The State of Affairs 在線電子書 圖書標籤: 婚姻 英文原版 心理 心理學 Relationship 兩性 sexuality relationship
發表於2025-03-27
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"All suffering prepares one for vision" // 故事想起來都心碎,道理討論起來又眼界大開(所以relationship的參與者都是在深挖“自我”+negotiate customized contract,要不然怎麼說relationship is so hard...啊我的腦子要壞掉瞭)
評分隻要能製造一個討論的缺口就足夠瞭
評分盡管案例有些雜亂,但是從中引齣的觀點和問題非常引人深思。很欣賞作者的態度:審慎和客觀地檢視每段關係,不妄下結論或貼標簽,巧妙地發問,且富有同理心。她的podcast也很棒。//書在快結尾的時候提到 “Marriage without virginity was once inconceivable. So, too, sex without marriage. We are touching the new frontier, where sex outside can live within a marriage.” 不禁感嘆我們真的太落後瞭…
評分很好的兩性關係解讀,無論是否齣軌,都很有幫助。 書摘在此: https://readings.posthaven.com/the-end-of-jobs-by-taylor-pearson-by-esther-perel
評分該說的話好好說,該體諒的不執著。
Esther Perel is a couples and family therapist with a private practice in New York City. She is on the faculty of the International Trauma Studies program at Columbia University, is a member of the American Family Therapy Academy, and has appeared on many television programs, including The Oprah Winfrey Show, Good Day New York, CBS This Morning, and HBO's Women Aloud. She lives in New York City with her husband and two children.
Iconic couples’ therapist and bestselling author of Mating in Captivity Esther Perel returns with a provocative look at relationships through the lens of infidelity.
Affairs, she argues, have a lot to teach us about the human heart—what we expect, what we think we want, and what we feel entitled to. They offer a unique window into our personal and cultural attitudes about love, lust, and commitment. Through examining illicit love from multiple angles, Perel invites readers into an honest, enlightened, and entertaining exploration of modern marriage in its many variations.
An affair: it can rob a couple of their relationship, their happiness, their very identity. And yet, this extremely common human experience is so poorly understood. Adultery has existed since marriage was invented, and so too the prohibition against it—in fact, it has a tenacity that marriage can only envy. So what are we to make of this time-honored taboo—universally forbidden yet universally practiced? Why do people cheat—even those in happy marriages? Why does an affair hurt so much? When we say infidelity, what exactly do we mean? Do our romantic expectations of marriage set us up for betrayal? Is there such a thing as an affair-proof marriage? Is it possible to love more than one person at once? Can an affair ever help a marriage? Perel weaves real-life case stories with incisive psychological and cultural analysis in this fast-paced and compelling book.
For the past ten years, Perel has traveled the globe and worked with hundreds of couples who have grappled with infidelity. Betrayal hurts, she writes, but it can be healed. An affair can even be the doorway to a new marriage—with the same person. With the right approach, couples can grow and learn from these tumultuous experiences, together or apart.
Fiercely intelligent, The State of Affairs provides a daring framework for understanding the intricacies of love and desire. As Perel observes, “Love is messy; infidelity more so. But it is also a window, like no other, into the crevices of the human heart.”
过去 20 年中,全球两性及婚姻关系大师埃丝特·佩瑞尔(Esther Perel),将大量精力投入对外遇问题的调查研究中。她走访了几千对有外遇问题的夫妻,希望搞明白:究竟如何定义出轨行为?人们出轨的动机究竟有哪些?出轨问题能教给我们什么? 她将答案写入这本《外遇问题》,本...
評分过去 20 年中,全球两性及婚姻关系大师埃丝特·佩瑞尔(Esther Perel),将大量精力投入对外遇问题的调查研究中。她走访了几千对有外遇问题的夫妻,希望搞明白:究竟如何定义出轨行为?人们出轨的动机究竟有哪些?出轨问题能教给我们什么? 她将答案写入这本《外遇问题》,本...
評分过去 20 年中,全球两性及婚姻关系大师埃丝特·佩瑞尔(Esther Perel),将大量精力投入对外遇问题的调查研究中。她走访了几千对有外遇问题的夫妻,希望搞明白:究竟如何定义出轨行为?人们出轨的动机究竟有哪些?出轨问题能教给我们什么? 她将答案写入这本《外遇问题》,本...
評分过去 20 年中,全球两性及婚姻关系大师埃丝特·佩瑞尔(Esther Perel),将大量精力投入对外遇问题的调查研究中。她走访了几千对有外遇问题的夫妻,希望搞明白:究竟如何定义出轨行为?人们出轨的动机究竟有哪些?出轨问题能教给我们什么? 她将答案写入这本《外遇问题》,本...
評分过去 20 年中,全球两性及婚姻关系大师埃丝特·佩瑞尔(Esther Perel),将大量精力投入对外遇问题的调查研究中。她走访了几千对有外遇问题的夫妻,希望搞明白:究竟如何定义出轨行为?人们出轨的动机究竟有哪些?出轨问题能教给我们什么? 她将答案写入这本《外遇问题》,本...
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