低得可怜,像喝白开水一样。 而内向有优势,稍微用脑子就可以想得出来。 只能说,这本书除了给那些精神低落的人稍稍提神,没什么作用。
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