Boundaries 在线电子书 图书标签: 心理学 relationship 成长 关系 Christian 自我管理 spiritual 英文原版
发表于2025-03-31
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请想传教的作者在书上注明好吗????️听得我想和我therapist说不治了????
评分作者用了大量的例子和圣经的引用来解释边界,如何建立边界。很实用,但是,还是老话,要完全做到需要不断的实践。
评分作者用了大量的例子和圣经的引用来解释边界,如何建立边界。很实用,但是,还是老话,要完全做到需要不断的实践。
评分原来爱与界限不曾有矛盾
评分核心思想是极好的,摆脱掉基督教说教也能独立成书
Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend are popular speakers, psychologists, cohosts of the nationally broadcast New Life Live! radio program, and cofounders of Cloud-Townsend Clinic and Cloud-Townsend Resources. Both graduated with doctorates in clinical psychology from Rosemead Graduate School of Psychology at Biola University, and both maintain practices in Newport Beach, California. They are best-selling coauthors of several books, including How People Grow, Boundaries in Dating, Boundaries with Kids, The Mom Factor, Safe People, and Twelve "Christian" Beliefs Than Can Drive You Crazy. Dr. Cloud is the author of Change That Heal and Dr. Townsend is the author of Hiding from Love.
Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we are responsible. In other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are not. Boundaries impact all areas of our lives: Physical boundaries help us determine who may touch us and under what circumstances -- Mental boundaries give us the freedom to have our own thoughts and opinions -- Emotional boundaries help us to deal with our own emotions and disengage from the harmful, manipulative emotions of others -- Spiritual boundaries help us to distinguish God's will from our own and give us renewed awe for our Creator -- Often, Christians focus so much on being loving and unselfish that they forget their own limits and limitations. When confronted with their lack of boundaries, they ask:
- Can I set limits and still be a loving person?
- What are legitimate boundaries?
- What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries?
- How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money?
- Aren't boundaries selfish?
- Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries?
Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend offer biblically-based answers to these and other tough questions, showing us how to set healthy boundaries with our parents, spouses, children, friends, co-workers, and even ourselves.
这本书不是人人都会觉得有意思,也不是一本思想非常卓越或者写作水平相当高超的书。我想它大概不会成为一本名著,也不会流芳百世,这一点从豆瓣上的阅读人数就可以看得出。 从神学角度看,这不是一本好的解经书。对圣经的引用既不系统,也有一些牵强。更根本地说,它的出发点就...
评分 评分其实我可以说不,其实我可以不用负责别人的渴望 这本书让我对亲密关系有了顿悟,让我知道“说不并不等于不爱”,如果对方无法接受你的界限或者你的“不”,那迫使他们接受。否则,大家相互远离。而远离并不代表我是没有价值的,我是被抛弃的,这是对方无法接受独立的我而已,...
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