Julie Lythcott-Haims served as Dean of Freshmen and Undergraduate Advising for more than a decade at Stanford University, where she received the Dinkelspiel Award for her contributions to the undergraduate experience. A mother of two teenagers, she has spoken and written widely on the phenomenon of helicopter parenting, and her work has appeared on TEDx talks and in Forbes and the Chicago Tribune. She is pursuing an MFA in Creative Writing at California College of the Arts in San Francisco.
A provocative manifesto that exposes the harms of helicopter parenting and sets forth an alternate philosophy for raising preteens and teens to self-sufficient young adulthood
In How to Raise an Adult, Julie Lythcott-Haims draws on research, on conversations with admissions officers, educators, and employers, and on her own insights as a mother and as a student dean to highlight the ways in which overparenting harms children, their stressed-out parents, and society at large. While empathizing with the parental hopes and, especially, fears that lead to overhelping, Lythcott-Haims offers practical alternative strategies that underline the importance of allowing children to make their own mistakes and develop the resilience, resourcefulness, and inner determination necessary for success.
Relevant to parents of toddlers as well as of twentysomethings-and of special value to parents of teens-this book is a rallying cry for those who wish to ensure that the next generation can take charge of their own lives with competence and confidence.
这本书有点啰嗦,看似很厚,一个多小时就翻完了。更多的启发在于:家长的过度干预是背离育儿初衷的。????♀️ 每一章节后面都有【成长观察室】,作者用具体事例总结观点,而不是心理学的多个样本试验的结果。提倡家长放手,让孩子独立去面对整个世界。 孩子的成长必然都...
评分 评分1983年,美国《新闻周刊》发文《一大群“小皇帝”》,对中国实施计划生育后家庭教育情况进行了报道,特别指出“拜倒在孩子脚下的父母称孩子们是小皇帝,中国的报刊称他们是娇生惯养的孩子”。“小皇帝”一词由此风靡。1986年,报告文学《中国的“小皇帝”》对国内的独生子女教...
评分前斯坦福招生主任写的“如何养育成人”(意为:如何教养孩子让他们真正长大成人)一书。前半本絮絮叨叨、啰啰嗦嗦,基本在说一个事:不能over-parenting呀不能over-parenting。她号召家长、孩子们不要只紧盯那么有限的几个名校、而是全面的考量孩子的特点、着眼长期可持续发展...
评分mainly focused on u.s., some of the content are not suitable for chinese. someday, will be
评分作者读了好多育儿书啊
评分nothing unexpected. kids should do chores.
评分12%弃,我当然知道当代父母育儿方式前所未有,So what? 九斤老太会写书大抵如是。
评分我们为孩子所做的一切都是在为了他们离开我们的那天做准备。我们应该帮助他们适应社会,而不是将他们与社会隔离。不过说得轻松,在孩子的安全风险面前,哪个家长又真的能做到放手? 孩子最重要的品质是grit坚毅和面对挫折的自我修复力。至于他的考试成绩如何,能进什么学校,这些都是次要的。
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