Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend are popular speakers, psychologists, cohosts of the nationally broadcast New Life Live! radio program, and cofounders of Cloud-Townsend Clinic and Cloud-Townsend Resources. Both graduated with doctorates in clinical psychology from Rosemead Graduate School of Psychology at Biola University, and both maintain practices in Newport Beach, California. They are best-selling coauthors of several books, including How People Grow, Boundaries in Dating, Boundaries with Kids, The Mom Factor, Safe People, and Twelve "Christian" Beliefs Than Can Drive You Crazy. Dr. Cloud is the author of Change That Heal and Dr. Townsend is the author of Hiding from Love.
Having clear boundaries is essential to a healthy, balanced lifestyle. A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things for which we are responsible. In other words, boundaries define who we are and who we are not. Boundaries impact all areas of our lives: Physical boundaries help us determine who may touch us and under what circumstances -- Mental boundaries give us the freedom to have our own thoughts and opinions -- Emotional boundaries help us to deal with our own emotions and disengage from the harmful, manipulative emotions of others -- Spiritual boundaries help us to distinguish God's will from our own and give us renewed awe for our Creator -- Often, Christians focus so much on being loving and unselfish that they forget their own limits and limitations. When confronted with their lack of boundaries, they ask:
- Can I set limits and still be a loving person?
- What are legitimate boundaries?
- What if someone is upset or hurt by my boundaries?
- How do I answer someone who wants my time, love, energy, or money?
- Aren't boundaries selfish?
- Why do I feel guilty or afraid when I consider setting boundaries?
Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend offer biblically-based answers to these and other tough questions, showing us how to set healthy boundaries with our parents, spouses, children, friends, co-workers, and even ourselves.
看这本书第一部分(前六章),心中给了3星的评价;看第二部分(界限的冲突)和第三部分前两章,感觉至少给4星评价,如果不是翻译文字比较拗口,我想5星都有可能。 为什么有这种感觉,可能和我已经看过《为孩子立界线》有关系,对界限十律熟悉了。不过《过犹不及》比《为孩子立...
評分我感觉界限疗法也属于一种叙事疗法。 “同理心”要求理解来访者,他的行为是有道理的,然后告诉他, 合理的未必是公理,公理也未必是真理。 这有点麻烦,何为真理?谁能回答? 世界观如此多元化,真理提得越来越少,合理成了目的。 这本书基于圣经原则,给了一把尺子,衡量何为...
評分看完过犹不及了,不管作者怎么说,用什么例子或什么定义,我认为,全书在说的,就是“责任”二字,所谓界线,大约就是分清哪些是自己的责任,哪些是别人的责任,承担起自己的责任,就是爱自己,也是爱别人。因而,过份的自卑与过份的自恋都不是爱自己,因为这些都是可以产生后...
評分阅读目标: 1.观察没有边界感的表现 2.分析没有边界感的原因 3.练习重新建立边界感的方式 *因圣经内容和判断性语句穿插,不确定本书是否能够达到以上目标。 第一章 关于界线的疑问 第二章 界线是啥 一、界限的定义 P23引- 我们必须对(to)别人与为(for)自己负责。 P24引-好...
評分我感觉界限疗法也属于一种叙事疗法。 “同理心”要求理解来访者,他的行为是有道理的,然后告诉他, 合理的未必是公理,公理也未必是真理。 这有点麻烦,何为真理?谁能回答? 世界观如此多元化,真理提得越来越少,合理成了目的。 这本书基于圣经原则,给了一把尺子,衡量何为...
作者用瞭大量的例子和聖經的引用來解釋邊界,如何建立邊界。很實用,但是,還是老話,要完全做到需要不斷的實踐。
评分對基督教背景的同學很有用,這本書教會我們如何成熟地去愛和拒絕, 怎樣成為像耶穌一樣的人。沒有背景的同學忽略宗教的部分,仍然能在做人和為人處世方麵學到很多道理和方法。
评分D | 這本書是寫給基督徒看的。不信上帝的我看的甚是拗口。所以掃瞭一眼就退瞭。不過無論如何,設置boundary都是很重要的。
评分Reference to the Bible makes it hard to follow.
评分D | 這本書是寫給基督徒看的。不信上帝的我看的甚是拗口。所以掃瞭一眼就退瞭。不過無論如何,設置boundary都是很重要的。
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