How Children Succeed 在线电子书 图书标签: 教育 育儿 心理学 孩子教育 儿童 发展心理学 psychology 孩子
发表于2025-02-16
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听书损失了太多细节,快速看了一遍,内容太扎实了,写的真好。
评分关于坚韧自强等品质的养成,环境比教育更重要。作者用了大量的实验事实来佐证这样简单的一句话? * 紧张的家庭氛围和长期的忽视会给孩子带来巨大的心理压力,并增加成年后患病的比率; *
评分final list of seven: grit self-control zest social intelligence gratitude optimism curiosity多年之后再念这本书,体会到的完全不一样。家里现在有高中生,更加知道性格力量的重要,不仅仅是在学业上,而是在将来人生的漫长道路上的行走。作者提到的基础:孩子小时候生活中没有(心里)创伤和持久的压力和至少要和一个家长之间建立良好的关系让孩子知道总有一个安全网的存在是他们成长的基础。基于此,才可能提到自我控制,自我激励,坚持不懈。很感慨。(2019/12/14)
评分4.20~26 现在儿科见习,发现这边的小孩,社会问题还是比较多的,正好借道这本有声书 听了1/4,发现一直在科普,各种临床实验和动物实验....
评分坚韧、自控力、好奇心等非认知能力(或者说品格特质)对一个人成功与否起着相当关键的作用,而这些能力很大程度上取决于大脑的管控功能(executive functions)。贫困家庭的儿童由于在成长过程中长期处于高压力状态,他们的管控功能(executive functions)会受到很大影响,例如自控能力差等等。从这个角度讲,他们的确输在起跑线上。不过,好消息是,品格特质直到青年时期都是可塑的。贫困和教育其实是同一个问题,要从减压,锻炼管控功能,加强品格教育入手。作者本人是记者,因此本作不是严肃的心理学或教育学著作,也没有系统去讲如何培养锻炼管控功能。中间部分结构略显松散,看着看着有点出戏。
Paul Tough is the author, most recently, of "The Years That Matter Most: How College Makes or Breaks Us." His three previous books include "How Children Succeed: Grit, Curiosity, and the Hidden Power of Character," which was translated into 27 languages and spent more than a year on the New York Times hardcover and paperback best-seller lists. Paul is a contributing writer to the New York Times Magazine; his writing has also appeared in the New Yorker, the Atlantic, and GQ and on the op-ed page of the New York Times. He is a speaker on topics including education, parenting, equity, and student success. He has worked as an editor at the New York Times Magazine and Harper's Magazine and as a reporter and producer for "This American Life." He was the founding editor of Open Letters, an online magazine. He lives with his wife and two sons in Austin, Texas, and Montauk, New York.
“Drop the flashcards—grit, character, and curiosity matter even more than cognitive skills. A persuasive wake-up call.”—People
Why do some children succeed while others fail? The story we usually tell about childhood and success is the one about intelligence: success comes to those who score highest on tests, from preschool admissions to SATs. But in How Children Succeed, Paul Tough argues that the qualities that matter more have to do with character: skills like perseverance, curiosity, optimism, and self-control.
How Children Succeed introduces us to a new generation of researchers and educators, who, for the first time, are using the tools of science to peel back the mysteries of character. Through their stories—and the stories of the children they are trying to help—Tough reveals how this new knowledge can transform young people’s lives. He uncovers the surprising ways in which parents do—and do not—prepare their children for adulthood. And he provides us with new insights into how to improve the lives of children growing up in poverty. This provocative and profoundly hopeful book will not only inspire and engage readers, it will also change our understanding of childhood itself.
“Illuminates the extremes of American childhood: for rich kids, a safety net drawn so tight it’s a harness; for poor kids, almost nothing to break their fall.”—New York Times
“I learned so much reading this book and I came away full of hope about how we can make life better for all kinds of kids.”—Slate
花了两三天时间在Kindle上读完的。 孩子们长大了,想法多了,主意正了,脾气也大了;生活中诱惑多了,但学习的任务却更重了。这些变化掺和到一起,自然就变得更不好管了。去年就发现,我跟老大的冲突越来越多了起来,而且烈度还在增加。正所谓有压迫的地方就一定会有反抗,我们...
评分How Children Succeed看完了。总结一下作者观点: 1,贫困和问题家庭的小孩生活会经历更多阻碍和心理阴影。他们住在环境复杂的街区,家里有酗酒的父亲,因情绪问题无法工作的母亲,被各种社会机构收留,甚至在成年之前辗转于不同的寄养家庭。他们经受的不止是低收入所造成的各...
评分 评分“父母之爱子,则为之计深远”。古今中外,概莫能外。每一个家庭的父母都在用自己的理解的成功学去教育孩子。尤其是在现在的中国,从孩子出生开始,高考就是家长引导孩子奋斗的终极目标,但是高考之后的终极目标又是什么呢?什么是真正的成功?如何才能引导孩子真正地走向成功...
评分只讲了什么重要,没有讲如何做,比如如何让没有勇气的孩子更有勇气呢?关于勇气,这家伙只讲了一页,还是只讲了勇气为啥重要,不过能感觉出作者为了告诉我们性格中哪些重要,确实参考了很多文献,也有一定的分析水平,但真的没啥用啊。
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