The Course of Love 在线电子书 图书标签: 爱情 阿兰·德波顿 Alaim_de_Botton 心理学 英文原版 英国 小说 文学
发表于2025-04-14
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Little aesthetic claim. Some great truths in the wake of a kind of middle-aged pragmatic pessimism. This makes me dread marriage and maturity. ????
评分De Bottom's book is always a good read. Finished the book feeling like I just went through 20 additional years of life. Ofc, be more understanding, appreciative and know yourself
评分三分给包顿的语言,一如既往地给人上课。包顿成不了小说家,把讲稿包上个美丽的皮儿。
评分全程内心在点头....
评分Love and/or romance.
他不乏米兰·昆德拉的批评深度,深具罗兰·巴特尔的解构气质;但,他比昆德拉有更立体的爱情思维,比巴特尔更熨帖恋人的爱情神经。他激活我们全新的阅读体验。
阿兰·德波顿(Alain de Botton),英伦才子型作家,生于1969年,毕业于剑桥大学,现住伦敦。著有小说《爱情笔记》(1993)、《爱上浪漫》(1994)、《亲吻与述说》(1995)及散文作品《拥抱逝水年华》(1997)、《哲学的慰藉》(2000)、《旅行的艺术》(2002)、《身份的焦虑》(2004)、《无聊的魅力》(2005)、《幸福的建筑》(2007)、《工作颂歌》(2009)、《机场里的小旅行》(2009)、《写给无神论者》(2012)、《新闻的骚动》(2015)。他的作品已被译成二十几种文字。
We all know the headiness and excitement of the early days of love. But what comes after? In Edinburgh, a couple, Rabih and Kirsten, fall in love. They get married, they have children—but no long-term relationship is as simple as “happily ever after.” The Course of Love is a novel that explores what happens after the birth of love, what it takes to maintain love, and what happens to our original ideals under the pressures of an average existence. You experience, along with Rabih and Kirsten, the first flush of infatuation, the effortlessness of falling into romantic love, and the course of life thereafter. Interwoven with their story and its challenges is an overlay of philosophy—an annotation and a guide to what we are reading.
This is a Romantic novel in the true sense, one interested in exploring how love can survive and thrive in the long term. The result is a sensory experience—fictional, philosophical, psychological—that urges us to identify deeply with these characters, and to reflect on his and her own experiences in love. Fresh, visceral, and utterly compelling, The Course of Love is a provocative and life-affirming novel for everyone who believes in love.
作者有敏锐的观察力,优美的文笔,但是也就到此为止了 -- 又或者,爱情也就只是如此这般的东西。不论爱上的是谁,和谁结为连理,都会变得憎恨对方,无性,对诱惑心头惴惴,在争吵和冷战中抚养大孩子,变老。 这种称为人生的旅程,名为婚姻的誓言里,你像感受病痛一样感受到了...
评分我终于明白了,一对夫妻如果想扛住漫长的婚姻岁月到白头,要么女方极能忍耐,要么男方深刻悔悟。我不够能忍,他也没有悔悟。所以分手是再自然不过的事情。 他期望我改变,我期望他改变,互相抱怨。 我冷静理智想讲道理,他喋喋不休尽爱废话,无法忍受。 他出轨是离婚的导火索,...
评分 评分在看其他心理学小说的时候,我会不由自主地被情节带入,进而开始自我剖析。边读边自我检视和反思的过程往往带给我很多领悟。但是这一次不同。 看这本书时,我的内心是抗拒的,用心理学的话来说,这是遇到了“阻抗”。书中描写夫妻间冲突、争执、冷战等情节的时候,仿佛把我父母...
评分在大部分爱情故事中,王子和公主经历重重险阻之后,有情人终成眷属之后就会戛然而止,以一句“live happily ever after(从此幸福的生活在一起)”草草结束。就好像这俩人不是结婚、而是死后上了天堂一样(可能讲出“婚姻是爱情的坟墓”的人也是这样想的)。这些从孩提时代就读...
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