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有一些比較有意思的理論構造
評分no step is too small.
評分邊看邊做起來,作者是不是想通過不斷重復他自己的mini habits to strengthen his points,微習慣感覺很棒就是文章重復太多,口水話。但起作用也是因為自己能超標完成,通過欺騙自己是個winner來變相激勵自己。所以其實最重要的是大腦要讓身體保持持續性,增強意誌力。
評分嗯,這個大哥挺有意思,很簡單的東西,反復重復湊成瞭一本書。幾韆字,最多幾萬字就能搞定的東西,寫成瞭一本書。原理很簡單. Willpower is exhaustible and motivation is not dependable. So what you can rely on is stupid small habits. 已經開始執行,希望變長lifelong habits.
評分在學波斯語時用瞭這個方法,一開始給自己的目標定為每天學習一小時,結果一個月過去瞭也沒有開始學習。後來目標改為每天學習一句話,看著stupid small,結果學瞭一句從來不滿足,基本每天都要學半小時以上。
Stephen Guise founded the award-winning* Deep Existence blog in 2011. He has been writing about and researching personal growth strategies since 2004. Stephen's articles have been featured on some of the world's most popular websites, including: Lifehacker, Mind Body Green, Problogger, Tiny Buddha, Dumb Little Man, and Pick The Brain, among others.
Fueled by his passion for personal growth and a penchant for in-depth research and analysis, Guise has developed an array of unconventional, result-driven ideas. In particular, his ideas of extreme willpower conservation, non-motivation-based action plans, multiple-cue habit formation, success-cycling, and "stupid small" steps form the unique foundation of his first-published--and second overall--book, "Mini Habits."
*Deep Existence was voted the #1 personal development blog of 2012 by White Dove Books readers and staff over 22 other nominees.
Lasting Change For Early Quitters, Burnouts, The Unmotivated, And Everyone Else Too
When I decided to start exercising consistently 10 years ago, this is what actually happened:
I tried "getting motivated." It worked sometimes.
I tried setting audacious big goals. I almost always failed them.
I tried to make changes last. They didn't.
Like most people who try to change and fail, I assumed that I was the problem.
Then one afternoon--after another failed attempt to get motivated to exercise--I (accidentally) started my first mini habit. I initially committed to do one push-up, and it turned into a full workout. I was shocked. This "stupid idea" wasn't supposed to work. I was shocked again when my success with this strategy continued for months (and to this day). I had to consider that maybe I wasn't the problem in those 10 years of mediocre results. Maybe it was my prior strategies that were ineffective, despite being oft-repeated as "the way to change" in countless books and blogs.
I was right.
Is There A Scientific Explanation For This?
As I sought understanding, I found a plethora of scientific studies that had answers, with nobody to interpret them correctly. Based on the science--which you'll find peppered throughout Mini Habits--we've been doing it all wrong.
You can succeed without the guilt, intimidation, and repeated failure associated with such strategies as "getting motivated," New Year's Resolutions, or even "just doing it." In fact, you need to stop using those strategies if they aren't giving you great results. They don't work because they all require you to fight against your subconscious brain (a fight not easily won). It's only when you start playing by your brain's rules and taking your human limitations seriously--as mini habits show you how to do--that you can achieve lasting change.
What's A Mini Habit?
A mini habit is a very small positive behavior that you force yourself to do every day; its "too small to fail" nature makes it weightless, deceptively powerful, and a superior habit-building strategy. You will have no choice but to believe in yourself when you're always moving forward. The barrier to the first step is so low that even depressed or "stuck" people can find early success and begin to reverse their lives right away. And if you think one push-up a day is too small to matter, I've got one heck of a story for you!
Aim For The First Step
They say when you aim for the moon, you'll land among the stars. Well, that doesn't make sense, as the moon is closer than the stars. I digress. The message is that you should aim very high and even if you fall short, you'll still get somewhere. I've found the opposite to be true in regards to productivity and healthy behaviors. When you aim for the moon, you'll won't shoot because it's too far away. But when you aim for the step in front of you, you might just keep going and reach the moon.
I've used the Mini Habits strategy to get into the best shape of my life, read 10x more books, and write 4x as many words. It started from requiring one push-up from myself every day. How ridiculous is that? Not so ridiculous when you consider the science of the brain, habits, and willpower. The Mini Habits system works because it's how our brains are designed to change.
I relished the opportunity to share this life-changing strategy with the world. I loved writing Mini Habits. You'll see my passion in the content as well as the overall quality and presentation of the book.
Note: This book isn't for eliminating bad habits (though some principles could be useful for breaking habits). Mini Habits is a strategy to create permanent healthy habits. Some categories include: exercise, writing, reading, thinking positively, meditating, drinking water, eating healthy foods, etc.
Book sample note: The "look inside" Amazon preview lacks the cleanly spaced formatting of the actual Mini Habits book.
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評分 評分 評分现代人工作压力很大,而过多的压力会导致我们感到焦虑,焦虑就难以集中精力,难以集中精力日常生活就越难以改变,所以我们处事的方法还是依照我们日常的习惯,这就是习惯的力量,因此,培养良好的生活习惯往往能事半功倍。但是众所周知好习惯的养成绝非易事,“坚持就是胜利”...
評分现代人工作压力很大,而过多的压力会导致我们感到焦虑,焦虑就难以集中精力,难以集中精力日常生活就越难以改变,所以我们处事的方法还是依照我们日常的习惯,这就是习惯的力量,因此,培养良好的生活习惯往往能事半功倍。但是众所周知好习惯的养成绝非易事,“坚持就是胜利”...
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