Quiet 在線電子書 圖書標籤: 心理學 Psychology Introversion 英文原版 心理 內嚮 SusanCain 美國
發表於2024-12-25
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一個內嚮妹子寫給我們這些一樣內嚮的妹子的暖心小書。
評分有聲書,感覺是數字和實驗結果堆砌的雞湯。
評分推薦外嚮者閱讀,有助於瞭解內嚮者,同時這本書也爲內嚮者「正名」
評分對內嚮的新定義方法:對外界刺激的反應程度,和Reward-seeking magnitude。更新瞭傳統上“內嚮即反社交”這一概念,而更多的是內外嚮的人有不同的社交模式和偏好。開篇指齣美國社會對personality和外嚮的強調是從鋼鐵革命,和戴爾卡內基對商業模式的鼓吹開始的。可惜更多的是基於美國社會的不足進行探討,個人認為並不適閤亞洲。而更為嚴重的一點是,這給人心安理得的不去進行社交找到瞭藉口(雖然並非作者本意)。這樣的書籍會讓讀者不自主地將自己歸類為內嚮或者外嚮,其實絕大部分人應該是處於二者之間。總體來說,誠意十足。我的中文已經退化到一定程度瞭。
評分有聲書,感覺是數字和實驗結果堆砌的雞湯。
SUSAN CAIN is a consultant to major corporations and law firms on negotiation strategies and personal presentation style. She lives in the Hudson River Valley with her husband and two sons. Visit her website, ThePowerofIntroverts.com.
At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking, reading to partying; who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor working on their own over brainstorming in teams. Although they are often labeled "quiet," it is to introverts that we owe many of the great contributions to society--from van Gogh’s sunflowers to the invention of the personal computer.
Passionately argued, impressively researched, and filled with indelible stories of real people, Quiet shows how dramatically we undervalue introverts, and how much we lose in doing so. Taking the reader on a journey from Dale Carnegie’s birthplace to Harvard Business School, from a Tony Robbins seminar to an evangelical megachurch, Susan Cain charts the rise of the Extrovert Ideal in the twentieth century and explores its far-reaching effects. She talks to Asian-American students who feel alienated from the brash, backslapping atmosphere of American schools. She questions the dominant values of American business culture, where forced collaboration can stand in the way of innovation, and where the leadership potential of introverts is often overlooked. And she draws on cutting-edge research in psychology and neuroscience to reveal the surprising differences between extroverts and introverts.
Perhaps most inspiring, she introduces us to successful introverts--from a witty, high-octane public speaker who recharges in solitude after his talks, to a record-breaking salesman who quietly taps into the power of questions. Finally, she offers invaluable advice on everything from how to better negotiate differences in introvert-extrovert relationships to how to empower an introverted child to when it makes sense to be a "pretend extrovert."
This extraordinary book has the power to permanently change how we see introverts and, equally important, how introverts see themselves.
如作者所言,美国社会中,内向者约占1/3-1/2的比例。考虑到美国是一个移民社会,移民崇尚冒险,而冒险/谨慎与外向/内向有正相关性。那么在非移民社会,内向者的比例应该会更高才对。 以中国而论,数千年结构稳定的农耕社会显然不需要那么多的外向者,安分守己的内向者才是这个...
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評分 評分还记得从一次偶然的机会得知,内外向性格的并不是以传统的健谈与否,安静与否来划分。“外向的人更倾向从外部世界寻找力量,而内向的人更倾向关注自己的内部世界”。第一次,我开始怀疑自己的性格,到底应该划分为内向,抑或外向。 你有没有过这样的经历:对陌...
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