SUSAN CAIN is a consultant to major corporations and law firms on negotiation strategies and personal presentation style. She lives in the Hudson River Valley with her husband and two sons. Visit her website, ThePowerofIntroverts.com.
At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking, reading to partying; who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor working on their own over brainstorming in teams. Although they are often labeled "quiet," it is to introverts that we owe many of the great contributions to society--from van Gogh’s sunflowers to the invention of the personal computer.
Passionately argued, impressively researched, and filled with indelible stories of real people, Quiet shows how dramatically we undervalue introverts, and how much we lose in doing so. Taking the reader on a journey from Dale Carnegie’s birthplace to Harvard Business School, from a Tony Robbins seminar to an evangelical megachurch, Susan Cain charts the rise of the Extrovert Ideal in the twentieth century and explores its far-reaching effects. She talks to Asian-American students who feel alienated from the brash, backslapping atmosphere of American schools. She questions the dominant values of American business culture, where forced collaboration can stand in the way of innovation, and where the leadership potential of introverts is often overlooked. And she draws on cutting-edge research in psychology and neuroscience to reveal the surprising differences between extroverts and introverts.
Perhaps most inspiring, she introduces us to successful introverts--from a witty, high-octane public speaker who recharges in solitude after his talks, to a record-breaking salesman who quietly taps into the power of questions. Finally, she offers invaluable advice on everything from how to better negotiate differences in introvert-extrovert relationships to how to empower an introverted child to when it makes sense to be a "pretend extrovert."
This extraordinary book has the power to permanently change how we see introverts and, equally important, how introverts see themselves.
在地铁上断断续续看了快一个月,才在四月中将此书读完。书写得很好,差不多50页的注释,可见所下的功夫。其思路跟Malcolm Gladwell的书一样:整合学术界里(她针对的是心理学与认知科学)关于某一课题的发现,然后结合生活中的事例讲述出来。文笔也很好,清晰流畅,但幽默感少...
评分这本书有多少科学性呢? 就是将自己的经历分享出来,然后总结。果然积极心理学就如传闻般那么坑爹。 知识点密度说实话低得可怜,像喝白开水一样。 而内向有优势,稍微用脑子就可以想得出来。 只能说,这本书除了给那些精神低落的人稍稍提神,没什么作用。
评分引言 南北性格 关键词:估量自己 做你自己 整理: 对于内向的人来说,估量自己是件困难的事情,但是当他们去做的时候却又是很强大的。 内向性格是自己至关重要的一个组成部分,接纳自我也意味着没有必要排斥这种性格,性格是“我是谁”的重要基础。学会欣然接受这种本...
评分在地铁上断断续续看了快一个月,才在四月中将此书读完。书写得很好,差不多50页的注释,可见所下的功夫。其思路跟Malcolm Gladwell的书一样:整合学术界里(她针对的是心理学与认知科学)关于某一课题的发现,然后结合生活中的事例讲述出来。文笔也很好,清晰流畅,但幽默感少...
评分这本书有多少科学性呢? 就是将自己的经历分享出来,然后总结。果然积极心理学就如传闻般那么坑爹。 知识点密度说实话低得可怜,像喝白开水一样。 而内向有优势,稍微用脑子就可以想得出来。 只能说,这本书除了给那些精神低落的人稍稍提神,没什么作用。
读这本并不是为了去「验证」或「正名」,别搞得像内向的人天生矮一截一样嘛,虽然作者总时不时让我这么觉得。最后几章更有收获,讲如何对待身边的内向/外向人,尤其是在成长阶段的小孩子。总想起自己小时候那个装作很外向的阶段,不过回头看一下觉得做得还不错呢。当然现在这种stay true的状态更好。哦对作者确实有点絮叨,耐着性子解释给你听的感觉。
评分推薦外向者閱讀,有助於了解內向者,同時這本書也爲內向者「正名」
评分Audiobook下载:百度云网盘。http://site.douban.com/196116/widget/notes/11781049/note/252247479/。再一次让我确认了自己 I am a real introvert。听得我真是觉得有种“老乡见老乡两眼泪汪汪”的感觉。这世上还有人如此深刻了解Introverts 啊!!非常全面非常深入非常有诚意的一本书。很喜欢。http://book.douban.com/review/6148870/
评分Audiobook下载:百度云网盘。http://site.douban.com/196116/widget/notes/11781049/note/252247479/。再一次让我确认了自己 I am a real introvert。听得我真是觉得有种“老乡见老乡两眼泪汪汪”的感觉。这世上还有人如此深刻了解Introverts 啊!!非常全面非常深入非常有诚意的一本书。很喜欢。http://book.douban.com/review/6148870/
评分Far too many introverts feel the pressure to put on a mask to be extroverts, to fit in, introverts should simply be accepted.
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