Boundaries 在线电子书 图书标签: 心理学 relationship 成长 关系 Christian 自我管理 spiritual 英文原版
发表于2024-05-22
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Reference to the Bible makes it hard to follow.
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评分我的boundaries实在太糟糕了。那又怎么样,孩子的boundaries的作用大多数是来理解两岁之后人生的拒绝,做一个控制狂不是更开心吗,绝对优势策略https://archive.org/details/BOUNDARIESTheBook
评分D | 这本书是写给基督徒看的。不信上帝的我看的甚是拗口。所以扫了一眼就退了。不过无论如何,设置boundary都是很重要的。
评分非常赞的一本书,干货满满,花了差不多两个月才读完,并且尝试去做,感觉经历了一次奇妙的转变!几年前第一次读这本书的中文版,当时我的界限完全是混乱的,所以拿起来读的时候心中有种莫名其妙的怒气,一下子就把这本书丢掉了。但是经过我一年多在界限上的调整和突破,这些意味不明的经验经过这本书层层递进,清晰,丰富却简洁照亮,使我在智识上更加明白那些非常容易被混淆,让我们陷入困惑和伤害的真理。读完后心中充满了感激之情!也真实为自己能够坚持把这么厚一本书坚持不懈地读完感到骄傲!
Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend are popular speakers, psychologists, cohosts of the nationally broadcast New Life Live! radio program, and cofounders of Cloud-Townsend Clinic and Cloud-Townsend Resources. Both graduated with doctorates in clinical psychology from Rosemead Graduate School of Psychology at Biola University, and both maintain practices in Newport Beach, California. They are best-selling coauthors of several books, including How People Grow, Boundaries in Dating, Boundaries with Kids, The Mom Factor, Safe People, and Twelve "Christian" Beliefs Than Can Drive You Crazy. Dr. Cloud is the author of Change That Heal and Dr. Townsend is the author of Hiding from Love.
Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we are responsible. In other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are not. Boundaries impact all areas of our lives: Physical boundaries help us determine who may touch us and under what circumstances -- Mental boundaries give us the freedom to have our own thoughts and opinions -- Emotional boundaries help us to deal with our own emotions and disengage from the harmful, manipulative emotions of others -- Spiritual boundaries help us to distinguish God's will from our own and give us renewed awe for our Creator -- Often, Christians focus so much on being loving and unselfish that they forget their own limits and limitations. When confronted with their lack of boundaries, they ask:
- Can I set limits and still be a loving person?
- What are legitimate boundaries?
- What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries?
- How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money?
- Aren't boundaries selfish?
- Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries?
Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend offer biblically-based answers to these and other tough questions, showing us how to set healthy boundaries with our parents, spouses, children, friends, co-workers, and even ourselves.
我其实是为了学习如何养小孩才看这本书的。我非常希望能够培养一个独立,精神健康的宝宝。看了这书后,发现其实自己的问题最大了。我以前的生活目标就是尽可能地去帮助别人,宁可自己苦死,累死也要周围人快乐。结果就是自己真的要苦死,累死了,但有的时候别人还不高兴,还埋...
评分看完过犹不及了,不管作者怎么说,用什么例子或什么定义,我认为,全书在说的,就是“责任”二字,所谓界线,大约就是分清哪些是自己的责任,哪些是别人的责任,承担起自己的责任,就是爱自己,也是爱别人。因而,过份的自卑与过份的自恋都不是爱自己,因为这些都是可以产生后...
评分这本书不是人人都会觉得有意思,也不是一本思想非常卓越或者写作水平相当高超的书。我想它大概不会成为一本名著,也不会流芳百世,这一点从豆瓣上的阅读人数就可以看得出。 从神学角度看,这不是一本好的解经书。对圣经的引用既不系统,也有一些牵强。更根本地说,它的出发点就...
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