Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother 在線電子書 圖書標籤: 教育 美國 兒童教育 中國 英文原版 父母 為人父母 Chua
發表於2024-11-25
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Some may say Amy's suggestions seem a little bit extreme, whereas they were highly effective and useable, so before criticizing her coaching method, retrospect what your parents have done to make what you are today(likewise you and your own kids). Maybe prosperity can never last for generations, but philosophy can--to be exceptional
評分Amy Chua You're Not a Tiger Mother, Just a Psycho-Bitch
評分覺得書本前半部分有關教育方式教育理念已經被各媒體誇大瞭,其實後半部分LuLu開始反叛最後崩潰纔稍微能觸動人心一點
評分一口氣讀完,她的確是比一般中國父母還嚴格的虎媽,如一切真如文中所描述,就不難理解前一陣她在川普大法官風波裏的小插麯(讓女學生穿得更漂亮等)。不管怎麼說,她的行動語言或許讓旁人反感,但我卻很理解也在方法論上贊同(勤能補拙等),如果不對孩子做要求隻是傻玩,那孩子也大概率沒有成就,可事實上是誰又忍心(或有能力執行)對孩子如虎媽般那麼狠呢?
評分實在不知道,應該怎樣評價。隻能說是一種觀點,一種模式,是對是錯結果如何有太多因素決定,不是傢長一己之力就能導嚮的,比方說LULU最後的改變。
Amy Chua is the John M. Duff Professor of Law at Yale Law School. Her first book, World on Fire: How Exporting Free Market Democracy Breeds Ethnic Hatred and Global Instability, a New York Times bestseller, was selected by both The Economist and the U.K.'s Guardian as one of the Best Books of 2003. Her second book, Day of Empire: How Hyperpowers Rise to Global Dominance-and Why They Fall, was a critically acclaimed Foreign Affairs bestseller.
An awe-inspiring, often hilarious, and unerringly honest story of one mother's exercise in extreme parenting, revealing the rewards-and the costs-of raising her children the Chinese way.
All decent parents want to do what's best for their children. What Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother reveals is that the Chinese just have a totally different idea of how to do that. Western parents try to respect their children's individuality, encouraging them to pursue their true passions and providing a nurturing environment. The Chinese believe that the best way to protect your children is by preparing them for the future and arming them with skills, strong work habits, and inner confidence. Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother chronicles Chua's iron-willed decision to raise her daughters, Sophia and Lulu, her way-the Chinese way-and the remarkable results her choice inspires.
Here are some things Amy Chua would never allow her daughters to do:
have a playdate
be in a school play
complain about not being in a school play
not be the #1 student in every subject except gym and drama
play any instrument other than the piano or violin
not play the piano or violin
The truth is Lulu and Sophia would never have had time for a playdate. They were too busy practicing their instruments (two to three hours a day and double sessions on the weekend) and perfecting their Mandarin.
Of course no one is perfect, including Chua herself. Witness this scene:
"According to Sophia, here are three things I actually said to her at the piano as I supervised her practicing:
1. Oh my God, you're just getting worse and worse.
2. I'm going to count to three, then I want musicality.
3. If the next time's not PERFECT, I'm going to take all your stuffed animals and burn them!"
But Chua demands as much of herself as she does of her daughters. And in her sacrifices-the exacting attention spent studying her daughters' performances, the office hours lost shuttling the girls to lessons-the depth of her love for her children becomes clear. Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother is an eye-opening exploration of the differences in Eastern and Western parenting- and the lessons parents and children everywhere teach one another.
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在任何中文媒体上听到的对于这本书的评论:激起了西方父母的强烈不满。美国Amazon网站上对此书的评分,虽然不能算特别好,但是1000个评论李,5星和4星的评论占了将近64%。第一个评论说:“世界需要更多的像蔡美儿一样的虎妈。”而且有248个ID作了类似评论。仔细看这些评论,给...
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評分一直以来,国内都在推崇西方的母亲在生活中如何尊重孩子的自尊心,如何把夸奖孩子的话语挂在嘴边,因而如何成就了具有怎样怎样独立品格的下一代。这种观察颇有雾里看花的问题,忘记了如果在学业和能力的培养中同样需要“挫折教育”,西方母亲的做法一定程度上也是一种溺爱。 ...
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