Quiet 在线电子书 图书标签: 心理学 Psychology Introversion 英文原版 心理 内向 SusanCain 美国
发表于2025-02-22
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推薦外向者閱讀,有助於了解內向者,同時這本書也爲內向者「正名」
评分感觉是一本写给撸瑟看、挖空心思振臂高呼“其实我们也没那么差!比如你看有那么两三个名人也撸!而且他们取得的成就都是撸出来的!只要花些小心思我们也可以像正常人一样生活自理!我撸我自豪!”的书,至少作为撸瑟的我是这么想的。
评分干了这碗鸡汤!(然而越读越紧张)有声书版也很棒。喜欢看案例的人也没觉得case太多。作为学术鸡汤,让你不停地对自己的童年唏嘘不已……哎
评分读这本并不是为了去「验证」或「正名」,别搞得像内向的人天生矮一截一样嘛,虽然作者总时不时让我这么觉得。最后几章更有收获,讲如何对待身边的内向/外向人,尤其是在成长阶段的小孩子。总想起自己小时候那个装作很外向的阶段,不过回头看一下觉得做得还不错呢。当然现在这种stay true的状态更好。哦对作者确实有点絮叨,耐着性子解释给你听的感觉。
评分读这本并不是为了去「验证」或「正名」,别搞得像内向的人天生矮一截一样嘛,虽然作者总时不时让我这么觉得。最后几章更有收获,讲如何对待身边的内向/外向人,尤其是在成长阶段的小孩子。总想起自己小时候那个装作很外向的阶段,不过回头看一下觉得做得还不错呢。当然现在这种stay true的状态更好。哦对作者确实有点絮叨,耐着性子解释给你听的感觉。
SUSAN CAIN is a consultant to major corporations and law firms on negotiation strategies and personal presentation style. She lives in the Hudson River Valley with her husband and two sons. Visit her website, ThePowerofIntroverts.com.
At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking, reading to partying; who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor working on their own over brainstorming in teams. Although they are often labeled "quiet," it is to introverts that we owe many of the great contributions to society--from van Gogh’s sunflowers to the invention of the personal computer.
Passionately argued, impressively researched, and filled with indelible stories of real people, Quiet shows how dramatically we undervalue introverts, and how much we lose in doing so. Taking the reader on a journey from Dale Carnegie’s birthplace to Harvard Business School, from a Tony Robbins seminar to an evangelical megachurch, Susan Cain charts the rise of the Extrovert Ideal in the twentieth century and explores its far-reaching effects. She talks to Asian-American students who feel alienated from the brash, backslapping atmosphere of American schools. She questions the dominant values of American business culture, where forced collaboration can stand in the way of innovation, and where the leadership potential of introverts is often overlooked. And she draws on cutting-edge research in psychology and neuroscience to reveal the surprising differences between extroverts and introverts.
Perhaps most inspiring, she introduces us to successful introverts--from a witty, high-octane public speaker who recharges in solitude after his talks, to a record-breaking salesman who quietly taps into the power of questions. Finally, she offers invaluable advice on everything from how to better negotiate differences in introvert-extrovert relationships to how to empower an introverted child to when it makes sense to be a "pretend extrovert."
This extraordinary book has the power to permanently change how we see introverts and, equally important, how introverts see themselves.
“你知道我别无所求,只想有个安静的环境写写东西”,当我在校园里来来回回,来来回回地走,心心念念,心心念念地只有这句话。我不知道看起来偌大的校园,我要去哪里才能找到,才能找到一处没有白天和黑夜,没有喧嚣和吵闹,没有成群结队,没有熟人朋友的地方,任由我高兴就写...
评分上级推荐我读这本书。我一看书名——《安静-内向性格的竞争力》,警惕与羞愧立马竖起。 为何不认同别人说我“内向”?我在书中找到了答案。 内向性格在长期以来的社会观念中是“低劣”的,相对于总能大声发出自己声音的外向性格,它更是没有竞争力的。但实际上喜欢安静独处...
评分首先这本书对我的帮助却是很大,对我自己而言,至少是我自己认为,如果用1-10来评定我的内向倾向的话我想没有9也有8,从小我就清楚知道自己是那么与众不同,我是天生的introvert,在这本书里头所说的所有introvert的特征我没有不中枪的,但这本书却是让我重新审视自己的...
评分1、给内向者的建议:在周末的时候尽量保持自己安静的本性,在工作日里努力“走出自己的世界,流露出混合的性格,跟你的团队和同事联系,调动起你可以控制的一切能量”。(而如果你是个外向的人,你应该让你的周末回归本我变得疯狂起来,上课的时候专注于学业。) 2、你在某些领...
评分在地铁上断断续续看了快一个月,才在四月中将此书读完。书写得很好,差不多50页的注释,可见所下的功夫。其思路跟Malcolm Gladwell的书一样:整合学术界里(她针对的是心理学与认知科学)关于某一课题的发现,然后结合生活中的事例讲述出来。文笔也很好,清晰流畅,但幽默感少...
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