SUSAN CAIN is a consultant to major corporations and law firms on negotiation strategies and personal presentation style. She lives in the Hudson River Valley with her husband and two sons. Visit her website, ThePowerofIntroverts.com.
At least one-third of the people we know are introverts. They are the ones who prefer listening to speaking, reading to partying; who innovate and create but dislike self-promotion; who favor working on their own over brainstorming in teams. Although they are often labeled "quiet," it is to introverts that we owe many of the great contributions to society--from van Gogh’s sunflowers to the invention of the personal computer.
Passionately argued, impressively researched, and filled with indelible stories of real people, Quiet shows how dramatically we undervalue introverts, and how much we lose in doing so. Taking the reader on a journey from Dale Carnegie’s birthplace to Harvard Business School, from a Tony Robbins seminar to an evangelical megachurch, Susan Cain charts the rise of the Extrovert Ideal in the twentieth century and explores its far-reaching effects. She talks to Asian-American students who feel alienated from the brash, backslapping atmosphere of American schools. She questions the dominant values of American business culture, where forced collaboration can stand in the way of innovation, and where the leadership potential of introverts is often overlooked. And she draws on cutting-edge research in psychology and neuroscience to reveal the surprising differences between extroverts and introverts.
Perhaps most inspiring, she introduces us to successful introverts--from a witty, high-octane public speaker who recharges in solitude after his talks, to a record-breaking salesman who quietly taps into the power of questions. Finally, she offers invaluable advice on everything from how to better negotiate differences in introvert-extrovert relationships to how to empower an introverted child to when it makes sense to be a "pretend extrovert."
This extraordinary book has the power to permanently change how we see introverts and, equally important, how introverts see themselves.
如作者所言,美国社会中,内向者约占1/3-1/2的比例。考虑到美国是一个移民社会,移民崇尚冒险,而冒险/谨慎与外向/内向有正相关性。那么在非移民社会,内向者的比例应该会更高才对。 以中国而论,数千年结构稳定的农耕社会显然不需要那么多的外向者,安分守己的内向者才是这个...
評分还记得从一次偶然的机会得知,内外向性格的并不是以传统的健谈与否,安静与否来划分。“外向的人更倾向从外部世界寻找力量,而内向的人更倾向关注自己的内部世界”。第一次,我开始怀疑自己的性格,到底应该划分为内向,抑或外向。 你有没有过这样的经历:对陌...
評分上级推荐我读这本书。我一看书名——《安静-内向性格的竞争力》,警惕与羞愧立马竖起。 为何不认同别人说我“内向”?我在书中找到了答案。 内向性格在长期以来的社会观念中是“低劣”的,相对于总能大声发出自己声音的外向性格,它更是没有竞争力的。但实际上喜欢安静独处...
評分首先这本书对我的帮助却是很大,对我自己而言,至少是我自己认为,如果用1-10来评定我的内向倾向的话我想没有9也有8,从小我就清楚知道自己是那么与众不同,我是天生的introvert,在这本书里头所说的所有introvert的特征我没有不中枪的,但这本书却是让我重新审视自己的...
評分“你知道我别无所求,只想有个安静的环境写写东西”,当我在校园里来来回回,来来回回地走,心心念念,心心念念地只有这句话。我不知道看起来偌大的校园,我要去哪里才能找到,才能找到一处没有白天和黑夜,没有喧嚣和吵闹,没有成群结队,没有熟人朋友的地方,任由我高兴就写...
內嚮不是錯,從心理學角度分析內嚮。暢銷書的寫法,但是科學地論證還是太少。
评分Insightful. A guidebook for introverts and also for the rest of the world to get to know more about the introverts and enjoy the brilliance of them. Never realized that I was actually a pseudo-extrovert or at least an ambivert. It's wonderful that I've made it through those hard times.
评分看瞭TedTalk之後去看瞭這本書,遠低於期望---原來隻是一本勵誌讀物。全書最大的問題就是分析太二元化,充滿刻闆印象。尤其是講亞洲人和華裔美國人群體時,完全缺少多這個群體的瞭解,以一兩個個案作為例子,繼續刻闆地把亞洲人和亞洲文化描繪成內嚮、勤奮、刻苦。雖然作者一再強調內嚮和外嚮是一個光譜,不是非黑即白,但分析上則與這個初衷背道而馳。唯一可取之處大約就是幫一部分內嚮的人在主流文化裏發齣瞭聲音。
评分乾瞭這碗雞湯!(然而越讀越緊張)有聲書版也很棒。喜歡看案例的人也沒覺得case太多。作為學術雞湯,讓你不停地對自己的童年唏噓不已……哎
评分買這本書是衝著聲譽去的,也看瞭作者在TED上的講話,但是低於我的期望。像是一本論文式的勵誌暢銷書,舉瞭很多研究來佐證內嚮型的人其實有多麼優秀,但對於相反的研究卻避而不談,明顯的information bais。 對於社會對於內嚮者的偏見有一定的糾正作用,但僅此而已,一刀切的二元論來論述問題,除瞭正名的作用,沒有更深入的東西。
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