Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents 在線電子書 圖書標籤: 心理學 傢庭關係 心理 親子 Self-Help 自我提升 與父母的關係 自我療愈
發表於2024-06-22
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評分閱讀過程很痛苦 很多這樣那樣的人和事浮現眼前 作者在懇切地希望類似的adult children邁齣自我療愈的第一步 很好的書
評分應該為這本書寫一篇長評。非常感謝作者,在努力教授這些adult children以一種盡量少帶情緒的方式去處理極其情緒化的問題,這可能是唯一的存活和成長方式。雖然實踐起來很難,但值得一試,畢竟,nothing to lose...
評分It's very difficult read as it stirred up strong emotions and painful memories. Had to pause several times to take a break and calmed self down. It's worth the pain though, as by the end of the book, you will be able to tell what is good parenting from what it's not, and to trace many of your issues back to the way you were raised. You will be empo
評分(2016.31)全書對情緒不成熟的傢長的類型和其造成的影響,以及相應的應對方法的描述都很詳細且到位。無論是作為自助讀物,還是心理谘詢手冊都非常有參考價值。考慮到國內的育兒/溝通方式也在逐漸改變,本書似乎尤其適閤國情啊。然而缺點仍然是太過經驗主義,沒有數據就算再覺得有道理也還是很飄啊。需要重讀幾次以及尋找數據支持。
Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyD, is a clinical psychologist in private practice who specializes in individual psychotherapy with adult children of emotionally immature parents. She is author of Who You Were Meant to Be and writes a monthly...
If you grew up with an emotionally immature, unavailable, or selfish parent, you may have lingering feelings of anger, loneliness, betrayal, or abandonment. You may recall your childhood as a time when your emotional needs were not met, when your feelings were dismissed, or when you took on adult levels of responsibility in an effort to compensate for your parent’s behavior. These wounds can be healed, and you can move forward in your life.
In this breakthrough book, clinical psychologist Lindsay Gibson exposes the destructive nature of parents who are emotionally immature or unavailable. You will see how these parents create a sense of neglect, and discover ways to heal from the pain and confusion caused by your childhood. By freeing yourself from your parents’ emotional immaturity, you can recover your true nature, control how you react to them, and avoid disappointment. Finally, you’ll learn how to create positive, new relationships so you can build a better life.
Discover the four types of difficult parents:
The emotional parent instills feelings of instability and anxiety
The driven parent stays busy trying to perfect everything and everyone
The passive parent avoids dealing with anything upsetting
The rejecting parent is withdrawn, dismissive, and derogatory
不成熟的父母有多可怕?一年前,北大毕业美国留学生王猛在回忆自己与父母的30年生活时,写下了万字长文控诉父母的“过度关爱”、“掌控欲”、“冲突”、“炫耀”:从小母亲的包办式照顾、自己被取笑时父母的视而不见、父母对其未来志愿的操控……那些让他难以忘怀的过往,都对...
評分1 武志红老师提出“巨婴”的概念,让很多人记住了“原生家庭”这个词。 很多人看了书,会有一点点怨念,怪不得我今天的不如意,原来是中了原生家庭的毒。武老师的观点有一点值得探讨的是,他认为这很大程度是中国的愚忠愚孝文化带来的影响。 而我对此一直有困惑,“巨婴”...
評分 評分比如“首先是一个人,然后才是学生、老师、女人、男人、孩子、父母、国人、偶像、演员”的观点,在很多人那里根本行不通,他们会说“你身为某种身份享受了这么多福利,凭什么失格,凭什么连一点本分都做不好”。 且不说指责这个举动就不好。假设是很克制语气好好地说出来这个观...
評分Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents 在線電子書 pdf 下載 txt下載 epub 下載 mobi 下載 2024