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帕萃丝·埃文斯，加拿大埃文斯人际关系研究中心创始人。在全美建立了许多工作室，著述颇丰。其处女作《口头侵害关系》，被《新闻周刊》誉为一次“根本性的突破”。
- 亲密关系
- 控制和反控制
- 心理学
- Psychology
- 美国
- 成长
- 控制
- 英文原版
This timely book not only helps readers free themselves from controlling people but also seeks to explain the occurrence of verbal abuse, battering, stalking, harassment, hate crimes, gang violence, tyranny, terrorism, and territorial invasion.
What the author calls a "compelling force" overcomes these controllers; because they sense the overwhelming "psychic pain, distress, and discord permeating the world," they must impose a twisted kind of order on their friends, lovers, and acquaintances. Often people with good intentions end up doing the opposite of what they would need to do to realize a goal or fulfill a need. 352 pages. Softcover. 2002.
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关键词：精神边界 沟通 1. 看完这种类型的书，我首先会拿自己开刀。 以前我有一位这样的男朋友，什么都好，就是控制欲很强，而且常常打着爱我、了解我、为我好的旗号，控制我。 以前我一直是长发，某次我和他一起剪发，把前面的部分头发剪短，（前面看是短发，后面看是长发...
评分这本书介绍了两个核心概念，一个是逆向联结、一个是逆向关系，所谓逆向，可以理解为错误的和畸形的。逆向联结的反面就是正常的、良好的和有效率的接触方式：做自我介绍、询问对方的情况、倾听对方说话；逆向联结则是在目标是与对方拉近关系的前提下的不当接触方式：比如，...
评分看了书后突然觉得我们生活在控制与被控制中啊。我们被别人爱，或者爱别人，都在不由自主地影响对方，给对方压力。看来表达的方式很重要呢。不过要做好谈何容易，也许我们都只是在爱自己，而别人是证明自己的道具？想到这里突然很害怕。是作者看得太极端了吗？
评分 评分关键词：精神边界 沟通 1. 看完这种类型的书，我首先会拿自己开刀。 以前我有一位这样的男朋友，什么都好，就是控制欲很强，而且常常打着爱我、了解我、为我好的旗号，控制我。 以前我一直是长发，某次我和他一起剪发，把前面的部分头发剪短，（前面看是短发，后面看是长发...
用户评价
Most people who control are not aware that they are controlling. It is essential to always remind yourself to be fully aware if you are trying to control again. To learn to let go, to learn to accept that there are many ways to deal with life. Don't be afraid to make the first step. reconcile with self first <3
评分美国人说话总是略为啰嗦~
评分你想控制我，我想控制别人，永远扯不平。认清真相控制自己，我们能做的从来都只有这一件事情。
评分那种有意识向良好人际关系发展让人舒服的努力才算能称作为tactic吧
评分Most people who control are not aware that they are controlling. It is essential to always remind yourself to be fully aware if you are trying to control again. To learn to let go, to learn to accept that there are many ways to deal with life. Don't be afraid to make the first step. reconcile with self first <3
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